TinyTurtles Posted January 31 Share Posted January 31 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Abuse, Other, Trauma Click this notice to reveal the content. I’m being bullied by my little sister (13) because she’s mad that I complained to my mom that she wouldn’t get out of my room after I repeatedly asked her to leave. She always gives me nasty outbursts when my parents aren’t looking, and she’s just all around a total bitch. She’s super manipulative and really selfish and self centered. She does whatever she wants, whenever she wants, and never gets any consequence. I’ve never come out to her, but I think she suspects it because I’ve jokingly referred to Jenna Ortega as “my wife” (similarly to how Jenna herself has referred to Gwendolyn Christie in an interview), or shown lack of interest in boys and she’s randomly commented “That’s lesbian” and won’t drop it after I tell her to stop. She repeatedly raises her voice at me and tells me to stop acting like her mom and just overall makes me feel powerless and I’m so embarrassed because she’s my little sister ffs. Tonight, my mom sent all of us to bed, and my sisters stayed up after she went to her room. I repeated my mom’s instruction and they both didn’t listen. I decide to ignore it and just mind my business, seeing as I already reminded them once.I go to my bathroom and brush my teeth and 13 follows me into the bathroom to harass me. (She literally says she annoys me just for fun bc she’s bored and I won’t do anything about it.) Then I tell her goodnight, and go to my room, shutting the door behind me. We’re not allowed to go into each other’s rooms without knocking and getting permission if the door is closed. Now, 13 violates that rule and follows me in, with 12 following right behind her. They both harass me some more, and I send them out of my room repeatedly. After asking them to leave so I can go to bed at least 6 times, I decide it’s not worth it. I thought about just turning off the lights, laying down in bed and going to sleep, but they’re both in my bed. I ask them once again to leave and they ignore me, continuing to goof off, and I go upstairs to complain to my mom. I ask her to send them to bed bc I’m trying to go to sleep, and I asked them over and over again to leave my room and they won’t listen to me. She tells me to tell them that she said to go to bed and I tell her that I already did and they didn’t listen to me. She tells me to tell them to come into her room to talk to them. I go to my room. 13 comes back downstairs after talking to my mom, and barges into my room again without knocking, and I don’t make a big deal out of it. She tells me that she left her water bottle in here. I tell her okay then, to turn on the lights and look for it but that I haven’t seen it. She turns the lights on and looks around and I tell her that I don’t think that it’s in here, that I think I saw her holding it when she left my room to talk to my mom. She responds with a nasty attitude and I tell her not to lash out at me, and she snaps at me with her bad attitude saying how I was rude so I’m not allowed to tell her not to have a bad attitude. I ask her if I need to talk to our mom again, and she stares at me for a moment and rolls her eyes before glaring at me and says “go ahead. Go tell her. But if you do, I’ll tell her stuff about you.” I ask her what stuff she could possibly tell her about me, and she says “Sooo many things. I have so much stuff on you.” I ask her again, what is she talking about, and she says “I’m not gonna tell you. You know what you did and I’m gonna tell her if you tell one me so keep your mouth shut.” And I tell her to stop and she says sweetly “okay just keep that in mind, thank you, goodnight.” I literally can’t stop shaking and crying right now because I really think she knows that I use DTL and that I’m lesbian and I worry that she’s gonna tell my mom. I’m so scared and I’m not gonna tell my mom about it because I know my sister will make good on her threats. I can’t tel, my dad either bc the reaction will be the same. What do I do about being bullied by my own little sister???? What do I do if she decides that she doesn’t like me telling her what to do and tells then? am I supposed to just suck up to her now? How do I prevent her from telling my mom and potentially putting me in a very dangerous situation??? I also *just* got to a good place with my mom after her being angry with me over school and a big argument we had last month. I’m really scared that everything is going to get ruined by my bratty little sister and I literally bent over backwards to make her as happy as possible throughout everything that’s happened to us. I literally let her cry on my shoulder when things got bad. I was ready to die for her if need be and now she”s betraying me in such a way that like, how am I supposed to trust anyone now?? I could never talk to my parents about this, and I can’t tell my friends (I literally only have three and none of them would understand) and my sisters are out of the picture for obvious reasons. Im so alone and I can’t do this by myself. Nobody gets it and everybody will turn on me eventually after they no longer need me. What’s the point?? I don’t have real people to rely on and it’s not like even if I did have people who genuinely cared about me that they could even help. Nobody understands the weight of what I’m going through and they never will. If I do talk about it then nobody will believe me, or tell me how other people have it much worse than I do. How am I supposed to act normal under circumstances like this??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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