Digital Mentor Aurora Posted October 23, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 23, 2023 10 hours ago, TinyDinos said: Band. I did two band classes and just finished my bass lesson. I still havenโt eaten or showered or done laundry or the paper Iโm supposed to have done by tonight. Iโm miserably unproductiveย Two band classes and a bass lesson - it sounds to me like you've done quite a lot today already . Do you mind me asking why you think that you are being unproductive? I have also replied to your message on CS in case you would prefer to talk about it there.ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyDinos Posted October 23, 2023 Share Posted October 23, 2023 5 hours ago, Aurora said: Two band classes and a bass lesson - it sounds to me like you've done quite a lot today already . Do you mind me asking why you think that you are being unproductive? I have also replied to your message on CS in case you would prefer to talk about it there.ย Those are auxiliary. The things I actually had to go were put aside because of those. Doing things for fun isnโt being productive, and thatโs exactly what I did. The things I mentioned later in the post however, did get completed before the day was over with the exception of the shower, and I wonโt have the chance to today because I donโt have access to my shower rn and donโt want to use my sistersโ shower, so maybe tonight. I ate dinner though, and wrote my stupid paper (now Iโm dealing with my professorโs bad attitude ) and my sister put away my laundry for me which I was super grateful for. It was nice to take my clothes neatly out of the closet rather than digging around in my laundry bin. I still have quite a bit of cleaning to do in my room, but I just donโt have it in me. I got yelled at this morning for โwaking up at 9 (it was like 8:30 but I digress) ย only because my mom woke me upโ. She was mad because I didnโt get up on my own, and because I hadnโt let the dogs out yet or fed them because she had students coming soon. No matter what I do Iโm wrong. I even messed up sleeping lmao. What am I even doing anymore MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted October 23, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 23, 2023 2 hours ago, TinyDinos said: Those are auxiliary. The things I actually had to go were put aside because of those. Doing things for fun isnโt being productive, and thatโs exactly what I did. The things I mentioned later in the post however, did get completed before the day was over with the exception of the shower, and I wonโt have the chance to today because I donโt have access to my shower rn and donโt want to use my sistersโ shower, so maybe tonight. I ate dinner though, and wrote my stupid paper (now Iโm dealing with my professorโs bad attitude ) and my sister put away my laundry for me which I was super grateful for. It was nice to take my clothes neatly out of the closet rather than digging around in my laundry bin. I still have quite a bit of cleaning to do in my room, but I just donโt have it in me. I got yelled at this morning for โwaking up at 9 (it was like 8:30 but I digress) ย only because my mom woke me upโ. She was mad because I didnโt get up on my own, and because I hadnโt let the dogs out yet or fed them because she had students coming soon. No matter what I do Iโm wrong. I even messed up sleeping lmao. What am I even doing anymore Hi TinyDinos. It sounds like you're really exhuasted and overwhelmed right now. Do you find yourself feeling sleepier than before? It might be your body's way to ask you to slow down. I know you've got a lot going on and that you've been working so hard for such a long time. But it does sound like you would need a break where you can just rest and do things in your pace. Are you able to get this during the weekends or not during the week? I'm so happy your sister helped you with your laundry. It sounds like the kind of kindness you really needed at that moment. It is a small gesture that tells you that she's really looking out for youย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyDinos Posted October 24, 2023 Share Posted October 24, 2023 9 hours ago, Duckie said: Hi TinyDinos. It sounds like you're really exhuasted and overwhelmed right now. Do you find yourself feeling sleepier than before? It might be your body's way to ask you to slow down. I know you've got a lot going on and that you've been working so hard for such a long time. But it does sound like you would need a break where you can just rest and do things in your pace. Are you able to get this during the weekends or not during the week? I'm so happy your sister helped you with your laundry. It sounds like the kind of kindness you really needed at that moment. It is a small gesture that tells you that she's really looking out for youย Yeah as per usual. I am really sleepy lately. I almost never nap unless I pull an all nighter or Iโm sick, ย but I have taken a midday nap almost every day this week. Itโs weird. Today was mostly chill except for the morning. I played more bass today and watched Scream w my family. It was nice. I didnโt nap though. I wanted to draw smt but wound up just scrolling thru Pinterest instead of actually drawing. Iโm gonna sleep again now. My sister was really nice to me, I didnโt even ask her to do it and she did, and then she didnโt do a bad job either, she actually treated my things with respect which is nice. Like I said, it made my morning a little bit nicer despite my momโs yelling and nitpicking. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted October 24, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 24, 2023 7 hours ago, TinyDinos said: Yeah as per usual. I am really sleepy lately. I almost never nap unless I pull an all nighter or Iโm sick, ย but I have taken a midday nap almost every day this week. Itโs weird. Today was mostly chill except for the morning. I played more bass today and watched Scream w my family. It was nice. I didnโt nap though. I wanted to draw smt but wound up just scrolling thru Pinterest instead of actually drawing. Iโm gonna sleep again now. My sister was really nice to me, I didnโt even ask her to do it and she did, and then she didnโt do a bad job either, she actually treated my things with respect which is nice. Like I said, it made my morning a little bit nicer despite my momโs yelling and nitpicking. You sound exhausted. Are you getting enough time to just be by yourself and do things that make you feel well in general? I am happy you and your family had a nice time watching Scream. Those little moments are so important :) Maybe you could do a horror movie night with pumpkin carving and a bit of arts and crafts together for Halloween?ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyDinos Posted October 24, 2023 Share Posted October 24, 2023 3 hours ago, Duckie said: You sound exhausted. Are you getting enough time to just be by yourself and do things that make you feel well in general? I am happy you and your family had a nice time watching Scream. Those little moments are so important :) Maybe you could do a horror movie night with pumpkin carving and a bit of arts and crafts together for Halloween?ย I donโt know. Iโm probably gonna carve pumpkins w my uncle and his family (they live right down the street) and we might watch coralline and Iโm excited for that too. I like spooky season. Weโre probably gonna watch Jeepers Creepers with my parents next and weโre looking forward to it MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted October 24, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 24, 2023 1 hour ago, TinyDinos said: I donโt know. Iโm probably gonna carve pumpkins w my uncle and his family (they live right down the street) and we might watch coralline and Iโm excited for that too. I like spooky season. Weโre probably gonna watch Jeepers Creepers with my parents next and weโre looking forward to it That sounds really exciting! I love Halloween too, but I always end up watching the scary movies alone as my family are wimpy like that lol. We usually end up watching the Muppets Haunted House (because my daughter is 4 so it's just up her street). Coraline is great though! Have you read the book by Neil Gaiman? It's really good :) Never watched Jeepers Creepers. Is it good? Are you doing any halloween arts and crafts bits? :)ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyDinos Posted October 24, 2023 Share Posted October 24, 2023 2 hours ago, Duckie said: That sounds really exciting! I love Halloween too, but I always end up watching the scary movies alone as my family are wimpy like that lol. We usually end up watching the Muppets Haunted House (because my daughter is 4 so it's just up her street). Coraline is great though! Have you read the book by Neil Gaiman? It's really good :) Never watched Jeepers Creepers. Is it good? Are you doing any halloween arts and crafts bits? :)ย We are wimps too haha. My sisters and I just barely worked up enough courage to watch the scarier ones. We literally couldnโt stomach making it past Drew Barrymore in Scream so it was a big deal that we made it through the whole movie. That sounds so sweet that you can do that with your daughter What is she dressing up as for Halloween? I havenโt read the book yet, and I only saw the movie for the first time last year and loved it. Iโve never watched Jeepers Creepers yet either, but my Stepdad agreed with my mom that they would take turns choosing the scary movies haha. He doesnโt like Scream so she got to choose that one for her turn, and he chose Jeepers Creepers. I donโt know anything about it yet though haha. I just texted my uncle today about doing pumpkin carving but he hasnโt replied yet. Iโve wanted to do inktober for a while now but always forget to start and by the time I realize itโs too late lol. I might do some spooky art though. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted October 24, 2023 Share Posted October 24, 2023 2 hours ago, Duckie said: That sounds really exciting! I love Halloween too, but I always end up watching the scary movies alone as my family are wimpy like that lol. We usually end up watching the Muppets Haunted House (because my daughter is 4 so it's just up her street). Coraline is great though! Have you read the book by Neil Gaiman? It's really good :) Never watched Jeepers Creepers. Is it good? Are you doing any halloween arts and crafts bits? :)ย I'm terrible with horror movies. I don't find it scary enough until I suddenly find it so scary that for the next month I keep thinking about it while trying to fall asleep. It definitely does not help me sleep...... MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted October 25, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 25, 2023 11 hours ago, TinyDinos said: We are wimps too haha. My sisters and I just barely worked up enough courage to watch the scarier ones. We literally couldnโt stomach making it past Drew Barrymore in Scream so it was a big deal that we made it through the whole movie. That sounds so sweet that you can do that with your daughter What is she dressing up as for Halloween? I havenโt read the book yet, and I only saw the movie for the first time last year and loved it. Iโve never watched Jeepers Creepers yet either, but my Stepdad agreed with my mom that they would take turns choosing the scary movies haha. He doesnโt like Scream so she got to choose that one for her turn, and he chose Jeepers Creepers. I donโt know anything about it yet though haha. I just texted my uncle today about doing pumpkin carving but he hasnโt replied yet. Iโve wanted to do inktober for a while now but always forget to start and by the time I realize itโs too late lol. I might do some spooky art though. To be fair that Drew Barrymore scene is pretty unsettling and scary. First time I watched it my mouth was wide open in terror. I still struggle with anything that looks like torture, so I'm not that desensitised, but I do like paranormal movies (probably because they make me a tiny bit scared but they don't really get to me as much). I need to think something milder to watch with my husband... he had nightmares for weeks after watching IT... So might try Jeepers Creepers! Let me know if it's any good! Defo taking our daughter trick or treating this year, but haven't figured out the details just yetย ย She has a unicorn suit that makes it look like she's riding a unicorn, which is really dope. But she says she wants a dinosaur outfit so might have to go on amazon and see what's available. Last year (her first year trick or treating) she was a cat. We got our first pumpkin and she found it a bit scary, so we called the pumpkin "Isabelle" to make it less intimidating! Now she thinks all pumpkins are named Isabelle. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted October 25, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 25, 2023 11 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: I'm terrible with horror movies. I don't find it scary enough until I suddenly find it so scary that for the next month I keep thinking about it while trying to fall asleep. It definitely does not help me sleep...... It's hard to find that balance isn't it? I've had the same issue myself thinking something isn't really getting to me and then suddenly it does. Or I may not even realise that it has until later. There's a fine line with some movies... Do you have an example of a movie that is just right, as in gives you a bit of a fright, but doesn't make it hard to sleep afterwards? You might find it helpful to google "movies like *insert the movie you have in mind*". The algorithms are surprisingly good at finding similar movies that you might enjoy. I sometimes check the parental advisory on imdb (even if it is for myself lol) to see if there is anything that might be triggering for me to watch. And sometimes I stick with silly horror movies. One moment I flinch and the next I'm in tears laughing. Black Sheep is the all time favourite! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyDinos Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 7 hours ago, Duckie said: To be fair that Drew Barrymore scene is pretty unsettling and scary. First time I watched it my mouth was wide open in terror. I still struggle with anything that looks like torture, so I'm not that desensitised, but I do like paranormal movies (probably because they make me a tiny bit scared but they don't really get to me as much). I need to think something milder to watch with my husband... he had nightmares for weeks after watching IT... So might try Jeepers Creepers! Let me know if it's any good! Defo taking our daughter trick or treating this year, but haven't figured out the details just yetย ย She has a unicorn suit that makes it look like she's riding a unicorn, which is really dope. But she says she wants a dinosaur outfit so might have to go on amazon and see what's available. Last year (her first year trick or treating) she was a cat. We got our first pumpkin and she found it a bit scary, so we called the pumpkin "Isabelle" to make it less intimidating! Now she thinks all pumpkins are named Isabelle. Awwwww precioussss! I love that! She seems like she would be so much fun to babysit ย Iโll let you know about the movie fs haha. I feel your husband on that one though.. I try to stay away from clowns if possible haha MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bianca.C Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 I'm scared all the time. I don't even belong here 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 8 minutes ago, Bianca.C said: I'm scared all the time. I don't even belong here You do belong here! You deserve support as much as anyone else, are you feeling safe right now? I hope youโre okay? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bianca.C Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 I'm going okay. Yeah i am. It's just hard sometimesย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bianca.C Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 I just feel helpless and lostย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 Iโm sorry to hear that, Bianca. What usually helps when youโre feeling this low? Weโre here for you MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 Youโre not alone, you do not have to suffer alone. We at DTL are rooting for you to get better and see yourself like we do, as the amazing person you are .ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted November 10, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted November 10, 2023 1 hour ago, Bianca.C said: I'm scared all the time. I don't even belong here Hi @Bianca.C, thanks so much for reaching out. I can see that @Megs-ย has already been supporting you and I wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I have seen the message you wrote on confidential support and I have replied to you there. We're here for youย ย MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bianca.C Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 When I'm feeling this low. I usually go hang out with my boyfriend. No matter how I'm feeling. He always makes me smile and laugh and then I realize where I belong ย 2 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 When the mh services leave you out toโgoโ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Digital Mentor Duckie Posted November 10, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted November 10, 2023 5 minutes ago, Bianca.C said: I'm sorry I don't understand what you are trying to say Hi Bianca, I think the comment above was referring to a different situation. How are you feeling now? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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catgal05 Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 10 hours ago, Bianca.C said: I'm scared all the time. I don't even belong here Hugs MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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