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What do you wish the person who bullied you knew?


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I wish she knew that I was dealing with home issues & that she worsened my trichotillomania, I also wish she knew I was very emotional at that time & I would believe anything bad/hurtful I was told

 

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i wish they knew that when i heard them make a 'joke' about being nice because his other buddy could be suicidal, that i was thinking 'why couldn't he think that for me.

i also wish they knew that rape 'jokes' aren't funny because almost everyone in my friend group has been violated in some way, one friend their own brother

i finally wish that they knew that i read to escape everything and that they making fun of my reading and what i read just made it so that i couldn't even escape for a while, that they made my world collapse

one day i hope that they know that they almost killed the person who is a bestselling author that cured cancer

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11 hours ago, vega said:

i wish they knew that when i heard them make a 'joke' about being nice because his other buddy could be suicidal, that i was thinking 'why couldn't he think that for me.

i also wish they knew that rape 'jokes' aren't funny because almost everyone in my friend group has been violated in some way, one friend their own brother

i finally wish that they knew that i read to escape everything and that they making fun of my reading and what i read just made it so that i couldn't even escape for a while, that they made my world collapse

one day i hope that they know that they almost killed the person who is a bestselling author that cured cancer

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I wish they knew the way I though about things, and how the way they treated me made me change my view of the world. I want them to know how it feels to be terrified and hurt and absolutely furious all at the same time. I think if they could see what my thoughts and the way I see people, they wouldn't do that. 

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I wish they knew that no matter what they said I already heard 20x worse at home. I wish they knew that I’d never make more friends. I wish they knew that being a know-it-all was the only way to make my family proud. I wish they knew that my parents ultimately divorced. I wish they knew that I already knew they didn’t want me because even my mom said she didn’t want me. I wish they knew I’d always be the youngest kid in class and that 8 years later I still can’t talk to kids my age without having anxiety attacks. I wish they knew I couldn’t “run home and tell my daddy” because he wouldn’t show up anyways. I wish they knew that I’d remember every single thing they said, and how none of the teachers took me seriously. I wish they knew how empty I feel. How often I can’t even manage to drag myself out of bed because I don’t think I’m worth the oxygen I’m breathing. I wish they knew I tried to commit multiple times.

 

but most of all, I wish they knew, the bullying didn’t stop when I hid in the bathroom to cry, when I went home after school or tried to sleep. All it did was force me to be alone with my head, and there’s no greater enemy than yourself.

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5 hours ago, seekeroftruth6600 said:

I am a victim of parental bullying both physical and psychological, since I was 10 years of age. This made me have seroius trust issues with my parents and this led to low self esteem/self confidence which in turn led to me being bullied in school and later in college. I know it's an uphill task to overcome this but I have working on it for past 20 years without much relief. I need someone to get me through this.

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On 2/19/2023 at 11:07 AM, _Leila_ said:

You can make a fool of me because I’m a fool already 😭

I don't think that is true, I think you are an incredible person who has helped so many people and definitely has a spot in my heart.

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I like this thread it's such a good idea! I got bullied from a very young age so we're talking about four or five it's left a permanent scar in my head and thus I lost my innocence from a very young age. I would probably tell them that just because I'm disabled does not mean I'm any different from other people, and I'm clearly not mental if I'm in a public school which was also mainstream, because after all, disabilities  do not make you who you are, you make yourself who you are 

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1 minute ago, Blc said:

I like this thread it's such a good idea! I got bullied from a very young age so we're talking about four or five it's left a permanent scar in my head and thus I lost my innocence from a very young age. I would probably tell them that just because I'm disabled does not mean I'm any different from other people, and I'm clearly not mental if I'm in a public school which was also mainstream, because after all, disabilities  do not make you who you are, you make yourself who you are 

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4 minutes ago, Blc said:

I like this thread it's such a good idea! I got bullied from a very young age so we're talking about four or five it's left a permanent scar in my head and thus I lost my innocence from a very young age. I would probably tell them that just because I'm disabled does not mean I'm any different from other people, and I'm clearly not mental if I'm in a public school which was also mainstream, because after all, disabilities  do not make you who you are, you make yourself who you are 

Compa, im so sorry that you had to go though that ik that’s something you and me connected on and while thats kinda fucked up but i rather connect with someone over trauma then with someone i have to explain my trauma too 

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