Being bi? need some guidance!

[bri_2332]

hi to everyone reading this. i hope you’re doing well :)

i have known i like women and men for some time now but only recently have been comfortable with saying it out loud to close friends. 

i know when i come out my parents will except me but i have started talking to this girl she’s a lesbian. i’m not so sure how to tell her that i have not come out fully, nor have i been with a girl before. 

any guidance from this community will help so please don’t hesitate!

[Monsoon]

Hey there,

Welcome :)

I'm glad to hear you're feeling more comfortable saying this out loud now. I think that with telling the girl, it's important to not overthink it and just be honest. What do you think? What could you say to her? 

[bri_2332]

10 hours ago, Monsoon said:

Hey there,

Welcome :)

I'm glad to hear you're feeling more comfortable saying this out loud now. I think that with telling the girl, it's important to not overthink it and just be honest. What do you think? What could you say to her? 

hi there!

yes i agree with you 100%, i have a really bad tendency to overthink everything and play the scenario over in my mind a million times. i’m going to be totally honest with her, i think it’s more nerves of how she’s going to react.

[Monsoon]

14 hours ago, bri_2332 said:

hi there!

yes i agree with you 100%, i have a really bad tendency to overthink everything and play the scenario over in my mind a million times. i’m going to be totally honest with her, i think it’s more nerves of how she’s going to react.

Hey there,

Yeah, totally; the nerves can really get the better of us and stop us from doing certain things. When do you think you'll tell her? You'll have to let us know how it goes :) 

[bri_2332]

9 hours ago, Monsoon said:

Hey there,

Yeah, totally; the nerves can really get the better of us and stop us from doing certain things. When do you think you'll tell her? You'll have to let us know how it goes :) 

Yeah they really can. i plan on telling her soon! i’m gonna do it in person rather than over text, i don’t want any miscommunication to happen between us. what’re your thoughts?

[Monsoon]

1 hour ago, bri_2332 said:

Yeah they really can. i plan on telling her soon! i’m gonna do it in person rather than over text, i don’t want any miscommunication to happen between us. what’re your thoughts?

Hey there,

Yeah, I think it's a good idea to have this kind of conversation in person rather than text; it can help to make the experience more meaningful in that you can connect more as well. What do you think?