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IS HE INTO ME OR DO I NEED TO MOVE ON. PLEASE HELP!!!
Luie replied to ribboness 's topic in Sexuality, Dating & RelationshipsHeyy @ribboness, I am Luie, one of the other support mentors with DTL. I thought I'll jump in while @Aurora is offline, hope you do not mind. But if you'd like to wait for her do let me know and that's cool too, whatever is best for you. So, I totally get why you're feeling so confused right now. Mixed signals are the worst because they keep you guessing and stuck in this weird in-between space. It sounds like this guy has you intrigued, but his behaviour is making it hard for you to figure out what he really wants. Also, it's interesting that when you were talking, he didn't flirt back but also didn't shut you down, which can be super confusing. It sounds like he might be interested but is either unsure how to show it or maybe just enjoys the attention without wanting to commit to anything more. Him liking your stories every now and then could mean he still thinks about you or finds you attractive, but it might not be a clear sign of anything deeper. I think it's great that you acknowledged what you'd tell a friend in this situation, in my experience, sometimes it’s easier to see things clearly when it's someone else. If another guy isn't appealing to you right now, that's totally okay too. It’s normal to want clarity from the one person who's on your mind. How about this: You could try reaching out to him one more time and see how he responds. Maybe bring up something casual and see if he shows more interest or if the conversation feels one-sided again. That way, you might get a better sense of where he stands. Another thing you might want to do is focus on something you enjoy or start a new hobby. It can help distract you from overthinking about him and give you something positive to look forward to. What do you think? Does that sound like something you might want to try?3 -
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IS HE INTO ME OR DO I NEED TO MOVE ON. PLEASE HELP!!!
ribboness replied to ribboness 's topic in Sexuality, Dating & Relationshipshihi! thanks for responding!! tbh im not sure what to think because getting mixed signals from him is sooo confusing. its not that i dont trust him i just dont really know him like that yk? and yes he is on my mind way to much but also I think its bc both the fact that he is soooo my type and that he is giving mixed signals. Maybe him just liking my stories is not a sign that he's into me and he's just doing it in a casual and more friendly way but also I have no idea. bc when we were talking I think I made it obvious I likes him bit he never flirted back but he also didn't change the subject or ghost me which is what most ppl would do if they don't feel the same way. He was sort of igniting it now that I think about it. but he kept finding ways to keep taking to me so idkkk. ugh he's so confusing. if my friend was in my situation id tell her to get over it and move on bc he's not doing anything about it when oyther guys are. but I don't what other guyssss. so confusing I wish he would just block me lmao.3 -
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