Leafiebean Posted January 24, 2022 Share Posted January 24, 2022 well Im glad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted January 25, 2022 Author Share Posted January 25, 2022 Same. I just don't feel alone in this world anymore. Like I have people I can talk to and trust that I know won't say hurtful things or make me feel or sad and gloomy. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leafiebean Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 me too 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted January 25, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted January 25, 2022 20 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: Ya I just feel like I can finally be myself with my friends Hey there, Yeah, that must be such a lovely feeling. I'm wondering, what do you do differently now when you're with them? How would you describe the real you? :)Β 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leafiebean Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 ^^ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted January 26, 2022 Author Share Posted January 26, 2022 The real me..hmmm..I just feel like I could tell them anything and they wouldn't judge me. I don't really know how to describe the real me because I'm still trying to find out who that is too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nikita Posted January 26, 2022 Share Posted January 26, 2022 you should really just be yourself because no one can force u to be what they want. its simple. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted January 26, 2022 Author Share Posted January 26, 2022 Yeah exactly! :>Β :^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted January 26, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted January 26, 2022 8 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: The real me..hmmm..I just feel like I could tell them anything and they wouldn't judge me. I don't really know how to describe the real me because I'm still trying to find out who that is too. Hey there, That's okay - maybe it was a difficult question I asked!Β I'm glad that you feel like you could tell them anything and it be judgement-free - you must feel so supported by them. How is everything else going for you at the moment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted January 27, 2022 Author Share Posted January 27, 2022 It is going okay I am just dealing with a bunch of stress trying to get all my grades up, and my parents keep fighting but I just put music on in my headphones and that makes my day a whole lot better. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted January 27, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted January 27, 2022 9 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: It is going okay I am just dealing with a bunch of stress trying to get all my grades up, and my parents keep fighting but I just put music on in my headphones and that makes my day a whole lot better. :) Hey there, Sorry to hear about the stress and your parents fighting. Would you like to talk about it?Β Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leafiebean Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 I'm really sorry for that manΒ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted January 28, 2022 Author Share Posted January 28, 2022 Yeah, so my dad when he gets drunk he talks about breaking up with my mom and then he also talks about suicide..but I don't think that he would ever do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted January 28, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted January 28, 2022 2 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: Yeah, so my dad when he gets drunk he talks about breaking up with my mom and then he also talks about suicide..but I don't think that he would ever do that. Hey there, That must be so tough for you to hear. How does it make you feel when he says things like that? Also, can I ask, do you know if he is getting any support at the moment for his mental health?Β Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leafiebean Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 6 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: Yeah, so my dad when he gets drunk he talks about breaking up with my mom and then he also talks about suicide..but I don't think that he would ever do that. that's really scary Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted January 29, 2022 Author Share Posted January 29, 2022 I know right! Also he doesn't want to get any like therapy or any help for his mental health, and I just feel like my world would cave in if he did that so it makes me think alot at night so its make me a bit scared for the future and I just get all like gloomy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted January 29, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted January 29, 2022 10 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: I know right! Also he doesn't want to get any like therapy or any help for his mental health, and I just feel like my world would cave in if he did that so it makes me think alot at night so its make me a bit scared for the future and I just get all like gloomy. Hey there, Yeah, it's totally understandable to be scared about the future when someone so close to you is struggling in this way. What thoughts are you having when you're scared? What do you think could happen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted January 31, 2022 Author Share Posted January 31, 2022 I just think that when he's drunk and angry or sad then he could end it all, also when I blamed for everything then I just get really stressed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted January 31, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted January 31, 2022 12 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: I just think that when he's drunk and angry or sad then he could end it all, also when I blamed for everything then I just get really stressed. Hey there, Can you tell me more about what happened when they blame you for everything? Also, yeah, I can imagine you're constantly in fear which must be exhausting for you. How are you coping with all of this? What's helping you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted February 1, 2022 Author Share Posted February 1, 2022 Honesty its just my music and playing online with my friends. Like I could do something wrong once that wasn't even a big deal and get scolded but my siblings when they do the EXACT same thing a little later then they get a little "oh that's wrong don't do that". 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted February 1, 2022 Author Share Posted February 1, 2022 And then when they get in trouble or my parents fight then I get dragged in and blamed for a bunch of stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted February 1, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted February 1, 2022 Hey, It sounds like they're treating you in a different way to your siblings, and I can imagine that it must be really stressful and upsetting when they are dragging you into their fights; how are you feeling about this? Also, I'm wondering, can you tell me more about what happens when they scold you, are they physical?Β Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheOriginalAxel Posted February 1, 2022 Share Posted February 1, 2022 9 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: And then when they get in trouble or my parents fight then I get dragged in and blamed for a bunch of stuff. That is completely unacceptable and out of order. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted February 3, 2022 Author Share Posted February 3, 2022 No they aren't physical, they just drag me into there drunk fights and just scold me about past stuff and then try to get me onto there sides to prove a point to the other one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted February 3, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted February 3, 2022 9 hours ago, XxhelloxX said: No they aren't physical, they just drag me into there drunk fights and just scold me about past stuff and then try to get me onto there sides to prove a point to the other one. I'm glad to hear that they aren't physical because your safety is our number one priority and we care about you here. How does it make you feel when they drag youΒ into their fights?Β Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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