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So me and my boyfriend were long distance for about a year ,until last September when he moved in with me , recently iv had to move back to my home town(huddersfield) as out tenancy agreement was up ,and he had to go home (Bristol ) as is dad was very sick ,so we've been abcm to long distance for a few months , however at the start of October he's coming home and I still haven't found a place for to live ,I find it hard not to message him through out the day but I genuinely don't have anyone ,minus his friends who are with him so also can't talk ,but he's busy looking after his dad ,so I'm left feeling like a bit of a burden ,I'm veiwing houses while also traveling to Manchester for full time work and finding a home ,and nothing seems to go right ,we found a house and then it falls through ,I can't seem to keep my chin up ,he doesn't open to me so I don't know what's going on with him at home ,the most I get is 'just chilling ' I'm worried and I'm making myself I'll with anxiety ,Any advice is welcome x

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Hey @imm0rtals_.whatever

Welcome to our community 🙂

It sounds like you're feeling quite low and overwhelmed at the moment, and I think that this is totally understandable given what's going on for you at the moment. I just want you to know that we are here for you and you can talk to us about anything at anytime. How are you feeling today? I'm wondering, because there are a few different things going on at the moment, which one is bothering you the most? If it works for you, maybe we can explore that one first and figure out some ways to help, and then move onto the other ones? Let me know what you think. Take care and speak soon. 


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