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    1. Saint Satan

      What time is it, Mr. Wolf?

      Saint Satan replied to Emberfrost12 's topic in Creativity & Games
      Time to live my life XD Nah, it is 11:48, and time to do some maths revision ()
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    2. Megs-

      Mental health check in ❤️

      Megs- replied to Megs- 's topic in Mental Health & Wellness
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    3. Megs-

      Count to 10 million!

      Megs- replied to -Leila- 's topic in Creativity & Games
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    4. Megs-

      Mental health check in ❤️

      Megs- replied to Megs- 's topic in Mental Health & Wellness
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    5. Saint Satan

      Mental health check in ❤️

      Saint Satan replied to Megs- 's topic in Mental Health & Wellness
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    6. Megs-

      Mental health check in ❤️

      Megs- replied to Megs- 's topic in Mental Health & Wellness
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    7. Saint Satan

      Fave colour???

      Saint Satan replied to MoonieOwl 's topic in Chat
      *Pops up into existence* Ohhhh hello darlings x Tis I the ruler of the Cattle Cyclopsians. The only human form left on Erath. (Please see chapter 81 of the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy: Satans Saintanic Adventures- out now on Ditch the Label :) ) As King of the Catttleclopsians, I like the multitudinous rainbow of diversity and beauty and promote diversity and equality for all Cattleclopsians (Sorry I realize this is 3 years too late :( ) I have put my response in the poll above :)
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    8. Saint Satan

      Moral dilemma- I have a spider sense about people based on whether they are Queer or not.

      Saint Satan posted a topic in WWYD?
      So, I have a very big dilemma, with two parts to it. 1) I am very bad at making friends because I literally end up liking every person I'm friends with, but only if they are queer... It's like I make friends with people who are queer and just get on with them better than straight people because I can relate to them, they are non-judgmental and have a sort of empathy... But... anywho... Basically, I have a crush on this guy who we shall call Leo. Now, the thing is Leo doesn't like me back, and he is in a relationship with another person. But I like Leo, a lot and I really want to be his friend, but I recently had a friend I had a minor crush on and we fell out bc of it (I didn't tell him I liked him, I was just really nervous about talking to him and stuff), and in the past, I've had crushes on a lot of my friends, even though they weren't Queer, which isn't an issue at all, it's just they didn't like me back which I'm fine with, I just feel like i sort of set myself up for the rejection. I feel like I'm going insane bc I can't speak to him bc he is friends with the friend I fell out with and they always hang out, I can't get his number cuz I haven't spoken to him, (other than the fact like before Christmas he gave me a pride sticker and was being friendly around me) and every time I do I mess things up. But wait there's more: 2) I am starting to feel very uncomfortable in myself because I'm starting to wonder if I'm a transtrender (someone who identifies as trans to get attention and be popular) if I'm just straight if I'm a girl, a lesbian, or pansexual. And I have no idea what to do about it and I'm having a massive anxiety attack about it If someone had any advice at all so I can breathe properly and feel less like I'm faking my whole self I'd be very grateful
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    9. Saint Satan

      Music? Favorite bands and songs

      Saint Satan replied to Arsenal6473 's topic in General Questions
      Sorry this is over a year late, I just joined lol. Have you got any faves for the first two? Also what sorta music does Streetlight Manifesto do?
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    10. Saint Satan

      Music? Favorite bands and songs

      Saint Satan replied to Arsenal6473 's topic in General Questions
      @Arsenal6473 Ayyy a fellow Slipknot fan My favorite song is Before I Forget :) I also am really into Allie X, and love Wierd World from her new album. I have a very varied taste in music lol
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    11. Saint Satan

      Satans Satanic Adventures

      Saint Satan replied to Saint Satan 's topic in My Day/My Night
      Good day, my fellow people, It is currently the 24th of February 2024, which is weird in itself as it's a double date, but also because for me whenever a week or period of time goes by fast I feel like I've wasted it. I don't know how to describe it, but it's like all this stuff I've buried in my in that period of time awakens and I'm left feeling very negative and like I'm someone I'm not. Anywho, I wanted to start this blog with an introduction to a self-project that I have been working on to sort of manage my negative thinking and create a more positive space within myself, and has been growing massively since July 2023. This project is quite varied in what it has included, but there has been a lot of making playlists, and characters to continuously work on creating myself, and there are a lot of things in there that I think can be done for activities in this blog (such as music challenges) if anyone wants to get involved, and I shall talk about these in a related post to this one :) As an autistic individual who struggles greatly with his mental health, I find it helpful to have "projects" that can help me to have something to work on and distract me when I'm struggling and doing badly with my mental health. Since 2022 I have had 3 projects, this one being my most expansive one, that may continue to next year, all three focusing on character creating as I feel like I don't know who I am, and I do a lot of work on Meiker and Pinterest to create these characters I can become in my daily life, to focus on my well-being and manage looking after myself. I shall show some examples of characters in the post with activities following this, as I'm not sure how to upload photos aha But, I hope you enjoy hearing more about this project and ones to follow, and if you would like me to write about anything specific I would be happy to hear any ideas and suggestions you may have! Saint :)
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    12. Saint Satan

      Satans Satanic Adventures

      Saint Satan posted a topic in My Day/My Night
      Hey, my name is Saint, and I am a student, artist, writer, and Queer neuro-divergent person (pronouns he/him) who is on a mission to start an online blog to share my chaotic world with others outside of my self, and gain confidence speaking to others and making friends. I hope you take the time to get to know me, and look forward to getting to know y'all :) Side note: because I'd like to remain mysterious in this blog i will not say much about myself for now other than the fact that I'm currently learning new skills for making communicating with others easier (I struggle a lot with this as a neuro-divergent) including learning sign language (any help with this would be greatly appreciated), I have a very "emo" music taste, and hopefully like some people here, Im addicted to pintrest. Hope you decide to venture on the chaoisty (curiosity & chaos) that comes with this blog, Saint :)
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    13. Saint Satan

      Satans Satanic Adventures

      Saint Satan replied to Saint Satan 's topic in Welcome Party
      Hello, nice to cybermeet you too :) I am finding it to be very good so far and everyone has been really kind and supportive :D
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    14. Saint Satan

      Mental health check in ❤️

      Saint Satan replied to Megs- 's topic in Mental Health & Wellness
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    15. Flooo

      Friendship situation about jealousy (I couldn't find a better title sorry)

      Flooo replied to Flooo 's topic in Friends & Family
      Assignment again! Well, something with Best friend 1 happened tonight so I thought I might talk about it here. So basically I was doing Duolingo when she texted me and asked if she coukd say something personnal. I said sure, and she told me that she was kind of passed at my twin this week. I asked her why and she said that they don't really think alike and that she was doing friendly jokes but my twin didn't find them funny. Her jokes were mostly stealing my sister's stuff and finding it funny when she was panicking because she didn't find her schoolbook and there was 3 minutes left to the break. I understand hiw my sister felt bevajse I would've been angry top, but Best friend 1 did nkt seem to know that. She asked for solutions so Jntokd her maybe she and my twin could have a discussion about the things they both don't like and try to solve them. But, it was kind of a stupid idea becahse she doesn't like discussion, and she made jt clear in her response, so I tried to find other solutions but she didn't really want to do something about the situation, she more wanted to vent I think. But then, she said Can I say something that is funny? And I said Of course, but her funny thing is: " I'm kinda the one who made this friend group and now I'm the one who wants to leave the most" And it's just that she oftehs say stuff like" I want to leave" or "I hate this friendgroup haha" or "It's so ironic it's funny", but I don't really think it's funny. I kinda feel horrible because she is hinting hard that she wants to leave this friend group and she told me once that it was better if she left bevause she couldn't share me with the others, and I just felt guilty, because in some way it's my fault if she doesn't like her social life and I'm the only thing that's really making her stay and if she's unhappy then I want her to be happy but if happy means leaving then it's my fault if she leaves the group and that I cannot forgive. I am wondering if I should maybe talk to her? Because she seems to have issues at the same intensity as before. I mean, it was kjnd of bold of me to assume things were better too But also, she mentioned she wasn't getting along well with my twin, and that just brings last year all over again. I don't remember if I mentioned it before, but we were ever first friends so it's normal if she acted like that. But, she used to say really mean stuff to my twin, make lists on who she wanted to hurt first between us (me and my twin) and her guy friend, she used to randomly twist our arms, etc. She clearly changed and now she's an amazing person (and she was before) but my twin didn't forgave her. Well, she forgave her, but not fully like me. And last year, we broke our friendship and went in separate ways for months before re-being friends. But I just don't want that to happen again. Also, my twin is harsh on Best friend 1 too, in my opinion, and sometimes she is a bit too much, and I understand how that can irritate her. But J just donxtbwant last year to happen again. I was kind of in the middle of this, because I needed to choose between my friend and my twin and that was not fun. So yeah, I'm just wondering of after tonight I should make a conversation, or I should wait for a therapist to help her and in the meanwhile support her the best I can in ger issues? Sometimes I just feel horrible because all of this is my fault even my parent's money problems because I just exist and sometimes I think all my friend sthey have my twin to replace me and my parents shave two other kids so what's the matter really if I die But sometimes I just don't feel guilty at all and I tell myself I should feel guilty and I'm horrible for not feeling gusty but I try hard and sometimes I feel horrible for not being guilty which js strangely satisfactory because then I think I am a "decent person" but sometimes I just totally don't and then call myself bad until I do to prove I am a good person and that doesn't make any sense and I explain it really bad Also sorry for writing this, I don't know if it's necessary but it was about the situation jn my opinions it fits? Also as I need to go watch a TV show with my family cause it's Friday so I can't recheck for typing mistakes and other things like that Okay this is WAY out of context but I recently finished (like 4 days ago) a TV show that had 15 seasons and was kind kf my whole life and the only escape I had and I'm not even realizing it yet but ifnI really think about it I'm going to be so so sad so I've been pushing this at the back kf my mind and am currently watching old episodes that were my favorites but it just feels empty now , it was like a huge part of my life for only this year but it still feels long I just wanted to share that because I have no one to really Have a great day!
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    16. Megs-

      Query about the guidelines for submitting replies to others posts

      Megs- replied to Saint Satan 's topic in Welcome Party
      It definitely didn’t sound weird at all, thank you
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    17. Flooo

      Friendship situation about jealousy (I couldn't find a better title sorry)

      Flooo replied to Flooo 's topic in Friends & Family
      Hi Aurora! Thanks for the message I totally don't mind, take your time too and have some days off too Thanks haha, it's really nice to hear (well technically read but you know what I mean) I kinda felt like I was the only one doing this, so I guess it's kind of comforting haha.. I kind of want to say that all of those reasons are in my situation? I have a lot of things that are triggering about the past and I have a deep fear of being judged because one of my main unconscious goal in my opinion is to be perfect (this is just something I think I noticed about myself). This doesn't excuse anything, but maybe I can understand a bit better. I definitely need to take a step back. So, most of the signs that I think tell I'm going in an argument is mostly when those factors happen: (it's not really factors, it's more recurring situations, if that doesn't help I'm sorry) - I do something that's not that important but my twin seems greatly hurt - she looks really hurt and ask me why I did that - I feel bad and I go all defensive and then it starts Or, she does something that irritates me and I tell her (I swear I tell her like that) gently if she can not do it and then she goes on on how I always critique her and she does nothing wrong and I care about my little person instead if her and then I go defensive, I hurt her, she cries and goes to my parents and they listen to her and then I'm really angry and I keep interrupting her to make comments to clarify things that make me look like a monster (but this I'm going to be honest I never deny the things I really sajd) and then I am expulsed from the rooms and I look back at my behavior and feel like the most horrible being with all my comments because they are really hurtful Also, my sister sees a therapist because she has some special condition (both my brother and my sister have special conditions) and that means that basically she wants her day to be perfect according to her toile (I don't know the word in English sorry) of vibes and I generally ruin it by (most commonly) talking about school. But I shouldn't take this personally (if the sky isn't blue, it can break her vibe so it's not that personnal) but I can't help but feel like I wasn't that much in the wrong sometimes But when her toile (sorry) is broken, she is going to jump while holding her head and then cry and throw things and that makes me feel super guilty because my parents look so tired and well it's my fault she's in that state The arguments with my parents are more about they say something about me and they think I can't hear them (I am always in weird places in the house and they always think I am in my room which sometimes does that they start talking about this and that about me and I'm five meters away, just in the stairs) and then I'm irritated and they don't understand why I am and they call me Grinch or pessimist and that makes me feel angry and I say bad stuff and I go to my room Or I am really stressed about school and exams that I am really irritated and my mom laughs a bit at me because I'm stressed but it's "not a big deal" and for me it is the mount everest and I'm irritated and say replies that are mean and how to my room Well that went quite off subject I think I should take a step back mostly when I feel I'm being irritated. That's when I say hurtful stuff, and stepping back then can help because then everyone is calm and I can solve it instead of making it worse But really, the signs are mostly when I feel irritated, because there isn't an argument before I feel that but after then it comes, so I'll try to take a step back when I start feeling like it. Thanks for the convo tips, they are really helping. I think that if she says something that makes me uncomfortable or ask for help again, I am going to make a conversation using those tips and find a plan to work on it. These days she seems fine with her issues but the next time I'm going to talk to her. If nothing happens until she's fourteen then she can work on those with a therapist. Is that a good plan? You can give your opinion if you want to Thanks for the article, it's really helpful Some of my message might have been really off of the topic and I don't know if J'm going to erase it (if I do then this is nkt going to be here I guess) There's also some things that aren't in the friendship situation but I kinda went to talk about it? Alright I guess So, just being around other people make me feel so tired. Like, if someone talks to me and I've been in a social environment for a couple of minutes I'm going to feel so tired. If I talk with them for 2 minutes I'm not even sure I can stand it. I don't know what this means or if I'm overreacting or being very dramatic Also it's just something that's happened a lot in the last two years that even though it's no big deal, I think, irritates me. So, my friends and I like to talk in English because it's fun and also people don't really understand and we're a bunch of introverts who would be embarrassed if people just talked to us so it's really fine with us. But, other people, they randomly come up to us in class or breaks or projects and say: "We're not in English class, stop talking in English you're so annoying" and then my twin who's an extrovert often tells them "We're not even talking to you" and I sont know if that infuriates them more.. Also now sometimes the boys just throw like food at us and then when we look at them they mimick us and are like "Stop Looking at me" in an imitating childish way in English, or just our nicknames are Les Anglaises which doesn't even make sense and today my twin and another friend (I never talked about her here, she's super chill clam and funny) they were practicing their oral presentation and it was for English class so of course they were speaking in English and those 6 girls came up to them and told them to stop speaking English and that they were annoying and then a girl from my class who was always really nice to me went to my twin and friend and told them "Yeah it's true you're so annoying" and after a while my twin heard the girls saying to the girl from my class "Omg how can you even stand them for a whole day" but I just don't understand how we affect them and also we talk to no one like literally no one except teachers because weirdly we have better relationships with the English, Geo, History, Math teachers and the Director I mean maybe they don't like us because of the political reason (like protection of French cause we're the only province that speaks french) but English is also the national language and I don't even think they know the political issue so I don't think it's that This probably sounded like "I am not like other girls" or "I'm so smart I speak another language" but I swear I don't think like that I swear Well that message went a lot of way off I hope you have a great day!
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    18. Saint Satan

      Query about the guidelines for submitting replies to others posts

      Saint Satan replied to Saint Satan 's topic in Welcome Party
      Hey, sorry this is super late, I've been working all day and didn't have a chance to log on till now, thank you for confirming that, and thank you for the welcome, I've been really happy with this space so far, and hope to continue to meet other helpful and kind individuals like yourself :) (Sorry I don't know if that sounded weird, thank you for the help tho aha).
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    19. Coyotea

      The Coyotea’s Den

      Coyotea replied to Coyotea 's topic in My Day/My Night
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    20. Emberfrost12

      The Coyotea’s Den

      Emberfrost12 replied to Coyotea 's topic in My Day/My Night
      This topic contains content which has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Blood/Graphic Description, Death, Disordered Eating, Hate, Mental Illness, Other, Self-Harm, Suicide, Trauma, Heavy emotion, Sex, Sexual Assault & Rape
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