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one of my best friends reached out to me. he asked why we (me and our other best friend) care about him. and we talked, and he told me about one time that he almost completely gave up. and we were the reason he pulled out of it

and i'm just feeling so emotional right now.  i remember that time. i was so scared that he was going to give up, and i am so incredibly grateful that our efforts were enough.

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5 hours ago, Bisexual Soprano said:

one of my best friends reached out to me. he asked why we (me and our other best friend) care about him. and we talked, and he told me about one time that he almost completely gave up. and we were the reason he pulled out of it

and i'm just feeling so emotional right now.  i remember that time. i was so scared that he was going to give up, and i am so incredibly grateful that our efforts were enough.

Hi @Bisexual Soprano,

That sounds really tough for you and your friends to hear about. Are you OK?

I can tell this friend really appreciates you both and wanted you to know how they really feel and felt at that time. How did it feel to hear that? Do you think your friend is saying this because they are doing better now or are you still worried about them?

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18 hours ago, Duckie said:

Hi @Bisexual Soprano,

That sounds really tough for you and your friends to hear about. Are you OK?

I can tell this friend really appreciates you both and wanted you to know how they really feel and felt at that time. How did it feel to hear that? Do you think your friend is saying this because they are doing better now or are you still worried about them?

I'm doing alright, but I am still worried about him.  It's going to take time for him to get better.

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10 hours ago, Bisexual Soprano said:

I'm doing alright, but I am still worried about him.  It's going to take time for him to get better.

This makes complete sense, also, we are here as well if you need the space to talk more about this 🙂

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On 3/2/2024 at 12:24 AM, Bisexual Soprano said:

I'm doing alright, but I am still worried about him.  It's going to take time for him to get better.

Hi @Bisexual Soprano, I just wanted to check in with you and see how you are doing? How is your friend? Do you mind me asking, if he is getting any additional support at all eg from a counsellor or mental health services? If not, do you think that's something he would consider to help him get better? 

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On 3/8/2024 at 2:21 AM, Aurora said:

Hi @Bisexual Soprano, I just wanted to check in with you and see how you are doing? How is your friend? Do you mind me asking, if he is getting any additional support at all eg from a counsellor or mental health services? If not, do you think that's something he would consider to help him get better? 

Thanks for checking in.  My friend is unfortunately not getting any support from mental health services, although I'm not sure how much it would help him.

On the note of how I'm doing, not well at all.  My grandpa died on Saturday and it's been a huge mess.

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1 hour ago, Bisexual Soprano said:

Thanks for checking in.  My friend is unfortunately not getting any support from mental health services, although I'm not sure how much it would help him.

On the note of how I'm doing, not well at all.  My grandpa died on Saturday and it's been a huge mess.

Hi @Bisexual Soprano,

I'm sorry to hear that you're not doing well and that you've lost your grandpa. I can only imagine how this must make you feel. Where you and your grandpa close? ❤️ I am terribly sorry for your loss. Whether you expected this or not, it is still a bit shock. Are you able to get some rest and mourn?

Sorry to hear that your friend isn't currently accessing any mental health support... might be worth trying it though, as he seems really low. Can also advice on some free local support groups if that is of interest to your friend.

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23 hours ago, Bisexual Soprano said:

Thanks for checking in.  My friend is unfortunately not getting any support from mental health services, although I'm not sure how much it would help him.

On the note of how I'm doing, not well at all.  My grandpa died on Saturday and it's been a huge mess.

I can see that @Duckie has already replied to your post but I just wanted to say that I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa. Sending you much strength. We're here for you if you would like to talk about it. Please don't feel you have to though - just know that we are here for you if you need us 🫂

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On 3/11/2024 at 11:57 AM, Bisexual Soprano said:

Thanks for checking in.  My friend is unfortunately not getting any support from mental health services, although I'm not sure how much it would help him.

On the note of how I'm doing, not well at all.  My grandpa died on Saturday and it's been a huge mess.

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