Am I trans? Or just mistaking something else for it?

[xXAshBlossomXx]

For as long as I can remember I've felt like I don't fit in with the other guys. As I was growing up I had thought countless times that maybe I was meant to be a girl but until sometime last year, I hadn't thought into it much.

I think I'm trans but a friend of mine, who hasn't really known me that long, doesn't think that I am and thinks I might just be a femboy. I've been having doubts about whether I am trans or not and her comment hasn't helped. I can't come out as trans irl currently but I've been living as a girl online in a game called imvu and I feel happy when people use she/her pronouns when referring to me and when people call me the name I picked.

I don't know what to think, I feel I'd be happier as a girl but I'm scared I'll regret it if I do.

[Monsoon]

Hey there,

Welcome :) 

I totally get why her comment didn't help; the only person that can answer this kind of question is yourself really. I'm wondering, do you need to know what to think at this stage? I think that our mind gives us directions all the time, and deep down, we know what the truth about our identity is. What do you think? 

[xXAshBlossomXx]

Yeah, I guess you're right. I feel like I was meant to be a girl, that deep down I am one. I keep doubting myself but I've read that its very common to have doubts, even once you've accepted it. 

Thank you for your reply, it's honestly helped a bit. :)

[Monsoon]

Hey there,

I'm glad to hear that it helped a bit :)

Yeah, as I said, I think we all know the truth deep down which really helps us to figure out what to do next. What do you think your next step might be? 

[xXAshBlossomXx]

I guess I'll probably look into presenting more feminine and eventually starting hrt. It's something I've been thinking about for awhile but been too scared to do anything

[Monsoon]

Hey there,

Ah, that sound exciting. Do you have a goal in mind for how you want to look in terms of being more feminine? If so, would you like to share it here? :) 

[xXAshBlossomXx]

I want to be able to pass as female, if at all possible, and not be seen as male anymore. 

[Monsoon]

Hey there,

That sounds great. So, in order to pass as female, what steps do you need to take next? 

[xXAshBlossomXx]

I don't really know. I'll have to do some research

[Monsoon]

9 hours ago, xXAshBlossomXx said:

I don't really know. I'll have to do some research

Hey there,

Sure! Once you've done some research and found out a little bit more, would you like to share your thoughts with me? :) 

[xXAshBlossomXx]

Yeah, I guess I could.

[Monsoon]

On 11/24/2021 at 5:14 PM, xXAshBlossomXx said:

Yeah, I guess I could.

Hey there,

How's it going? Have you had the chance to do some research yet? :) 

[Audumn]

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