Laleeni Posted November 27, 2022 Share Posted November 27, 2022 Do you ever feel like you just suck at everything and everybody hates you I dont think anything i do will ever be enough and i disappoint everybody 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted November 28, 2022 Share Posted November 28, 2022 This post was recognized by Aurora! Emberfrost12 was awarded the badge 'Great Advice' and 10 points. 2 hours ago, Laleeni said: Do you ever feel like you just suck at everything and everybody hates you I dont think anything i do will ever be enough and i disappoint everybody I have felt like that, but there is one thing you need to remember: It's not true, and you are enough MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted November 28, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted November 28, 2022 14 hours ago, Laleeni said: Do you ever feel like you just suck at everything and everybody hates you I dont think anything i do will ever be enough and i disappoint everybody Hi @Laleeni, I'm Aurora and I'm one of the support mentors here at Ditch the Label. Thank you for reaching out to us and letting us know what's going on for you. This is a safe space, where you can let out your feelings. I've seen that @Emberfrost12 has already given you some good advice. It sounds like you are being quite hard on yourself. Would you agree? I just wanted to reassure you, that most of us feel like that sometimes. What I find helpful in those situations is to think of what I would say to a friend who felt like that. Do you mind me asking, what would you say to your friend, if they said this about themselves? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 28, 2022 Author Share Posted November 28, 2022 I would tell them that its not true and that they are more amazing than they think MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted November 28, 2022 Share Posted November 28, 2022 5 hours ago, Laleeni said: I would tell them that its not true and that they are more amazing than they think That's what you should tell yourself now. Your friends would tell you that too, and that sentence remains true. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 28, 2022 Author Share Posted November 28, 2022 I don't have any friends MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 28, 2022 Share Posted November 28, 2022 3 minutes ago, Laleeni said: I don't have any friends You do now! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted November 28, 2022 Share Posted November 28, 2022 3 minutes ago, Laleeni said: I don't have any friends Well if you did that's what they'd say That's what we say 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 28, 2022 Share Posted November 28, 2022 Consider me a new frien. I'm Jasper how are yaaay? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 28, 2022 Share Posted November 28, 2022 Just now, Emberfrost12 said: Well if you did that's what they'd say That's what we say Agreed MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted November 28, 2022 Share Posted November 28, 2022 33 minutes ago, Laleeni said: I don't have any friends Hello! I'm Maddie and I can be a Friend 1 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted November 29, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted November 29, 2022 22 hours ago, Laleeni said: I would tell them that its not true and that they are more amazing than they think That's really lovely and that's what others think of you . I know this might feel odd to start with but can I suggest that you keep saying this to yourself again and again at different points throughout the day. And then notice how it feels. I would be curious to know if it feels different after you've said it a few times? Do you mind me asking, how you are feeling today? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 29, 2022 Author Share Posted November 29, 2022 Today I was walking to school and on the sidewalk where everyone walks it said that i had sex with a guy who raped me MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 29, 2022 Author Share Posted November 29, 2022 You guys are like super sweet 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 35 minutes ago, Laleeni said: You guys are like super sweet You're welcome MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 29, 2022 Author Share Posted November 29, 2022 I have been feeling awful today MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 6 minutes ago, Laleeni said: I have been feeling awful today That sucks. Whats wrong? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 29, 2022 Author Share Posted November 29, 2022 The boys at school have been telling me that I suck and on the sidewalk where everyone walks on to get to school someone wrote in chalk that they wish I killed myself 2 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 (edited) This post was recognized by Luie! -Aussie- was awarded the badge 'Great Advice' and 10 points. 6 minutes ago, Laleeni said: The boys at school have been telling me that I suck and on the sidewalk where everyone walks on to get to school someone wrote in chalk that they wish I killed myself Well that doesn't sound fun. Boys are just like that most of the time and I bet you don't suck and that the boys are just lying. Who ever it was that said you should kill you self I woudn't listen to them and tell a teacher or staff member. Edited November 29, 2022 by _mysticalMajesty_ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 29, 2022 Author Share Posted November 29, 2022 I wish the boys would stop talking to me all together because I mean honestly ever since this summer the boys call me out on my body and just randomly touch or make comments on my butt all the time its all because someone said that I threw myself at a guy but the truth is the guy r*ped me MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 Just now, Laleeni said: I wish the boys would stop talking to me all together because I mean honestly ever since this summer the boys call me out on my body and just randomly touch or make comments on my butt all the time its all because someone said that I threw myself at a guy but the truth is the guy r*ped me Hey there, I'm really sorry to hear that you've had a tough day. I just want you to know that I have just replied to the message you sent us, and we can talk more there. I hope you're as okay as you can be. Take care and speak soon. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Luie Posted November 29, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted November 29, 2022 23 minutes ago, Laleeni said: The boys at school have been telling me that I suck and on the sidewalk where everyone walks on to get to school someone wrote in chalk that they wish I killed myself Heyy @Laleeni, I am Luie, one of the support mentors with Ditch the Label. I am well aware that @Aurora and the rest of the community have been present but I just wanted to check in. I am sorry to hear that the boys from your school are saying such awful and untrue things about you. @_mysticalMajesty_ has mentioned helpful advice for sure. You add value to the people in your life, to this world and more than anything else you deserve to be here without having to earn your place, a bunch of boys who barely have insight into themselves are making comments which are not okay so I am sorry that it's something you have to go through. We do have confidential support where we can talk more on this one to one, which @Monsoon has mentioned in the previous comment. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 1 minute ago, Laleeni said: I wish the boys would stop talking to me all together because I mean honestly ever since this summer the boys call me out on my body and just randomly touch or make comments on my butt all the time its all because someone said that I threw myself at a guy but the truth is the guy r*ped me I bet if the boys did leave you alone your life would be a litter easier. That sucks that what happend with that one guy has turned in to like a rumor. I hope that your life will get better with the boys and hopfully people will forget about it all after time But till then the people on here can be your friends. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laleeni Posted November 29, 2022 Author Share Posted November 29, 2022 You're so sweet Thank you for everything MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 Just now, Laleeni said: You're so sweet Thank you for everything your welcome i hope you get better with everything MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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