_Kai_ Posted April 27, 2022 Author Share Posted April 27, 2022 Okay so none yet that I like but ima stop talking to my family as much, first my brother because he knows that i'm nonbinary and wanting to use my preferred pronouns and my new name Kai. But he keeps using my deadname even though I asked him not to. Second my mom and dad because I can't stand their stupid arguing over literally nothing but I think its when my dad gets drunk which is like everyday- MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 27, 2022 Share Posted April 27, 2022 1 hour ago, lKail said: Okay so none yet that I like but ima stop talking to my family as much, first my brother because he knows that i'm nonbinary and wanting to use my preferred pronouns and my new name Kai. But he keeps using my deadname even though I asked him not to. Second my mom and dad because I can't stand their stupid arguing over literally nothing but I think its when my dad gets drunk which is like everyday- Hey, It sounds like home is pretty tricky for you at the moment, and I just want to check in and see how are you feeling about everything? I can imagine that things are pretty stressful for you, and I just want you to know that this is a safe, calm space in which you can let it all out; we all have your back here :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 27, 2022 Author Share Posted April 27, 2022 Well I'm feeling terrible, how are you? Also yeah I know this place is like a safe place/home for me ^^ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 28, 2022 Share Posted April 28, 2022 13 hours ago, lKail said: Well I'm feeling terrible, how are you? Also yeah I know this place is like a safe place/home for me ^^ Hey, Sorry to hear you're feeling terrible. Is it about what's going on at home, or is there something else as well? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 28, 2022 Author Share Posted April 28, 2022 It's half of what's going on at home and the other half is that 3 of the people I am with haven't been online/talking for like a week or two, and the other person I'm with was being a huge dush bag but then he started being all sweet and kind which I find very odd and confusing- MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 28, 2022 Share Posted April 28, 2022 Hey there, Sorry to hear that the person you were with is being a bit up and down. Can you tell me more about how it is with him? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 28, 2022 Author Share Posted April 28, 2022 Well its complicating being with him cuz of him being all rude and stuff then going happy and sweet. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 29, 2022 Share Posted April 29, 2022 9 hours ago, lKail said: Well its complicating being with him cuz of him being all rude and stuff then going happy and sweet. Yeah, how is it making you feel? You must be pretty confused. I'm wondering, why do you think he is being like this? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 29, 2022 Author Share Posted April 29, 2022 Tbh idk why he's acting like this and yeah I am really confused, but he could've just had a bad day. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 29, 2022 Share Posted April 29, 2022 Hey, Yeah, he possibly could have had a bad day, and I'm wondering, could it be good to speak with him about how you're feeling? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 29, 2022 Author Share Posted April 29, 2022 I could talk to him but I don't wanna invade his personal life if thats it. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted April 29, 2022 Share Posted April 29, 2022 Kai Do you also go by FreaknamedKai? By any chance MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 29, 2022 Author Share Posted April 29, 2022 Nah, that's someone else .-. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted April 29, 2022 Share Posted April 29, 2022 Oh ok my bad MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 29, 2022 Author Share Posted April 29, 2022 Its alr MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted April 29, 2022 Share Posted April 29, 2022 Anyway Havent spoken in a while How've you been? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 29, 2022 Author Share Posted April 29, 2022 I'm been fine/eh, wby? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 30, 2022 Share Posted April 30, 2022 16 hours ago, lKail said: I could talk to him but I don't wanna invade his personal life if thats it. Hey there, The thing is though, this is impacting you, and your thoughts and feelings are important too. When we keep things like this, it can lead to resentment. What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 30, 2022 Author Share Posted April 30, 2022 Yeah, but I'm kinda used to it MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 1, 2022 Share Posted May 1, 2022 12 hours ago, lKail said: Yeah, but I'm kinda used to it Hey there, Yeah, I totally get how you can get used to something like this, but my question is, do you have to stay used to it, or can something be done to make it better? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted May 1, 2022 Author Share Posted May 1, 2022 Tbh idrk if I do have to stay used to it. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Hey, Yeah, I think it's important to share how you're feeling because this is affecting you . What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted May 2, 2022 Author Share Posted May 2, 2022 Yeah, and also I talked to him about how I was feeling today but he also wasn't in a good mood today as well. So ima give him some space so he can cool down. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Hey there, Sorry to hear he wasn't in a good mood again today. Are you going to carry on once he has cooled down? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted May 2, 2022 Author Share Posted May 2, 2022 Ima try to, but I just hope he's gonna act a little nicer. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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