Blc Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Been feeling really bad lately I don't understand why, might update this thread laterย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 im sorry youve been feeling bad lately but there are people here for you and i havenโt been feelings great eithr 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted February 22, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted February 22, 2023 12 minutes ago, Blc said: Been feeling really bad lately I don't understand why, might update this thread laterย Hi there, thank you for opening up about how you are feeling. I know it can be difficult sometimes to talk about feeling really low. Please know that we are here for you. Would you like to tell us a bit more about how you are feeling? You can always reach out to us via the confidential support if you would prefer to talk about it more privately MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted February 22, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted February 22, 2023 9 minutes ago, Solo_una_hermosa_chica said: im sorry youve been feeling bad lately but there are people here for you and i havenโt been feelings great eithr Hi @Solo_una_hermosa_chica, I just wanted to check in with you as well. I have seen a few posts where you have mentioned that you haven't been feeling great. We're here for you if you would like to talk about anything. Again, please feel free to reach out via confidential support if you prefer MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted February 22, 2023 Author Share Posted February 22, 2023 56 minutes ago, Aurora said: Hi there, thank you for opening up about how you are feeling. I know it can be difficult sometimes to talk about feeling really low. Please know that we are here for you. Would you like to tell us a bit more about how you are feeling? You can always reach out to us via the confidential support if you would prefer to talk about it more privately Hi,ย ย ย It's just,, I don't feel like I'm good enough for anyone, I keep telling myself I am but I feel like I'm lying to myself, it started yesterday when I was writing about my PTSD about being bullied, writing it brought all of the bad things back, I mean, I'm with someone and I have really good friends, well I think their good anyway, but idk it just feels so temporary, like Ill just blink and ill be alone again I'm really scared of being alone even tho I like my quiet, I don't want to be alone, even though everyday thar is what I feel like I'll end up being because I'm a disaster atmย ย ย ย ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted February 22, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted February 22, 2023 3 minutes ago, Blc said: Hi,ย It's just,, I don't feel like I'm good enough for anyone, I keep telling myself I am but I feel like I'm lying to myself, it started yesterday when I was writing about my PTSD about being bullied, writing it brought all of the bad things back, I mean, I'm with someone and I have really good friends, well I think their good anyway, but idk it just feels so temporary, like Ill just blink and ill be alone again I'm really scared of being alone even tho I like my quiet, I don't want to be alone, even though everyday thar is what I feel like I'll end up being because I'm a disaster atmย Thank you for sharing that with me. Writing about things can be really therapeutic at times but it can also bring up stuff for us. If you have PTSD from being bullied then that is a lot to deal with and it is going to take time until you have processed everything and until you can fully trust people again and trust that they will stick around. Sometimes allowing us the space and time to work through some of our fears and thoughts can help us to move on in the long run. What do you think. ย I'm just wondering, is there anyone you trust, who you can talk to about feelings so you don't feel like you have to go through this alone. Also, do you mind me asking, how long ago was it that you were bullied and have you had any professional help for your PTSD? Please don't feel you have to answer if you don't feel comfortable to. This is a safe space and it's up to you, what you feel comfortable sharing with us.ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 30 minutes ago, Blc said: Hi,ย It's just,, I don't feel like I'm good enough for anyone, I keep telling myself I am but I feel like I'm lying to myself, it started yesterday when I was writing about my PTSD about being bullied, writing it brought all of the bad things back, I mean, I'm with someone and I have really good friends, well I think their good anyway, but idk it just feels so temporary, like Ill just blink and ill be alone again I'm really scared of being alone even tho I like my quiet, I don't want to be alone, even though everyday thar is what I feel like I'll end up being because I'm a disaster atmย I know you feel like your not good enough but you are. youโre good enough for me and im sure your good enough for your friends and for her, ik its hard to believe that when youโve been the trauma youโve though and only a few people are willing to talk bout their trauma and ik its annoying when people tell you โyour good enoughโ but you donโt believe it. In some way everything is temporary but ion think your friends are or your relationship and as long as im around i will make sure you know youโre not alone.ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 Love is so painful, I didn't realise it until I fell in love with the person I can't get out of my head, I thought about her all day yesterday, safe to say I think I'm single again yay, if so I thought about her all day yesterday and I realised how much I actually regret ending it in the first place, love really is painfulย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 4 hours ago, Blc said: Love is so painful, I didn't realise it until I fell in love with the person I can't get out of my head, I thought about her all day yesterday, safe to say I think I'm single again yay, if so I thought about her all day yesterday and I realised how much I actually regret ending it in the first place, love really is painfulย iโm so sorry and i understand how you feelย 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 Yh it sucks doesn't it?ย 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 Just now, Blc said: Yh it sucks doesn't it?ย yea, it does im going though a breakup myself so i know how you feel right nowย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 Sorry to hear that hope you're ok MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 Well obviously not breakups suck, but you know what I meanย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Blc said: Sorry to hear that hope you're ok yea, i think im getting there. itโs hard still thoughย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 Tell me about it ik how that feelsย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Blc said: Tell me about it ik how that feelsย yea, the funny thing is i still think about him all the time and things like that yk. how are you doing since the breakup? Edited March 4, 2023 by La_Bonita_Chica MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 5, 2023 Author Share Posted March 5, 2023 Its not really a break up, more so, I'm being ignored, last message I sent was Monday, no reply since, so not really a break up, but it feels like one and it hurtsย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 oh ya, iโm sorry that sheโs ignoring and im sure it hurts cuz i know how much you love her MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 5, 2023 Author Share Posted March 5, 2023 Yh, but hey, it is what it isย yeah it does hurt, a lot,ย but trying not to let it get to much it isn't working thus far, but ik I'll find the one some day, it's disheartening, but you knowย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 8 minutes ago, Blc said: Yh, but hey, it is what it isย yeah it does hurt, a lot,ย but trying not to let it get to much it isn't working thus far, but ik I'll find the one some day, it's disheartening, but you knowย i think we both will yk but youโre right it is dishearteningย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 5, 2023 Author Share Posted March 5, 2023 Veryย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 Very muchย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 i wish i felt like i deserved better yk.ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blc Posted March 5, 2023 Author Share Posted March 5, 2023 Yeah ik, sending hugs 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted March 6, 2023 Share Posted March 6, 2023 sometimes i regret falling in love yk but at the same thing i donโtย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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