questioning I want to talk to someone being the real me not some "nerd" trying to be cool

[JayJay11]

Have u seen heartstoper

 

Edited May 25, 2022 by JayJay11
dint know this was a post lol

[Monsoon]

Hey there,

I just saw the title of your topic around wanting to talk to someone as yourself, and I'm wondering, can you tell me more about this? What is this like for you? 

[JayJay11]

2 hours ago, Monsoon said:

Hey there,

I just saw the title of your topic around wanting to talk to someone as yourself, and I'm wondering, can you tell me more about this? What is this like for you? 

Umm.. well first of english not my best writting language so srry for any misspelling errors. Well I just want to talk to people beeing me no lies talk about my problems and things like that

[Blondie]

16 hours ago, JayJay11 said:

Umm.. well first of english not my best writting language so srry for any misspelling errors. Well I just want to talk to people beeing me no lies talk about my problems and things like that

That's okay, your writing is great! 

When you are with friends online - do you feel you are holding parts of yourself back?

[JayJay11]

10 hours ago, Blondie said:

That's okay, your writing is great! 

When you are with friends online - do you feel you are holding parts of yourself back?

Thx

sometimes yes

 

[Blondie]

14 hours ago, JayJay11 said:

Thx

sometimes yes

If it feels too big to do it all at once, maybe you could try sharing these parts of you bit by bit?

[Ambi]

Just so you know, "nerds" are cool. They are some of the coolest people on the planet and they run the world from billion dollar gaming franchises to CEO's in international companies. Nerds are smart, funny, and yes "cool". So, I think you should start hanging around people who love you for being your cool, nerdy self rather than whoever made you feel like you have to pretend to be cool because you are a nerd. You are amazing just the way you are, and you should never feel like you have to pretend to be cool.