Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Hello guys I have really messed up I mean really badly, I was talking to this girl and paid her to have sexting call aka video sex call and I messed up she is asking me for money to delete the videos and has gotten my old address and im really worried yes I know I messed, yes im the one to blame for being stupid and desperate and yes I wonβt ever do that again, I canβt tell family because I from a brown family and if I tell them they will most likely kick me out the house and wonβt forgive I suffer from depression and this incident has made it worse please help me and sorry that I messed up! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 11 minutes ago, Ronak said: Hello guys I have really messed up I mean really badly, I was talking to this girl and paid her to have sexting call aka video sex call and I messed up she is asking me for money to delete the videos and has gotten my old address and im really worried yes I know I messed, yes im the one to blame for being stupid and desperate and yes I wonβt ever do that again, I canβt tell family because I from a brown family and if I tell them they will most likely kick me out the house and wonβt forgive I suffer from depression and this incident has made it worse please help me and sorry that I messed up! Hey @RonakΒ I have a question before I get too into detail. Do you guys know each other irl? Or does she know any of your friends or anyone that yk irl? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 16 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Hey @RonakΒ I have a question before I get too into detail. Do you guys know each other irl? Or does she know any of your friends or anyone that yk irl? Hi @Olivia05Β no we donβt know each other in irl I saw her on a ad and I really messed up by paying Β£10 and ended up recording a bit and threatening me and stuff I know Iβm stupid and I was desperate but Iβm truly Β really scared and my depression is getting worse. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Ok ok no need to panic my sister actually went through this too so I kinda know what questions to ask to get info (if ur willing to answer them you donβt have to if you donβt want to)Β Ok so does she live anywhere near you to the point where you could bump into each other? Also you said you saw her on an ad? What type of ad? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 (edited) Iβm willing to answer, I saw on ad online on a website called vivastreet and through that I contacted her and I blocked the number because I got no response then all of a sudden I get a message on whatβsapp from that number so I decided to text it and pay up and call her for literally about a minute till she asks me to show my face to her and I showed it in desperation and then that mess happened, I donβt think she lives near me but she has uk phone number but on PayPal when I sent her the Β£10 it sent to her in euros and the address she got from my PayPal was my old address. @Olivia05 Edited April 4, 2023 by Ronak MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 8 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Ok ok no need to panic my sister actually went through this too so I kinda know what questions to ask to get info (if ur willing to answer them you donβt have to if you donβt want to)Β Ok so does she live anywhere near you to the point where you could bump into each other? Also you said you saw her on an ad? What type of ad? Hi @Olivia05Β I saw the ad on vivastreet and it was a sexting/video call ad where I paid Β£10 to her and no she doesnβt live near me but has access to my old address but when I sent her money she got it in euros MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Just now, Ronak said: Hi @Olivia05Β I saw the ad on vivastreet and it was a sexting/video call ad where I paid Β£10 to her and no she doesnβt live near me but has access to my old address but when I sent her money she got it in euros Ok thatβs good that she doesnβt live near you. I have to ask why -I donβt know how to word this-did you go along with the ad I should say? Also did you give her your old address or did she somehow figure that out? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Olivia05 said: Ok thatβs good that she doesnβt live near you. I have to ask why -I donβt know how to word this-did you go along with the ad I should say? Also did you give her your old address or did she somehow figure that out? She got it the adress from PayPal because I sent her money and yes I went along with the ad when I shouldβve not MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 3 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Ok thatβs good that she doesnβt live near you. I have to ask why -I donβt know how to word this-did you go along with the ad I should say? Also did you give her your old address or did she somehow figure that out? She got my residence from ppal when I sent her the Β£10 and yes I went along with the ad unfortunately. @Olivia05 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Just now, Ronak said: She got my residence from ppal when I sent her the Β£10 and yes I went along with the ad unfortunately. @Olivia05 Did the girl that you were talking to, did she seem kind of manipulative and wouldnβt take no for an answer? Or was it the other way around? Or neither? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Did the girl that you were talking to, did she seem kind of manipulative and wouldnβt take no for an answer? Or was it the other way around? Or neither? I think she is manipulative @Olivia05 Edited April 4, 2023 by Ronak MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Ok would you mind if you gave me an example? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Olivia05 said: Ok would you mind if you gave me an example? @Olivia05Β As in she was demanding money straight after the call and threatening me if I block her she will expose me MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Just now, Ronak said: @Olivia05Β As in she was demanding money straight after the call and threatening me if I block her she will expose me One, you only called her once right? Two, if you donβt mind me asking (sorry Iβm saying that so much) how old is she? Three, did you give her the money? Four, how long ago was this? Five, do you know if she does this for a βjobβ or smth like that? Finally, has she exposed you yet? And do you know how she would expose you? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 7 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: One, you only called her once right? Two, if you donβt mind me asking (sorry Iβm saying that so much) how old is she? Three, did you give her the money? Four, how long ago was this? Five, do you know if she does this for a βjobβ or smth like that? Finally, has she exposed you yet? And do you know how she would expose you? 1) called her only once 2) she looks like to be 20s-30s 3) yes for the call but not the blackmailing one 4) 2-3 hours ago 5) I think she does because there was a lot of phones with herΒ 6) she hasnβt yet but I think she would try to go to my old place and try to expose me MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Ronak said: 1) called her only once 2) she looks like to be 20s-30s 3) yes for the call but not the blackmailing one 4) 2-3 hours ago 5) I think she does because there was a lot of phones with herΒ 6) she hasnβt yet but I think she would try to go to my old place and try to expose me 1) good (well not good you shouldnβt have done it in the first place but you probably shouldnβt call her back again even if she tries to reach you) 2) and ur what 16? As your profile says? Thatβs petaphelia (or however you spell it)Β 3) Ok donβt give her any money for blackmailing you. If she tries to continuously ask over and over again just keep on saying that you will get her the money or smth like that. Try and make it go on so you wonβt have to give her any money but also donβt call her again (sorry if that sounds rude not trying to) 4) ok has she tried to reach you since? 5) what do you mean she has a lot of phones? 6) ok thatβs good maybe she was just saying it but not actually going to MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Olivia05 said: 1) good (well not good you shouldnβt have done it in the first place but you probably shouldnβt call her back again even if she tries to reach you) 2) and ur what 16? As your profile says? Thatβs petaphelia (or however you spell it)Β 3) Ok donβt give her any money for blackmailing you. If she tries to continuously ask over and over again just keep on saying that you will get her the money or smth like that. Try and make it go on so you wonβt have to give her any money but also donβt call her again (sorry if that sounds rude not trying to) 4) ok has she tried to reach you since? 5) what do you mean she has a lot of phones? 6) ok thatβs good maybe she was just saying it but not actually going to @Olivia05 1) Im seriously sorry for what I have done to myselfΒ 2) yes it is 3) I will do thatΒ 4) no she hasnβtΒ 5) she sent me a pic of the phone she used to get people and blackmail them 6) possible but hopefully she doesnβt go there because the people that gonna move in know my family Β MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Ronak said: @Olivia05 1) Im seriously sorry for what I have done to myselfΒ 2) yes it is 3) I will do thatΒ 4) no she hasnβtΒ 5) she sent me a pic of the phone she used to get people and blackmail them 6) possible but hopefully she doesnβt go there because the people that gonna move in know my family 1) Iβm not saying donβt be sorry itβs not your fault but itβs kind of both of your guysβ faultsΒ 2) thatβs a crime. I get that she could expose you if you called the police or anything but (and Iβm sorry for asking if you already told me) what could she expose you with? 3) good do that 4)ok but maybe thatβs just because she might be doing smth wait what time is it for you right now? 5) another crime. Seriously you could go to the police and have her arrested for one preying on minors, two blackmailing with whatever she has and probably more Iβm guessing 6)ok so hopefully she doesnβt do that MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 3 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: 1) Iβm not saying donβt be sorry itβs not your fault but itβs kind of both of your guysβ faultsΒ 2) thatβs a crime. I get that she could expose you if you called the police or anything but (and Iβm sorry for asking if you already told me) what could she expose you with? 3) good do that 4)ok but maybe thatβs just because she might be doing smth wait what time is it for you right now? 5) another crime. Seriously you could go to the police and have her arrested for one preying on minors, two blackmailing with whatever she has and probably more Iβm guessing 6)ok so hopefully she doesnβt do that 1) I agree and I take all blameΒ 2) yes I would like to call the police but my background is bad as in Iβm from a brown family and my family wonβt listen to me no matter what the case be so I canβt tell the police 3) I willΒ 4) its 12:31 amΒ 5) I canβt cause familyΒ 6) Iβm hoping she doesnβtΒ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Ronak said: 1) I agree and I take all blameΒ 2) yes I would like to call the police but my background is bad as in Iβm from a brown family and my family wonβt listen to me no matter what the case be so I canβt tell the police 3) I willΒ 4) its 12:31 amΒ 5) I canβt cause familyΒ 6) Iβm hoping she doesnβtΒ Ok Iβm making this one short because one, you need to go to sleep, and two I need to go do my chores before I get too comfy in my bed you shouldnβt take all the blame because sheβs the one that posted that stupid ad are you saying that the police are racist? And what do you mean by what you said about your family and your background?Β good like I said before go to sleep and sheβs probably asleep too or calling someone else ik ik I was just saying i hope so too fingers crossed MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Ok my last message is hidden until one of the people make sure itβs ok to share or smth like that so go to sleep and itβll probably be there in the morning when you wake up (btw ur like 5 hrs ahead of me) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 4, 2023 Author Share Posted April 4, 2023 3 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Ok my last message is hidden until one of the people make sure itβs ok to share or smth like that so go to sleep and itβll probably be there in the morning when you wake up (btw ur like 5 hrs ahead of me) Alright and thank you so much I donβt think Iβll be able to get any sleep but Iβll try because Iβm really worriedΒ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 Just now, Ronak said: Alright and thank you so much I donβt think Iβll be able to get any sleep but Iβll try because Iβm really worriedΒ Just try maybe by your time 3-4 in the afternoon is usually when I wake up my time usually around 10-11 but again Iβm not going to bed right now so if you really canβt sleep and you need someone to talk to Iβll be here but try and get some sleep goodnight @Ronak MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronak Posted April 5, 2023 Author Share Posted April 5, 2023 13 hours ago, Olivia05 said: Ok Iβm making this one short because one, you need to go to sleep, and two I need to go do my chores before I get too comfy in my bed you shouldnβt take all the blame because sheβs the one that posted that stupid ad are you saying that the police are racist? And what do you mean by what you said about your family and your background?Β good like I said before go to sleep and sheβs probably asleep too or calling someone else ik ik I was just saying i hope so too fingers crossed The police isnβt racist itβs just if my family finds out Iβm done like fully and my family wonβt look at me the same being from an Asian family is hard and especially when this happens to someone MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted April 5, 2023 Share Posted April 5, 2023 13 minutes ago, Ronak said: The police isnβt racist itβs just if my family finds out Iβm done like fully and my family wonβt look at me the same being from an Asian family is hard and especially when this happens to someone Has it happened before? Like to someone else? Also are your parents religious? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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