MoonieOwl Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 A while ago my friend started 'dating' a girl he met on Snapchat. Emphasis on the quotation marks there. It seemed to be going well until my friend got added to a group chat meant for setting people up with others. He ended up getting really close with one of the people there and they started dating. His ex (We will call her T) got mad because he had done this without letting her know but his argument was that they weren't official they were 'just talking'. T had previously self-harmed and was not in the best mental space when this was happening so that only made it worse. A lot of conversations would go back and fourth between them about who's fault it was and my friend (We will call him W) is acting like the victim the entire time so not helping her at all. By this point I had gotten involved as she was talking to me about it and he was claiming he did nothing wrong which in a sense is true but is still no excuse. T starts to feel worse as she starts blaming everything on herself while I am trying to get her to talk to someone. Eventually she tells someone at school but another interaction between W and T today has just reset all progress. Right now she doesn't feel ready to talk yet which is why I have stepped in here to ask for your advice on what she should do to find help (I've tried getting her to use this website as a first step but she can't bring herself to talk just yet and asked me to do it for her) Do you have any advice for what she can do to take those first steps? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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