i need help coming out i know im pan i just need help please. soon,

[imaniangeni]

i would like help as soon as possible for i might give up on it

 

[Monsoon]

Hey there.

 

We can definitely give you advice on this and we are here to help

 

How are you feeling? I sensed from your post that you're feeling pretty frustrated, and I get it. I hated being in the closet as I felt like I couldn't be my true self. I found it helpful to tell people via text message at first. This helped me to build the courage to tell people face-to-face which used to terrify me.

 

When coming out, a lot of people plan every little detail of the situation, but it often doesn't go that way. It is normal to get lost in the moment, and planning it is only putting it off and may make you anxious. The best thing is to just be in the moment and go with the flow. It's important to explain how much this means to you.

 

Here is a guide you may find useful:

 

https://www.ditchthelabel.org/top-11-tips-for-coming-out-as-lesbian-gay-or-bi/

 

Hang in there and I look forward to hearing back from you.

 

-Monsoon