xXAshBlossomXx Posted November 18, 2021 Share Posted November 18, 2021 For as long as I can remember I've felt like I don't fit in with the other guys. As I was growing up I had thought countless times that maybe I was meant to be a girl but until sometime last year, I hadn't thought into it much. I think I'm trans but a friend of mine, who hasn't really known me that long, doesn't think that I am and thinks I might just be a femboy. I've been having doubts about whether I am trans or not and her comment hasn't helped. I can't come out as trans irl currently but I've been living as a girl online in a game called imvu and I feel happy when people use she/her pronouns when referring to me and when people call me the name I picked. I don't know what to think, I feel I'd be happier as a girl but I'm scared I'll regret it if I do. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 18, 2021 Share Posted November 18, 2021 Hey there, Welcome :) I totally get why her comment didn't help; the only person that can answer this kind of question is yourself really. I'm wondering, do you need to know what to think at this stage? I think that our mind gives us directions all the time, and deep down, we know what the truth about our identity is. What do you think? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXAshBlossomXx Posted November 18, 2021 Author Share Posted November 18, 2021 Yeah, I guess you're right. I feel like I was meant to be a girl, that deep down I am one. I keep doubting myself but I've read that its very common to have doubts, even once you've accepted it. Thank you for your reply, it's honestly helped a bit. :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 19, 2021 Share Posted November 19, 2021 Hey there, I'm glad to hear that it helped a bit :) Yeah, as I said, I think we all know the truth deep down which really helps us to figure out what to do next. What do you think your next step might be? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXAshBlossomXx Posted November 19, 2021 Author Share Posted November 19, 2021 I guess I'll probably look into presenting more feminine and eventually starting hrt. It's something I've been thinking about for awhile but been too scared to do anything MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 20, 2021 Share Posted November 20, 2021 Hey there, Ah, that sound exciting. Do you have a goal in mind for how you want to look in terms of being more feminine? If so, would you like to share it here? :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXAshBlossomXx Posted November 20, 2021 Author Share Posted November 20, 2021 I want to be able to pass as female, if at all possible, and not be seen as male anymore. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 21, 2021 Share Posted November 21, 2021 Hey there, That sounds great. So, in order to pass as female, what steps do you need to take next? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXAshBlossomXx Posted November 22, 2021 Author Share Posted November 22, 2021 I don't really know. I'll have to do some research MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 9 hours ago, xXAshBlossomXx said: I don't really know. I'll have to do some research Hey there, Sure! Once you've done some research and found out a little bit more, would you like to share your thoughts with me? :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXAshBlossomXx Posted November 24, 2021 Author Share Posted November 24, 2021 Yeah, I guess I could. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 25, 2021 Share Posted November 25, 2021 On 11/24/2021 at 5:14 PM, xXAshBlossomXx said: Yeah, I guess I could. Hey there, How's it going? Have you had the chance to do some research yet? :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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