Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 How is everyone? My name is Call and I use they/them pronouns. What are yalls name and pronouns? Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, Thisboiistrans said: How is everyone? My name is Call and I use they/them pronouns. What are yalls name and pronouns? I've been alr, wby? (Kai, He/They/It) Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59896 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, _Kai_ said: I've been alr, wby? (Kai, He/They/It) Am struggling I think with self-confidence and stuff. Constantly feel like I'm nothing to ppl Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59897 Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 1 minute ago, Thisboiistrans said: Am struggling I think with self-confidence and stuff. Constantly feel like I'm nothing to ppl Shit man I get that, I feel like self-confidence is always one of the hardest things you can gain for yourself to be truly happy, although you mean alot to me like we're friends & I'm here for you ^^ Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59898 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 1 minute ago, _Kai_ said: Shit man I get that, I feel like self-confidence is always one of the hardest things you can gain for yourself to be truly happy, although you mean alot to me like we're friends & I'm here for you ^^ Thanks Kai I really appreciate it. I just tend to put myself down a lot (have done for a while) to the point where I cant take a compliment bc it goes against my mindset so in my mind its "wrong" or the person giving me the compliment "doesnt mean it" even if they do 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59901 Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, Thisboiistrans said: Thanks Kai I really appreciate it. I just tend to put myself down a lot (have done for a while) to the point where I cant take a compliment bc it goes against my mindset so in my mind its "wrong" or the person giving me the compliment "doesnt mean it" even if they do Np, & yeah self-confidence struggles are tough to handle but I know you can do it Is there perhaps any reason for the low self confidence? I'm here if you ever need to talk Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59902 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, _Kai_ said: Np, & yeah self-confidence struggles are tough to handle but I know you can do it Is there perhaps any reason for the low self confidence? I'm here if you ever need to talk I'm not really sure of the reason because I've been this way for so long. It's not that I cant say how I feel to family it's that I don't because everyone has enough to worry about without me burdening them further. I just get so complacent that (horrible as it is) I sometimes neglect hygiene and its embarrassing when, at 16, my mum has to tell me to do basic tasks such as get my own dinner and go have a shower etc. Not the kinda stuff I could possibly say face to face with someone but yeah Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59903 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, Thisboiistrans said: I'm not really sure of the reason because I've been this way for so long. It's not that I cant say how I feel to family it's that I don't because everyone has enough to worry about without me burdening them further. I just get so complacent that (horrible as it is) I sometimes neglect hygiene and its embarrassing when, at 16, my mum has to tell me to do basic tasks such as get my own dinner and go have a shower etc. Not the kinda stuff I could possibly say face to face with someone but yeah It just sucks that I screw up so much. I just wish I could wake up one day and not think "what am I gonna mess up about today" or "what else cant I be arsed with" Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59904 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 Here I go again though, making it all about me as usual. God I feel so selfish. So many people have been through worse things than I could ever imagine and here I am wallowing in self pity. 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59905 Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, Thisboiistrans said: Here I go again though, making it all about me as usual. God I feel so selfish. So many people have been through worse things than I could ever imagine and here I am wallowing in self pity. Its alrighttttt, I'm here to listen if you ever have any problems or just need to vent, I'm more of a listener than a commenter but I'll try to respond the most I can if u want We're speaking about your problems so please don't ever think your being a burden or making it all about you, because I'm here for ya Everyones struggles are mostly equal, yes some people have gone thru horrible things, but that doesn't mean you can't vent & find happiness Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59907 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, _Kai_ said: Its alrighttttt, I'm here to listen if you ever have any problems or just need to vent, I'm more of a listener than a commenter but I'll try to respond the most I can if u want We're speaking about your problems so please don't ever think your being a burden or making it all about you, because I'm here for ya Everyones struggles are mostly equal, yes some people have gone thru horrible things, but that doesn't mean you can't vent & find happiness I know but..I shouldnt be struggling with basic tasks. My mum keeps saying that I play on my autism but I dont mean to if that makes sense. I dont play on it..I just try to make people understand that I have difficulty with certain things Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59908 Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 1 minute ago, Cal_The_Oyster said: I know but..I shouldnt be struggling with basic tasks. My mum keeps saying that I play on my autism but I dont mean to if that makes sense. I dont play on it..I just try to make people understand that I have difficulty with certain things & thats completly valid of you wanting people to understand that you have difficulty with certain things Also are you able to clarify a bit with the "play on my autism"? Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59909 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 She says that I use my autism as an excuse so that I dont get told off if I make a mistake. High school in yr7 a teacher was yelling at me and as far as I remember I just told her I have autism and my mum was pulled in because the teacher had made me cry and I remember being told off for misbehaving. Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59910 Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 Just now, Cal_The_Oyster said: She says that I use my autism as an excuse so that I dont get told off if I make a mistake. High school in yr7 a teacher was yelling at me and as far as I remember I just told her I have autism and my mum was pulled in because the teacher had made me cry and I remember being told off for misbehaving. Damn, that teacher sucks @$$ at their job I hate when people (Mainly adults) don't understand ANYTHING a child or someone says, its so irritating especially if thats their damn job, like seriously? They should get fired in my opinion for being so close-minded Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59911 Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 Although I've gtg for an hour or two, when I return I shall comment on here! Ttyl ^^ (I didn't want you waiting for a reply when I was gone TvT) Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59912 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 3 minutes ago, _Kai_ said: Although I've gtg for an hour or two, when I return I shall comment on here! Ttyl ^^ (I didn't want you waiting for a reply when I was gone TvT) Oh ok no problem I'll see you soon Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59913 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 4 minutes ago, _Kai_ said: Damn, that teacher sucks @$$ at their job I hate when people (Mainly adults) don't understand ANYTHING a child or someone says, its so irritating especially if thats their damn job, like seriously? They should get fired in my opinion for being so close-minded Oh I know this was like 6-7 years ago now Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59914 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 20, 2022 Author Share Posted December 20, 2022 Made someone smile and saw plenty of LGBTQ things around town. 1 Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59961 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted December 20, 2022 Author Share Posted December 20, 2022 Just now, Cal_The_Oyster said: Made someone smile and saw plenty of LGBTQ things around town. Felt good Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5899-hey-im-new-to-the-tribe/#findComment-59962 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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