Monsoon Posted April 14, 2022 Share Posted April 14, 2022 2 hours ago, lKail said: Okay so I forgot to mention this last time, my dad said one of the reasons why I couldn't get a "boy" style haircut was because people would look at me and my family weird, and he said people might make fun of me at my new school. -__- Like WhAt-? Hey there, Ah, that sucks. How did it make you feel when he said that? Also, I'm wondering, what do you think he is trying to do when he says you couldn't get the haircut because people might make fun of you? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 15, 2022 Author Share Posted April 15, 2022 Tbh I think he's just scared people will question him about it. Plus it just made me confused when he said that like I don't really care if people at my new school make fun of me like I'm used to it, but at least I could show my true self ^^ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenly Posted April 15, 2022 Share Posted April 15, 2022 44 minutes ago, lKail said: Tbh I think he's just scared people will question him about it. Plus it just made me confused when he said that like I don't really care if people at my new school make fun of me like I'm used to it, but at least I could show my true self ^^ He must be trying to hide his feelings MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 15, 2022 Author Share Posted April 15, 2022 Yeah ngl he does that alot, the only time he does show his feelings is when hes drunk and arguing with my mom. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenly Posted April 16, 2022 Share Posted April 16, 2022 4 hours ago, lKail said: Yeah ngl he does that alot, the only time he does show his feelings is when hes drunk and arguing with my mom. That's sucks I hope he can express his feelings normally soon MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 16, 2022 Author Share Posted April 16, 2022 Same MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 16, 2022 Author Share Posted April 16, 2022 Dude I almost just teared up cuz my dad said "Whenever you get a girlfriend or a boyfriend you better treat them right and not cheat"... He's atleast opened to me getting a bf or even a gf ^^ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mentalhealthdumpsterfire Posted April 16, 2022 Share Posted April 16, 2022 That is possibly the best thing ever for a parent to say to their kid, I wish :/ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 16, 2022 Author Share Posted April 16, 2022 IKR Like I wasn't expecting HIM to say that MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 16, 2022 Share Posted April 16, 2022 14 hours ago, lKail said: Tbh I think he's just scared people will question him about it. Plus it just made me confused when he said that like I don't really care if people at my new school make fun of me like I'm used to it, but at least I could show my true self ^^ 6 hours ago, lKail said: Dude I almost just teared up cuz my dad said "Whenever you get a girlfriend or a boyfriend you better treat them right and not cheat"... He's atleast opened to me getting a bf or even a gf ^^ Hey, Yeah, he might be scared of people questioning him about it, and he could also be saying it just to protect you. What do you think? Also, that's so sweet what he said about a girlfriend or a boyfriend; how did that make you feel? :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 16, 2022 Author Share Posted April 16, 2022 It made me feel not hopeless and honestly good that he at least knows I won't just have a bf. Also it could've been that he was drunk..? But I am hoping that was him saying that. Also I don't know why he would have to protect me over a haircut MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 17, 2022 Share Posted April 17, 2022 14 hours ago, lKail said: It made me feel not hopeless and honestly good that he at least knows I won't just have a bf. Also it could've been that he was drunk..? But I am hoping that was him saying that. Also I don't know why he would have to protect me over a haircut Hey there, I'm wondering, could he want to protect you from people potentially teasing you over it? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 17, 2022 Author Share Posted April 17, 2022 Yeah but tbh I just want to show my true self Like even if I do get teased idrc MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 18, 2022 Share Posted April 18, 2022 Hey, Yeah, I think that what your dad is saying is probably coming from a caring place if you know what I mean? I'm wondering, have you told him that you still want to show your true self even if you do get teased? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 18, 2022 Author Share Posted April 18, 2022 Yeah but he still doesn't agree as always. Also wdym by the first part of like what you said-? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 19, 2022 Share Posted April 19, 2022 11 hours ago, lKail said: Yeah but he still doesn't agree as always. Also wdym by the first part of like what you said-? Hey there, So, when your dad said no to getting the boy haircut because of how people might look at your weirdly and that you might get teased, to me, this sounds like he said no to try and protect you. So, by stopping you from getting the haircut, it might be that he is trying to protect you. What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 19, 2022 Author Share Posted April 19, 2022 Yeah he could be trying to protect me, but he knows I hate long hair. So I don't know how long I can deal with the long hair- MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 19, 2022 Share Posted April 19, 2022 1 hour ago, lKail said: Yeah he could be trying to protect me, but he knows I hate long hair. So I don't know how long I can deal with the long hair- Hey there, Yeah, I totally get why you would hate it. What does it feel like for you to have the long hair? For now, I'm wondering, could you potentially style it so it looks shorter? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 19, 2022 Author Share Posted April 19, 2022 I tbh don't know how I could style it to look shorter, but yeah like I hate the look and feeling of having long hair well for myself. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenly Posted April 21, 2022 Share Posted April 21, 2022 On 4/15/2022 at 8:41 PM, lKail said: Dude I almost just teared up cuz my dad said "Whenever you get a girlfriend or a boyfriend you better treat them right and not cheat"... He's atleast opened to me getting a bf or even a gf ^^ Aww that's a start MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 21, 2022 Share Posted April 21, 2022 On 4/19/2022 at 7:38 PM, lKail said: I tbh don't know how I could style it to look shorter, but yeah like I hate the look and feeling of having long hair well for myself. Hey, Have you had a look online? Maybe you could search how to style long hair so it looks shorter? :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 21, 2022 Author Share Posted April 21, 2022 Actually I don't think I have, so I'll try. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 22, 2022 Share Posted April 22, 2022 16 hours ago, lKail said: Actually I don't think I have, so I'll try. Yeah, I think it would be good to have a look for inspiration online. Would you like to let us know what you find once you've had a look? :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted April 22, 2022 Author Share Posted April 22, 2022 Yeah I will, but I'll keep searching. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted April 22, 2022 Share Posted April 22, 2022 3 hours ago, lKail said: Yeah I will, but I'll keep searching. Great. Can't wait to hear back! :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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