Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 23, 2022 Share Posted August 23, 2022 I hope you don't think I'm fishing fir compliments or pity but I need some form of validation. I know I'm a trans guy but I dont pass and it sincerely bugs me. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sflowergirl Posted August 23, 2022 Share Posted August 23, 2022 @Thisboiistrans who says you don't pass? b/c they are quite stupid if they believe that you don't pass. you are the only person who believes if you pass or not ,not society, not people around you, not guidelines, or definitions only YOU! @sflowergirl 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 6 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said: I hope you don't think I'm fishing fir compliments or pity but I need some form of validation. I know I'm a trans guy but I dont pass and it sincerely bugs me. I know how that feels, we're both doing our best and we'll figure out how to pass at some point, in the mean time, we just have to try :) 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 I do mean that, my dysphoria is really bad right now too 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 @Emberfrost12 thanks mate I needed that @sflowergirl Its me that said I didnt pass tbh. But thank you MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 6 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: I do mean that, my dysphoria is really bad right now too Hey I have my results tomorrow for gcses 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 I have my gcse results day tomorrow MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Harper Posted August 24, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted August 24, 2022 5 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said: Hey I have my results tomorrow for gcses Good luck! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 Also I really wanna work out more but my college wont do PE unless you pick the course. I picked childcare German and " health and social care" (all one topic) for my courses MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 Just now, Harper said: Good luck! Thank you. Tbh I'm still a lil nervous. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 Just now, Thisboiistrans said: Also I really wanna work out more but my college wont do PE unless you pick the course. I picked childcare German and " health and social care" (all one topic) for my courses Am I allowed to say this or? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted August 24, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted August 24, 2022 10 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said: I have my gcse results day tomorrow Good luck! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 Just now, Blondie said: Good luck! Thanks! Hey blondie can I talk to you in the inbox a second? Only if you have the time of course MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 34 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said: Thanks! Hey blondie can I talk to you in the inbox a second? Only if you have the time of course Hey there, Good luck for tomorrow! You can send me a message if you like? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 Yeah just give me a second MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 I'm back! How is everyone? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sflowergirl Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 10 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said: I have my gcse results day tomorrow sending my luck! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 4 minutes ago, sflowergirl said: sending my luck! Thanks MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sflowergirl Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 10 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said: @Emberfrost12 thanks mate I needed that @sflowergirl Its me that said I didnt pass tbh. But thank you when I am down and I am like really "blah" I say to myself "there will be better days ahead I just need to get through this one" also I am always here to talk! so if you need to vent/talk to someone I am always here. I cant really pretend to know what it is like in your situation but I am always here @sflowergirll MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 Thank you so much MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 But if I get called miss one more time today I am gonna scream 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sflowergirl Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 you know what thats is jut mean okay like "get with it peeps!!" MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 2 minutes ago, sflowergirl said: you know what thats is jut mean okay like "get with it peeps!!" No it's from random strangers but it still bothers me. Like I get that they don't know bc wr haven't met but it still hurts MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sflowergirl Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 you shouldn't have to get it. they shouldn't assume that is the problem with the world if I were to see someone I would not classify them into a gender if I didn't know them. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted August 24, 2022 Author Share Posted August 24, 2022 Yeah. I wish someone would give me Male compliments but I only get them from one of my friends and I might not be in contact with them soon MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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