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ik it’s harder when you feel like they won’t understand or see you for the amazing person you are. if they constantly change it you have to show them who you are and not that your never gonna change who you are to make who you are, even if they don’t believe you

That's what I thought too. The thing is, they will constantly be trying to change it. They will not believe me.

They have disliked and been weird about the community. That's is one reason I don't want to tell them but I hate keeping these things from them. It feels like I am keeping a whole part of me away from them. I am also not very liked by either one of my parents, which really sucks. They both favor all of my other siblings (5) and they just leave me out of things. One time, they all went to the movies when I was home. They 'forgot' to buy me a ticket. My mom said she thought I was going to a friends, but I had told her about two days before that I wasn't going anymore. Anyway, I know that coming out is something that I should do. I think what I will do is wait for some more weeks, and have a backup plan. Also, thank you. You are also a MAGNIFICENT individual!!!! <3

So, i’ve known Jerry since middle school (we’re both junior’s this yr) every time jerry sees him he dabs me up he smiles at me and gives me still weird looks which i get weird looks all the time but not from jerry anyway i started thinking about him all the time, anytime his name comes up i smile, when i see him i smile, when we talk i smile and so does he. But idk if he likes me or if he’s just being friendly. A friend of mine that used to talk to me and she told me everything about him, i just don’t want to ask him out or something and he turns him down and our friendship is weird what do i do?

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honestly it’s okay to feel the way you do about your best friend when you’ve liked her for 8 yrs and nothing has happened, you shouldn’t feel a kind of way because she might have feelings for you now which isn’t fair anyone especially you. While you might have hurt this girl that your now with you have to show her that you love her and that your all in because maybe she doesn’t feel reassured after you broke up with her in the first place, she might still feel the same way but now it’s hard for her to empathize with you after the break up. your not too ugly, you don’t need plastic surgery i know it’s really hard to get those thoughts out of your mind, i know on a personal level how that is and how that can affect your relationships and friendships, honestly idk how to help you with that. people tell me the same thing when i saw im ugly and fat but they don’t understand what it’s like to live in my head and they don’t understand that i have to fake be confident and i question myself everyday. so i understand more than you know and im always here to here you out. Teachers are always gonna be in your business until you leave school and you kinda gonna accept it. maybe you guys need to sit down and talk to see what’s going on especially if you feel like you’re forcing her to stay, which i can tell by your words that you love her but a relationship isn’t the thing she needs right now but you needs to be to herself which i know that sounds scary we’re all kids and we’ve all felt that way bout someone. you might have been ready to get back in a relationship with her did you ever think she was ready? when a situation happens to a girl we tend to feel used and unloved maybe that’s how she’s feeling right now plus with all the other things she’s going. what if you start having feeling for your best friend again? then what? (sorry it’s long)

That sounds really bad I'm sorry I'm just not thinking clearly at the moment. If she reads this, I just really want her to know that I love her, more than anything if'd previously spent a year with her and I loved every part of it, my only regret was ending it, and not being there when she needed it, she keeps thinking I'm using her, but I would never, she's amazing, idk what I've done to deserve her, but I'm so grateful for her. Before we met I was really depressed, but then I met her and I fell in love with her sense of humour, her kindness and the fact that I can be myself with her (remember guys, it's not all about looks!) it honestly feels like I've met the one even though part of me still believes love is only true in fairy tales lol but honestly, I'm so grateful for her, and I just want her to know that I love her so much more than I showed, I could never stop smiling when I talked about her to friends, they all said she wasn't who she said she was mainly cause we're long distance, but despite that, I didn't care because I'm honestly genuinely in love with her. Her dad thought I was grooming her but I'm really not, words cannot describe how happy and comfortable I feel with her, she's honestly wonderful, I don't usually say I've found the one, but I think I've found the one

I’m very comfortable with both of them but mostly A. Once M and me started talking on snap it was going good but then he told me he had a small dick but ion don’t really care about things like that but i dont really like M like i like A so when M told me this i told A and he tried to tell me i was sad for caring about size what thats not what it was about and it’s hard to have feelings for A when i know he only wants to be friends and be sneaky links which im ok with but i also feel like i was making an effort to try to come meet A but he didn’t want too but he doesn’t make me feel like im being played, when a guy at my school was talking shit about me A was there for me and he told me i was pretty, thick, and that wht tht dude said should have no effect on me and M has never done but i just don’t know what to do, now i’ve started trying to push those feelings out of my mind and i just liking a guy that goes to my school but idk what to do anymore if im being honest. Thank you so much @Luie for the warm thank you i’ve been talking to another digital mentor about another thing which she has been really helpful with so thank you to you both!

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I'm probably a bad bf for doing that but, idk she already thinks I'm using her, so I don't want to keep saying stuff like that I'm not using her BTW I really do love her, I think I just need to calm down I understand she's going through a lot idk what it is but I do understand that so I'm just trying to take things easy and slowly between us because I'm what mind will do if I don't take it easy. Do you think I should ask her what's going on? I've been meaning to but like I said i don't want to mention it and make her more upset should I ask her?

The two boys are demons or at least one of them is and the reason i know she is a little girl is cause i can see and talk to them and she told me. I can mostly see and talk to ghoust and spirts I know there is a name for that but i don't know what it is.

No but idk if I should ask, in case it upsets her even more if what it is is upsetting her I don't want to make her worse

Has she said what’s she’s going through?

I hear you, A is easy to talk with and you've liked him since a few months now. M as well is someone you can keep talking with and he did make the first move of following you and texted as well. I totally see why you're conflicted about this situation. Firstly, I want to check with you about your level of comfort and safety with either of these boys, how do you feel about that?

I also feel like I'm forcing the person I'm with to stay, even though she says she's going through a hard time which she is but I feel like I'm forcing her to stay, looking at the messages I'm getting that vibe, I could be wrong, but it just feels that way I talked to her about it but she said she's going through a hard time so maybe I should just see things through idk tho

Heyy @Everybody_luv_jae, I am Luie, one of the support mentors with Ditch the Label. I see that you're new to our platform and wanted to give you a warm welcome. If you would like to speak one to one about anything personal, please do send through a request on confidential support tab right next to the blogs in top of the navigation bar; one of the support mentors will respond to you. We are so glad to have you join us on community here.

Also, to make matters worse my teachers are on my case about pretty much everything one of them signed me up to this thing I don't want to to do, I told my ta that but she insisted that I go saying, oh come on, it'll be fun!, it probably will be but I don't want to do it but I also don't want to disappoint them even though I don't want to do it so I guess I'm stuck doing something I don't want to do