Megs- Posted April 23 Author Share Posted April 23 Wish my own boyfriend was proud of me.. :( 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzy.sky Posted April 23 Share Posted April 23 Just now, Megs- said: Wish my own boyfriend was proud of me.. :( I'm so sorry that he's not supportive of your fantastic progress Megs, you deserve all the cheers and support and its upsetting that he is not recognising how amazing this achievement is. But don't feel down because he isn't proud, because all of us at DTL are, and you should be super proud of yourself too! Maybe one day he will be more supportive 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 23 Author Share Posted April 23 Bloody twat came home, im feeling crap he comes home and I was joking, then says im not in the mood.. well you’re in the mood to fucking chest on me? Ok that makes perfect fucking sense doesn’t it. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 23 Author Share Posted April 23 Just now, Megs- said: Bloody twat came home, im feeling crap he comes home and I was joking, then says im not in the mood.. well you’re in the mood to fucking chest on me? Ok that makes perfect fucking sense doesn’t it. Cheat MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzy.sky Posted April 23 Share Posted April 23 This post was recognized by Duckie! "Such a lovely message. You're a good friend :)" jazzy.sky was awarded the badge 'Act of Kindness' and 10 points. 1 minute ago, Megs- said: Bloody twat came home, im feeling crap he comes home and I was joking, then says im not in the mood.. well you’re in the mood to fucking chest on me? Ok that makes perfect fucking sense doesn’t it. Megs I am so sorry to hear this, you deserve so much better and the fact that he has cheated on you proves that maybe it might be time to move away from him. He clearly doesn't realise how lucky he is to have a wonderful girl like you in his life and I hope you find someone who does appreciate you sending you a big warm hug hope your situation improves and always remember to go where you are appreciated! Here for u if you need to vent MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 23 Author Share Posted April 23 Oh thank you.. it doesn’t matter if I say anything I’ll be yelled at and to made to feel rubbish about myself. And everything will be my fault, oh and I’d be overreacting too.. oh and my diagnosis will be brought into it too the nastiness about me having bpd will definitely be judged by him.. oh yeah I am so done. Maybe I am the issue , I can never fucking do anything RITHT! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 23 Author Share Posted April 23 I missed it but… 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted April 24 Digital Mentor Share Posted April 24 13 hours ago, Megs- said: Oh thank you.. it doesn’t matter if I say anything I’ll be yelled at and to made to feel rubbish about myself. And everything will be my fault, oh and I’d be overreacting too.. oh and my diagnosis will be brought into it too the nastiness about me having bpd will definitely be judged by him.. oh yeah I am so done. Maybe I am the issue , I can never fucking do anything RITHT! Hi @Megs-, I'm really sorry to hear all this. I mean here you are making great progress and I hate the fact that he is raining on your parade. You get upset because he is doing upsetting things and yet he finds a way to blame your diagnosis for it, which is ableist at best and gaslighting at worst. Because you're entitled to your feelings and he is in no position to judge you. I'm here if you want to talk 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 24 Author Share Posted April 24 26 minutes ago, Duckie said: Hi @Megs-, I'm really sorry to hear all this. I mean here you are making great progress and I hate the fact that he is raining on your parade. You get upset because he is doing upsetting things and yet he finds a way to blame your diagnosis for it, which is ableist at best and gaslighting at worst. Because you're entitled to your feelings and he is in no position to judge you. I'm here if you want to talk Thank you so much, sorry was at dentist. Will message on CS MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 24 Author Share Posted April 24 (edited) 31 minutes ago, Duckie said: Hi @Megs-, I'm really sorry to hear all this. I mean here you are making great progress and I hate the fact that he is raining on your parade. You get upset because he is doing upsetting things and yet he finds a way to blame your diagnosis for it, which is ableist at best and gaslighting at worst. Because you're entitled to your feelings and he is in no position to judge you. I'm here if you want to talk Deleted Edited April 24 by Megs- MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted April 24 Digital Mentor Share Posted April 24 47 minutes ago, Megs- said: Thank you so much, sorry was at dentist. Will message on CS No worries at all. Hope all went well at the dentist MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Luie Posted April 27 Digital Mentor Share Posted April 27 On 4/23/2024 at 7:56 PM, Megs- said: Oh thank you.. it doesn’t matter if I say anything I’ll be yelled at and to made to feel rubbish about myself. And everything will be my fault, oh and I’d be overreacting too.. oh and my diagnosis will be brought into it too the nastiness about me having bpd will definitely be judged by him.. oh yeah I am so done. Maybe I am the issue , I can never fucking do anything RITHT! I am sorry you went through this, I just caught up with everything. That sounds really hurtful. I am super proud of you doing so well with your SH journey, and @jazzy.sky really did put a thoughtful message. Sometimes in life the support and validation might come from other sources that are not our partners and that is okay. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 28 Author Share Posted April 28 lol I cba with this MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzy.sky Posted April 28 Share Posted April 28 1 hour ago, Megs- said: lol I cba with this Hey Megs, what's going on? Here if u need a person to listen MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 28 Author Share Posted April 28 1 hour ago, jazzy.sky said: Hey Megs, what's going on? Here if u need a person to listen Thanks. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted April 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted April 28 5 hours ago, Megs- said: lol I cba with this Are you OK? I'm around this eve if you want to talk. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 28 Author Share Posted April 28 Just now, Duckie said: Are you OK? I'm around this eve if you want to talk. Duckie MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted April 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted April 28 1 minute ago, Megs- said: Duckie I'm here sweetheart MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 28 Author Share Posted April 28 Just now, Duckie said: I'm here sweetheart Will message on cs MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted April 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted April 28 36 minutes ago, Megs- said: Will message on cs Thank you I don't ever want you or anyone else to suffer in silence. 2 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted April 29 Author Share Posted April 29 16 hours ago, Duckie said: Thank you I don't ever want you or anyone else to suffer in silence. Definitely MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted Tuesday at 07:43 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 07:43 PM Almost 2 months.. holy fucking shit! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted Tuesday at 07:51 PM Digital Mentor Share Posted Tuesday at 07:51 PM 7 minutes ago, Megs- said: Almost 2 months.. holy fucking shit! I can't believe it What an amazing achievement! When will it be 2 months? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megs- Posted Tuesday at 08:31 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 08:31 PM 40 minutes ago, Duckie said: I can't believe it What an amazing achievement! When will it be 2 months? 4th may! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Duckie Posted Tuesday at 08:33 PM Digital Mentor Share Posted Tuesday at 08:33 PM 1 minute ago, Megs- said: 4th may! May the fourth be with you! (Star Wars meme) Honestly though, that is so cool! Can you remember the last time you went for a full two months? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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