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I'm thinking about coming out to my homophobic parents i'm Bi but I don't know what they'll say.


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43 minutes ago, XxhelloxX said:

I'm thinking about coming out to my homophobic parents i'm Bi but I don't know what they'll say, My best friend supports me but shes my only support.

Coming out can be important, but it’s important to be safe first. If you’re worried about your parents being upset with you or hurting you, it may not be best to come out yet. I’m transgender and I know how much being in the closet sucks but I think not being accepted would make me feel even worse.

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12 hours ago, XxhelloxX said:

I'm thinking about coming out to my homophobic parents i'm Bi but I don't know what they'll say, My best friend supports me but shes my only support.

Hey there,

Welcome :)

Can I ask, are you ready to come out? A lot of people feel the pressure to come out when they aren't necessarily ready, and I just want you to know that it's okay to wait and do things at your own pace. What do you think?

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54 minutes ago, XxhelloxX said:

Thank you both I don't really know if I am ready to come out yet, but I think i'm gonna wait.

Hey there,

Yeah, it's totally okay to wait. You really do have the luxury of time, and there is no pressure to do anything now. How are you feeling? 

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16 hours ago, XxhelloxX said:

I don't think imma come out...I just asked my dad what he thinks of the whole LGBTQ- community and he said something really hurtful...😭😭😩

Hey there,

Ah, sorry to hear he said something really hurtful. Can I ask what he said? 

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20 hours ago, XxhelloxX said:

Same and he said "All those people are gonna go to Hell", So I am not coming out anytime soon..

Hey,

Ah, that must have been horrible to hear. How are you feeling about it? I’m wondering, do you think he may become more accepting one day? Parents have such a big amount of love for their children, and when they are forced to confront something they don’t agree with in such a loving relationship, it can really help to broaden their mind. 

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