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I was just enjoying my day when I decided to tell some friends (Including my crush) about some dude who asked me out. (This was in grade 5 but i forgot to tell them) I told them I said no because reason 1. he was ugly (And mean) 2. I was and still am very gay. Now my crush said "As a joke" called me Ugly. I don't know what I should do now because she said it was a joke and my other friends just found out now because i was acting "off" to them.

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8 hours ago, Keira said:

I was just enjoying my day when I decided to tell some friends (Including my crush) about some dude who asked me out. (This was in grade 5 but i forgot to tell them) I told them I said no because reason 1. he was ugly (And mean) 2. I was and still am very gay. Now my crush said "As a joke" called me Ugly. I don't know what I should do now because she said it was a joke and my other friends just found out now because i was acting "off" to them.

Hello, well done you for saying no, really pleased for you, firstly, who was it that said Joke?  They had no right to call you ugly, that's not nice, have you told anyone about them calling you ugly? Your feelings matter, please keep talking to us.

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9 hours ago, Keira said:

I was just enjoying my day when I decided to tell some friends (Including my crush) about some dude who asked me out. (This was in grade 5 but i forgot to tell them) I told them I said no because reason 1. he was ugly (And mean) 2. I was and still am very gay. Now my crush said "As a joke" called me Ugly. I don't know what I should do now because she said it was a joke and my other friends just found out now because i was acting "off" to them.

Hey Keira,

Sorry to hear that; the word ugly is so powerful and offensive to people, and I can imagine that this really hurt your feelings. Even if someone is joking, it still hurts. I know you've said you don't know what to do now, but I'm wondering, what do you think would be best for you? 

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I have told other people and I think it would b best for me to cut ties with her. Thank you to the people who helped me get through this, even if it wasn't a big problem

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12 hours ago, Keira said:

I have told other people and I think it would b best for me to cut ties with her. Thank you to the people who helped me get through this, even if it wasn't a big problem

Hey Keira,

You are more than welcome for the help. Are you going to speak to her before you cut ties? 

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