Huxley Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 (edited) Hi folks welcome back to where i talk about my problems! but now we don't want to hear my problems we want to hear YOUR problems. When you see this you have two options write a positive message, or share a problem you have this is a great place to just let go of your problems and get motivated! :) OK-DODIE now have fun!! @_Kai_ @Kayls523 @AceOfSpades @Emberfrost12 @peanutbutterstruggles @-Marra- @Gwendolyn Rose @-Piper @TinyDinos @sflowergirl @CoconutCultist Edited February 15, 2023 by Huxley 1 4 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 6 minutes ago, Huxley said: Hi folks welcome back to where i talk about my problems! but now we don't want to hear my problems we want to hear YOUR problems. When you see this you have two options write a positive message, or share a problem you have this is a great place to just let go of your problems and get motivated! :) OK-DODIE now have fun!! @_Kai_ @Kayls523 @AceOfSpades @Emberfrost12 @peanutbutterstruggles @-Marra- @Gwendolyn Rose @-Piper @TinyDinos @sflowergirl Hmmmmm, a problem I'm currently struggling with is that I have MAJOR trust issues but with some people I get attached too easily (They are confusing if u have both at the same time like do I trust them? Yes? No? Do I wanna be with them forever? Yes? No? Yes?) A positive message I wanted to share was just don't give up hope in the future, it'll get & be better eventually ^^ 3 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65008 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huxley Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 10 minutes ago, _Kai_ said: Hmmmmm, a problem I'm currently struggling with is that I have MAJOR trust issues but with some people I get attached too easily (They are confusing if u have both at the same time like do I trust them? Yes? No? Do I wanna be with them forever? Yes? No? Yes?) A positive message I wanted to share was just don't give up hope in the future, it'll get & be better eventually ^^ Yea i get that sometimes where you don't trust the person but you really really like them. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65015 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 22 minutes ago, Huxley said: Hi folks welcome back to where i talk about my problems! but now we don't want to hear my problems we want to hear YOUR problems. When you see this you have two options write a positive message, or share a problem you have this is a great place to just let go of your problems and get motivated! :) OK-DODIE now have fun!! @_Kai_ @Kayls523 @AceOfSpades @Emberfrost12 @peanutbutterstruggles @-Marra- @Gwendolyn Rose @-Piper @TinyDinos @sflowergirl @CoconutCultist Ig the thing that I'm struggling with is the possibility of having DID - one of my alters hates me so whoopee we can't afford to switch. I've been struggling with randomly deciding I can't do stuff and so, I'm not doing terribly well in school. Also, the prospect that I've been groomed (when I was eleven) is not doing me any favors...... 4 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65016 Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterstruggles Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 hey @Huxley thanks for tagging me :) i haven't been very active on DTL since my phone broke but i'll make sure to come back here in a while! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65032 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawthorne11 Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 I think this is a great idea @Huxley! I guess what I've been struggling with right now is depression/suicide/self-harm/telling my family I've been doing self-harm and learning not to use my mask personalities. And trying to make myself start running in preparation for the upcoming track season. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65039 Share on other sites More sharing options...
CoconutCultist Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 3 hours ago, Huxley said: Hi folks welcome back to where i talk about my problems! but now we don't want to hear my problems we want to hear YOUR problems. When you see this you have two options write a positive message, or share a problem you have this is a great place to just let go of your problems and get motivated! :) OK-DODIE now have fun!! @_Kai_ @Kayls523 @AceOfSpades @Emberfrost12 @peanutbutterstruggles @-Marra- @Gwendolyn Rose @-Piper @TinyDinos @sflowergirl @CoconutCultist I'm currently figuring out how to discreetly change my hair without cutting it to make it seem shorter at school. I'm also trying to buy a binder without my parents knowing. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65044 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kayls523 Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 3 hours ago, Huxley said: Hi folks welcome back to where i talk about my problems! but now we don't want to hear my problems we want to hear YOUR problems. When you see this you have two options write a positive message, or share a problem you have this is a great place to just let go of your problems and get motivated! :) OK-DODIE now have fun!! @_Kai_ @Kayls523 @AceOfSpades @Emberfrost12 @peanutbutterstruggles @-Marra- @Gwendolyn Rose @-Piper @TinyDinos @sflowergirl @CoconutCultist Something ive been struggling with is loneliness. I dont have many friends, and im really bad at being social. I also dont really trust myself with people because everytime i make friends they eventually get bored with me. 4 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65049 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huxley Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 1 hour ago, AceOfSpades said: I think this is a great idea @Huxley! I guess what I've been struggling with right now is depression/suicide/self-harm/telling my family I've been doing self-harm and learning not to use my mask personalities. And trying to make myself start running in preparation for the upcoming track season. Wow that's tough i wish i could help you i mean i could try. You know if you don't feel comfortable telling your parents you could write it down or type it out i know that helps me. I am currently in track right now (GO FALCONS!) and the one thing they keep telling us is practice practice PRACTICE. I wish we were irl so i could give you a hug (air hug) but you'll hang in there if you ever need anything of need a buddy we are here i am here! :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65054 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 1 hour ago, CoconutCultist said: I'm currently figuring out how to discreetly change my hair without cutting it to make it seem shorter at school. I'm also trying to buy a binder without my parents knowing. Good luck! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65056 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 (edited) This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. 4 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: Ig the thing that I'm struggling with is the possibility of having DID - one of my alters hates me so whoopee we can't afford to switch. I've been struggling with randomly deciding I can't do stuff and so, I'm not doing terribly well in school. Also, the prospect that I've been groomed (when I was eleven) is not doing me any favors...... Aghghghghgh guess who just got mad at a 'friend' for insensitive jokes?????????????????????????????????????? ME!!!!!!!!!! (I guess I finally got rid of them after this....) Ah...ha....ah I hate this so much. It is fair for me to be sensitive about pedophilia and sex jokes, all things considered....right??? Edited February 15, 2023 by Emberfrost12 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65057 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catsup Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 5 hours ago, _Kai_ said: Hmmmmm, a problem I'm currently struggling with is that I have MAJOR trust issues but with some people I get attached too easily (They are confusing if u have both at the same time like do I trust them? Yes? No? Do I wanna be with them forever? Yes? No? Yes?) A positive message I wanted to share was just don't give up hope in the future, it'll get & be better eventually ^^ You sound very self-aware of some of the things you struggle with, but I so agree that the future is hopeful and I enjoy seeing that picture of encouragement! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65062 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catsup Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 5 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: Ig the thing that I'm struggling with is the possibility of having DID - one of my alters hates me so whoopee we can't afford to switch. I've been struggling with randomly deciding I can't do stuff and so, I'm not doing terribly well in school. Also, the prospect that I've been groomed (when I was eleven) is not doing me any favors...... Hi, this is Catsup, one of the support mentors. It sounds like you are going through a lot so I hope you don't mind I reached out to you on confidential support! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65063 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catsup Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 4 hours ago, AceOfSpades said: I think this is a great idea @Huxley! I guess what I've been struggling with right now is depression/suicide/self-harm/telling my family I've been doing self-harm and learning not to use my mask personalities. And trying to make myself start running in preparation for the upcoming track season. Running for track sounds awesome! :) I sent a message in Confidential Support just to check in with you about the other stuff. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65065 Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 I’m struggling with my eating and not being happy in my body. I’m struggling with su-icidal thoughts and not being good enough MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65097 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted February 16, 2023 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted February 16, 2023 43 minutes ago, _Leila_ said: I’m struggling with my eating and not being happy in my body. I’m struggling with su-icidal thoughts and not being good enough Hey @_Leila_ if you haven't already - can you head over to confidential support? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65099 Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 12 minutes ago, Blondie said: Hey @_Leila_ if you haven't already - can you head over to confidential support? Of course sorry MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65100 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted February 16, 2023 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted February 16, 2023 2 minutes ago, _Leila_ said: Of course sorry No problem! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65103 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Luie Posted February 16, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted February 16, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Self-Harm Click this notice to reveal the content. 1 hour ago, Kayls523 said: I didnt know weather or not to say this on here because i know someone here from school, but another things ive been struggling with has been SH. Ive been clean for over a month but with the stress from school, my parents, my grades, and my friends ive been starting to relapse. Im trying not to, because i know its not good for me and i hate the scars it leaves. but im not suicidal, the SH just makes me feel better. Heyy @Kayls523, I am sorry to hear this, I was wondering if you'd like to head over to confidential support in top bar and start a conversation, it sounds like something which I can support you better one to one, does this sound like something you'd prefer? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65156 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kayls523 Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Self-Harm Click this notice to reveal the content. 12 minutes ago, Luie said: Heyy @Kayls523, I am sorry to hear this, I was wondering if you'd like to head over to confidential support in top bar and start a conversation, it sounds like something which I can support you better one to one, does this sound like something you'd prefer? Sure MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-65158 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 On 2/15/2023 at 12:02 PM, Kayls523 said: Something ive been struggling with is loneliness. I dont have many friends, and im really bad at being social. I also dont really trust myself with people because everytime i make friends they eventually get bored with me. I find that relatable, how do people even interact with each other, I find it very hard in rl? Also, I understand, and it is annoying when I just meet people and it is like a sudden gush and whirlwind friendship then they are board with me -__- MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-67285 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Luie Posted February 26, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted February 26, 2023 10 hours ago, Equivalent Ways said: I find that relatable, how do people even interact with each other, I find it very hard in rl? Also, I understand, and it is annoying when I just meet people and it is like a sudden gush and whirlwind friendship then they are board with me -__- Heyy @Equivalent Ways, you mean you find it difficult to interact with people in rl after or before the pandemic? Also, you think people get bored of you even though you feel a connection from them? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-67487 Share on other sites More sharing options...
sflowergirl Posted March 15, 2023 Share Posted March 15, 2023 Hiii I am so sorry I took a break for a while for my mental health it been really down because of my disease that I have :( but if anyone has ANY problems or they want support I am HERE! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-70175 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted March 15, 2023 Share Posted March 15, 2023 On 2/26/2023 at 4:39 AM, Luie said: Heyy @Equivalent Ways, you mean you find it difficult to interact with people in rl after or before the pandemic? Also, you think people get bored of you even though you feel a connection from them? Hi Luie, don't mind my tardiness haha... before and after the pandemic and just all around i find it a bit weird and difficult to interact with other humans. Even though I feel a connection to someone it can be hard to detect at time if it is reciprocal, not one-sided love :/ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-70191 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted March 15, 2023 Share Posted March 15, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, sflowergirl said: Hiii I am so sorry I took a break for a while for my mental health it been really down because of my disease that I have :( but if anyone has ANY problems or they want support I am HERE! Heya, sorry to hear that.. i have been needing to take a lot of breaks too lately. Right now I an very sick and it sucks. Hey but lets support one another ya :D Edited March 15, 2023 by Equivalent Ways MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6184-you-can-do-this/#findComment-70192 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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