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hii! i'm a girl and i've always thought i was straight up until now but recently i think i've been developing feelings for this one girl. we only recently got to work with each other in various events and activities and i've slowly realized the feelings i have towards her right now are feelings i would typically get for any guy crush. to be honest i'm not even sure what i'm feeling right now or if i simply like her as a person, but she's such a wonderful person and i really enjoy spending time with her. i look forward to her texts and worry if she seems tired or stressed or upset and feel a hint of jealousy (?) if she seems really close to other people. i honestly don't even know how to label it right now and i'm really confused. could it just be a passing thing or is it a start to a new realization? how do i even label what i'm feeling right now? and what should i do to get closer to her? does anyone have similar experiences and how they dealt with it? thank you!
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hello, my name is grace (she/her or she/they). if i recall correctly, i set up this account around the middle of 2021. by then, for a few months i think, i had begun questioning my sexuality. at first, it began when i began having more and more influence and interactions with people from the LQBTQIA+ community which came through friends and media. at first i questioned whether or not i was bi, because i thought some girls were pretty (i currently identify as a female) and i was "obsessed" with fictional men from shows and movies. many of my obsessions began after being influenced by people in media, for example, (this made me cringe as i type this because as i look back on it, i was WAY too attached to him) draco malfoy. i had never paid much thought but i also believe that partly came from me not having not been in my harry potter obsession yet -- this obsession for the books and movies coming approximately 6 months before my "draco phase" where i was completely in love with fanon draco (from fanfics, not the movies, i can acknowledge that he was an ass in the canon series but i can also acknowledge it was mainly because of how he was raised). at the time, i thought that i thought he along with many other fictional guys looked good, but now as i look back on it, i don't think any of them are attractive but i can understand why people could consider them attractive. after i made this account in 2021, i left one post sharing my conflicting thoughts and i spoke to this wonderful person, but didn't come up with much after the conversation (they were an absolutely lovely person though, thank you to whoever this was). approximately one year later, here i am logging on again to, again, share my conflicting thoughts regarding my sexuality. the past year, i have become, frankly, quite irritated in not knowing my sexuality. as of now, i am questioning as of not if i am a lesbian and here is why: my lack of desire to be with a male in any way and my desire to have romantic (and possibly s!xual) relations with a female. i look back on what i thought were crushes (all males) and remember not being physically to them but more so to their personality (humor, intelligence, etc.) and enjoying their company, and the thought that they "liked" me back made me have what many people consider butterflies. it has been years since these "crushes" and since then i have yet to have another crush (of any gender), the last regard being one reasons that make me believe i am going through all this questioning for nothing. but, despite not having "crushes" on people, one of the other reasons i believe i may be a lesbian is because of, frankly, tiktok. that app alone is one of the reasons i am still bothering with questioning my sexuality because the amount of pretty women i see on there that make me momentarily lose my breath and/or make me shudder lmfao. as just a bit of extra info, when i look into my future, i hope to see a female. as far as i know, i want to be with a female in all aspects. my main reason for leaving this bit of information on this website to strangers is because what i truly want is someone's, anyone's, opinion on this. as well as this, how other people finally knew they were gay. thank you xoxo and sorry if this was tmi -
Hey y'all, I am writing this because I keep questioning whether or not I will ever find love again and it is really making me doubt myself. please help me
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I grew up in a traditional Christian family, so I didn’t allow myself to question my identity until about a year and a half ago. When I first realized that I probably wasn’t straight or cis, it scared the living heck out of me. After all, I wasn’t allowed to be anything other than cis and straight, or I wouldn’t be allowed through the gates of Heaven. For so long I felt guilty about who I was, like I was flawed in some way that I couldn’t control. But a few months ago I figured out that I don’t really believe in God, and let me tell you, I have never felt so light and free. Because of this, I can finally continue exploring my identity without this dark cloud of guilt hovering over my head. But now, everything that I thought I knew about my gender identity has simply drifted away, and it feels like I’m back at square one. I used to be so sure that I was nonbinary, but now I’m thinking that I might be a demiboy, or maybe I’m just a trans guy who likes feminine things. But what if I’m not? I mean, it seems like my gender identity just keeps changing with each season, so I’m not exactly sure what I am anymore. (I applaud you if you have read this far. It seems like my posts always end up turning into entire essays lol.) Any advice/kind words would be greatly appreciated!
