Cinnamoroll_iwritebooks Posted January 26, 2023 Share Posted January 26, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Self-Harm Click this notice to reveal the content. I let my cat bite and scratch me, sometimes to the point of me crying and bleeding. I don't really know why. Maybe it's because I don't want to be in this world anymore. I'm sick of pushing my feelings down for others. Any advice? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted January 27, 2023 Share Posted January 27, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Self-Harm Click this notice to reveal the content. 6 hours ago, LEOQUEENUNITED said: I let my cat bite and scratch me, sometimes to the point of me crying and bleeding. I don't really know why. Maybe it's because I don't want to be in this world anymore. I'm sick of pushing my feelings down for others. Any advice? Hey, Thank you for reaching out to us. I noticed what you said about how you maybe don't want to be in this world anymore. I'm wondering, can you tell me more about this feeling? It sounds like you might be unsure about this feeling right now which is okay, but it would be good to know if you're safe or not. Just incase you aren't safe here is some safety information if you are in crisis:Β A list of worldwide crisis lines: https://www.befrienders.org - you can find the one for your country and call them if you are in crisisΒ An app I can recommend: https://www.prevent-suicide.org.uk/find-help-now/stay-alive-app/ this has safety plans to make sure you don't harm yourself and you might find it useful Remember, you can always call the emergency services or go to your local emergency department at the hospital for support Take care and speak soon. Remember, although it might not seem like jt now, there is light at the end of every tunnel and we are here fpr you.Β Β MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamoroll_iwritebooks Posted January 27, 2023 Author Share Posted January 27, 2023 My friends are always talking about their feelings and I never get a chance to talk about mine. Its fee;s like they're ganging up on me. But they are my only friends so I just deal with it. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted January 27, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted January 27, 2023 2 hours ago, LEOQUEENUNITED said: My friends are always talking about their feelings and I never get a chance to talk about mine. Its fee;s like they're ganging up on me. But they are my only friends so I just deal with it. Hi there, Monsoon isn't online at the moment so I thought I would jump in. I hope you don't mind.Β I'm sorry you're having a tough time with your friends. It sounds like you're taking a lot on by listening to their feelings but you have no one to talk to about how you feel. How do you think your friends would react if you started talking about what's been going on for you? Also, do you think it might be easier to just talk to one friend, rather than the whole group? I find it easier to be heard when it's just me and one other person. Do you think that might work?Β I noticed that you said that it feels like your friends are ganging up on you. Do you want to tell us a bit more about that? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamoroll_iwritebooks Posted January 27, 2023 Author Share Posted January 27, 2023 That would not work. They think alot alike so feel that it would be the same. They gang up on me saying I don't care when that is all I have ever done. It's not fair! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaylee Posted May 8, 2023 Share Posted May 8, 2023 This post was recognized by Aurora! Zaylee was awarded the badge 'Great Advice' and 20 points. On 1/27/2023 at 10:11 AM, Cinnamoroll_iwritebooks said: That would not work. They think alot alike so feel that it would be the same. They gang up on me saying I don't care when that is all I have ever done. It's not fair! Hey, I think I understand kind of what your going through. I've had some really crappy friends who speak for me, ignore me, accuse me of things I didn't do, etc.Β Make sure you have a serious conversation with them, tell them that you've been suppressing your emotions for their sake. If they don't care, or they try and make themselves the victims, then you gotta drop them. Real friends build each other up, they don't tear each other down.Β You can make new friends, there's a whole world of 'em. Don't let them push you down, because one day, you'll look back and realize that you are amazing the way that you are. With or without them. Don't keep yourself in a toxic friendship. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 9, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 9, 2023 14 hours ago, Zaylee said: Hey, I think I understand kind of what your going through. I've had some really crappy friends who speak for me, ignore me, accuse me of things I didn't do, etc.Β Make sure you have a serious conversation with them, tell them that you've been suppressing your emotions for their sake. If they don't care, or they try and make themselves the victims, then you gotta drop them. Real friends build each other up, they don't tear each other down.Β You can make new friends, there's a whole world of 'em. Don't let them push you down, because one day, you'll look back and realize that you are amazing the way that you are. With or without them. Don't keep yourself in a toxic friendship. Hi @Zaylee, that's really great advice! I love how you said: "because one day you'll look back and realize that you are amazing the way that you are". That's really uplifting . I'm sorry you've had crappy friends yourself but it sounds like you've recognised what's been going on (we don't always do!) and I hope you're now surrounded by friends who are supportive, trusting and accepting of who you are.Β 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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