Megs- Posted September 21 Share Posted September 21 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Suicide Click this notice to reveal the content. On 9/20/2024 at 4:14 PM, Mestizo said: I’m glad you have a friend you could reach out to. Even though you’ve shared with them previously it is okay to continue to share how you are doing, even if things have not changed much or at all. Good friends know how to listen and just be present with you. It isn’t always about them having a solution. It usually just about them being there and having someone to turn to that will listen. I do hope you reach out if you feel like you need it. Take good care of yourself @Angy Cat. You matter. Agree with this you’re so kind mestizo 3 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-116847 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilie Posted October 19 Share Posted October 19 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. Hey @Angy Cat I hope you’re ok!! With my message recently, sorry I didn’t update sooner on the vent chat, I got carried away with a load of emails and my CBT-T. Monday, I was in hospital for my mental health, I got discharged Tuesday at like half four .. I also had hypoglycaemia, so it was good that I was checked by a paramedic. Tuesday I shouldn’t have gone into college but I did, I regret that I did because a student became aggressive towards me and staff members didn’t help..so I’m most likely leaving college and I have an appointment Thursday with a Careers advisor. I'm thinking to do an apprenticeship.. I had calls and visits from social services and crisis team, then calls from the hospital to refer me to the domestic team..thank goodness feeling rough catching up on sleep I think Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117894 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 19 Share Posted October 19 (edited) This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 4 hours ago, Lilie said: Hey @Angy Cat I hope you’re ok!! With my message recently, sorry I didn’t update sooner on the vent chat, I got carried away with a load of emails and my CBT-T. Monday, I was in hospital for my mental health, I got discharged Tuesday at like half four .. I also had hypoglycaemia, so it was good that I was checked by a paramedic. Tuesday I shouldn’t have gone into college but I did, I regret that I did because a student became aggressive towards me and staff members didn’t help..so I’m most likely leaving college and I have an appointment Thursday with a Careers advisor. I'm thinking to do an apprenticeship.. I had calls and visits from social services and crisis team, then calls from the hospital to refer me to the domestic team..thank goodness feeling rough catching up on sleep I think Hey @Lilie I’m really sorry you’ve been through so much . It sounds exhausting, but I’m glad you’re getting support now. Take all the time you need to rest and recover :(( your well-being comes first I’m here for you! sending you virtual hugs. Edited October 19 by Angy Cat Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117904 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilie Posted October 19 Share Posted October 19 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 52 minutes ago, Angy Cat said: Hey @Lilie I’m really sorry you’ve been through so much . It sounds exhausting, but I’m glad you’re getting support now. Take all the time you need to rest and recover :(( your well-being comes first I’m here for you! sending you virtual hugs. @Angy Cat thank you so much, virtual big hugs you mean so much to me!! I didn’t wake up until 11:30 having a nightmare, but it’s the most I slept in ages. I did wake up at half four though. I hope I’ll get there someday.. my pastoral asked me if I was well enough to attend college. I’m supposed to be in college next week, I’m coming in Tuesday, but I won’t be Wednesday because I’ve decided to go to my volunteering work. thank you, I’ll try my best How are you? I missed you!! Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117921 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 15 hours ago, Lilie said: @Angy Cat thank you so much, virtual big hugs you mean so much to me!! I didn’t wake up until 11:30 having a nightmare, but it’s the most I slept in ages. I did wake up at half four though. I hope I’ll get there someday.. my pastoral asked me if I was well enough to attend college. I’m supposed to be in college next week, I’m coming in Tuesday, but I won’t be Wednesday because I’ve decided to go to my volunteering work. thank you, I’ll try my best How are you? I missed you!! I’m glad you got some rest, even with the nightmare :(( it sounds like you really needed it. I'm glad you're taking things at your own pace I missed you too! I’m trying my best, I don't know if it's the meds making me feel like this. :( 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117958 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilie Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 2 minutes ago, Angy Cat said: I’m glad you got some rest, even with the nightmare :(( it sounds like you really needed it. I'm glad you're taking things at your own pace I missed you too! I’m trying my best, I don't know if it's the meds making me feel like this. :( Thank you, yeah definitely! I’m starting to feel like I’m catching up a bit but I’m still so very exhausted it goes up and down tbh.. I’ll try to take things slowly. Yeah, thank you, I’ll try my best Aww bless you, I understand it, I’m on like five different medications I’m always here for you, up to much lately? Sending big hugs 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117960 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 1 hour ago, Angy Cat said: I’m glad you got some rest, even with the nightmare :(( it sounds like you really needed it. I'm glad you're taking things at your own pace I missed you too! I’m trying my best, I don't know if it's the meds making me feel like this. :( Have you spoken to someone about the meds, a psychiatrist? Especially if you’re unsure about them! Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117964 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 19 minutes ago, Megs- said: Have you spoken to someone about the meds, a psychiatrist? Especially if you’re unsure about them! It’s been almost two weeks since I started taking the medication, but I haven’t spoken to my psychiatrist yet. I've been feeling really tired lately. Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117966 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 1 hour ago, Lilie said: Thank you, yeah definitely! I’m starting to feel like I’m catching up a bit but I’m still so very exhausted it goes up and down tbh.. I’ll try to take things slowly. Yeah, thank you, I’ll try my best Aww bless you, I understand it, I’m on like five different medications I’m always here for you, up to much lately? Sending big hugs I'm so proud of you@Lilie! I know it's not easy, but you've shown how strong and resilient you are. Every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory and you're doing amazing! you've got this! 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117967 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 6 minutes ago, Angy Cat said: It’s been almost two weeks since I started taking the medication, but I haven’t spoken to my psychiatrist yet. I've been feeling really tired lately. Whatever the medication is it can have side affects, I know from my medications it can take up to months ( for mine to work or aside affects to disappear) so give it time, unfortunately tiredness is a symptom of side affects for multiple medications, so it’s not unusual to feel tired. If it’s getting an issue then I’d personally speak to whoever prescribed you the medication…. 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117968 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 What can you do for yourself thats easy and not to difficult especially if you’re feeling sleepy, what do you enjoy? Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117971 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 2 minutes ago, Megs- said: Whatever the medication is it can have side affects, I know from my medications it can take up to months ( for mine to work or aside affects to disappear) so give it time, unfortunately tiredness is a symptom of side affects for multiple medications, so it’s not unusual to feel tired. If it’s getting an issue then I’d personally speak to whoever prescribed you the medication…. Thank you so much, I’ll try to get through it. Maybe I’ll visit my psychiatrist next week. :( I just don’t have the energy for it this week. thank youuu Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117972 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Angy Cat said: Thank you so much, I’ll try to get through it. Maybe I’ll visit my psychiatrist next week. :( I just don’t have the energy for it this week. thank youuu That’s okay, like I said they’ll probably recommend you try sit it out and to try let it work and I know its hard trying to get past side affects and they’re nasty but unfortunately I wish they never existed but they do, but maybe for the next few weeks to try and see if the medication will kick in is to sit it out, like I said above what can you do for yourself right now? Something kind. Edited October 20 by Megs- Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117973 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilie Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Heavy emotion, Other, Suicide, Violence Click this notice to reveal the content. 12 minutes ago, Angy Cat said: I'm so proud of you@Lilie! I know it's not easy, but you've shown how strong and resilient you are. Every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory and you're doing amazing! you've got this! Awww thank you that’s so sweet of you to say! It feels hard and it finest feel like I’m strong enough to get through this a lot of the times, so thank you so saying that, it really means a lot to me 🩵 Please remember, you are also so very resilient, compassionate and so caring! You’ll always have us! also with your medication, I’d agree with what @Megs is saying, bless you! Sending the biggest hugs to everyone! 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117974 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 3 minutes ago, Megs- said: That’s okay, like I said they’ll probably recommend you try sit it out and to try let it work and I know its hard trying to get past side affects and they’re nasty but unfortunately I wish they never existed but they do, but maybe for the next few weeks to try and see if the medication will kick in is to sit it out, like I said above what can you do for yourself right now? Something kind. Lately, I’ve mostly just been listening to music, not really sure what else to do. I can push myself to play some relaxing games, and I had planned to work on my handwriting too. Actually I might start playing minecraft again 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117975 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilie Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 1 minute ago, Angy Cat said: Lately, I’ve mostly just been listening to music, not really sure what else to do. I can push myself to play some relaxing games, and I had planned to work on my handwriting too. Actually I might start playing minecraft again Aww Yeahh!! That’s lovely @Angy Cat!! What sort of music do you tend to enjoy the most? Do you have a particular relaxing activities in mind? I really do hope you enjoy doing some laid back and relaxing activities, they can really help Oooo I loved Minecraft as a young gal, I used to play it with my older sister and my half uncle before my parents split. I miss playing it, I loved doing rollercoasters and building houses , how about you? 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117976 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 8 minutes ago, Angy Cat said: Lately, I’ve mostly just been listening to music, not really sure what else to do. I can push myself to play some relaxing games, and I had planned to work on my handwriting too. Actually I might start playing minecraft again If you enjoy that then I’d do that! This is vent chat so we can head to chit chat if you’d like to talk about what you enjoy? I love minecraft I play it on my Xbox. Love itttt 2 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117977 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 9 minutes ago, Lilie said: Aww Yeahh!! That’s lovely @Angy Cat!! What sort of music do you tend to enjoy the most? Do you have a particular relaxing activities in mind? I really do hope you enjoy doing some laid back and relaxing activities, they can really help Oooo I loved Minecraft as a young gal, I used to play it with my older sister and my half uncle before my parents split. I miss playing it, I loved doing rollercoasters and building houses , how about you? I’m really into chill, dreamy, and indie vibes! I never spent as much time on Minecraft as I wanted to, but I’ll never forget the first time I saw an enderman it freaked me out so much I stopped playing for a few days 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117980 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted October 20 Share Posted October 20 Please keep this for vent issues :) Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-117981 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 26 Share Posted October 26 I'm just an idiot. Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-118546 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilie Posted October 26 Share Posted October 26 27 minutes ago, Angy Cat said: I'm just an idiot. Oh no, please don’t think you’re an idiot @Angy Cat what’s making you feel like that? I’m sorry, hugs Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-118549 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Luie Posted October 26 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 26 1 hour ago, Angy Cat said: I'm just an idiot. Heyy @Angy Cat, wanna talk about what's going on? Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-118557 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angy Cat Posted October 26 Share Posted October 26 (edited) Hey @Luie, @Lilie! Thank you both. :( I might be overreacting, but this is just how I feel at the moment. I feel like an idiot for thinking I could have a friend I could be close with, someone I could truly be myself around. I just feel like distancing myself again. Edited October 26 by Angy Cat Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-118568 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Luie Posted October 26 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 26 1 minute ago, Angy Cat said: Hey @Luie, @Lilie! Thank you both. :( I might be overreacting, but this is just how I feel at the moment. I feel like an idiot for thinking I could have someone I could be close with, someone I could truly be myself around. I just feel like distancing myself again. Heyy @Angy Cat, Firstly, no you are not over reacting, I always believe we need to feel our feelings and then take it from there. It’s natural to feel anxious and lonely when relationships change, but please remember that you’re not an idiot for wanting a genuine connection. Wanting to be close to someone is a part of being human, and it's not something to feel ashamed of. Can you share a bit more about the thoughts that are weighing on you? 2 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-118571 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted October 26 Share Posted October 26 2 hours ago, Angy Cat said: I'm just an idiot. NEVER EVER think you’re an idiot, you’re the most amazing person I ever know, you’re the kindest ever, you have the most amazing heart, you always put others before yourself, you are nothing but the sweetest person. No matter what you’re going through, you always think of others feelings first and that’s just the kindest thing ever, I know you’re going through a lot and like I said, you can talk to me anytime but its up to you. 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/7793-vent-chat/page/4/#findComment-118582 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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