swiftie_am_i? Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 hi so i am bi but still in closet and dunno how to tell anyone... advice??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 20 minutes ago, swiftie_am_i? said: hi so i am bi but still in closet and dunno how to tell anyone... advice??? Start with people who you know are allies or queer themselves. Just be like, 'hey, by the way, I think I'm bi'. From there, you can use them as allies when you come out to people who may not be so chill. It's always good to have someone who can help you if someone isn't being nice about it. Once you've come out to your friends, you can start to come out to your family. Generally it's a good idea to test the waters if you don't know how they feel about queer people. For example, watch a tv show with queer characters, or mention that you saw a queer couple the other day, or anything like that. From there, you have an idea of how to come out to them This is just really brief, general advice if you're unsure about something more specific, please let me know. But lets start with step one: Do you have any friends who are queer or who are super chill with the queer community? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swiftie_am_i? Posted January 4 Author Share Posted January 4 1 minute ago, Emberfrost12 said: Start with people who you know are allies or queer themselves. Just be like, 'hey, by the way, I think I'm bi'. From there, you can use them as allies when you come out to people who may not be so chill. It's always good to have someone who can help you if someone isn't being nice about it. Once you've come out to your friends, you can start to come out to your family. Generally it's a good idea to test the waters if you don't know how they feel about queer people. For example, watch a tv show with queer characters, or mention that you saw a queer couple the other day, or anything like that. From there, you have an idea of how to come out to them This is just really brief, general advice if you're unsure about something more specific, please let me know. But lets start with step one: Do you have any friends who are queer or who are super chill with the queer community? ok thanks! my parents are very accepting (i think), they have taken me to pride parades and stuff but i js dont know how theyll react my friend is bi and i have good friends that are queer so i'll try this. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 1 minute ago, swiftie_am_i? said: ok thanks! my parents are very accepting (i think), they have taken me to pride parades and stuff but i js dont know how theyll react my friend is bi and i have good friends that are queer so i'll try this. Let us know how it goes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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