vega Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 so i have this friend she seems to be exactly what makes me smile she curses so much which i find hilarious and she also has a dark sense of humor on top of that my sarcasm seems to make her laugh and she has been hugging me a bit and i dont feel as awkward as i normally do i think i like her maybe she likes me should i do anything, maybe make a small 'joke' and see how she reacts i dont know MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
illumi Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 perhaps just start making jokes first. my brain always tells me to straight up confess but im not allo so i wouldnt know what having a crush feels like. good luck 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-58244 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 30, 2022 Share Posted November 30, 2022 On 11/29/2022 at 1:27 AM, vega said: so i have this friend she seems to be exactly what makes me smile she curses so much which i find hilarious and she also has a dark sense of humor on top of that my sarcasm seems to make her laugh and she has been hugging me a bit and i dont feel as awkward as i normally do i think i like her maybe she likes me should i do anything, maybe make a small 'joke' and see how she reacts i dont know Hey there, This is exciting and it sounds like you have a really good connection! I think definitely make a small joke to see how she reacts. What do you think you'll say? Also, I'm thinking, could you maybe ask her if she has any crushes and see what she says? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-58422 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 10, 2022 Author Share Posted December 10, 2022 nope, this isnt working i made a comment about being liked by someone in the class and she said she would NEVER date anyone in our class now i wait for the next crush that will never like me back MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-58987 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 On 12/10/2022 at 1:56 AM, vega said: nope, this isnt working i made a comment about being liked by someone in the class and she said she would NEVER date anyone in our class now i wait for the next crush that will never like me back Hey there, I'm really sorry to hear that. How have you been since she said that? I hope you're as okay as you can be. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59037 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 13, 2022 Author Share Posted December 13, 2022 honestly i kind of expected this i mean, im not quite desirable and none of these things ever work story of my life MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59198 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 13, 2022 Share Posted December 13, 2022 Hey there, It’s interesting that you say you’re not desirable. Can I ask, how long have you felt like that, and what do you think makes you not quite desirable? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59284 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 15, 2022 Author Share Posted December 15, 2022 On 12/13/2022 at 2:52 PM, Monsoon said: Hey there, It’s interesting that you say you’re not desirable. Can I ask, how long have you felt like that, and what do you think makes you not quite desirable? well im not exactly liked if i bring up anything im interested in people basically roll their eyes. If you hang out with me or my friend group then people see you are weird and make up rumors about you anyone who would date me would probably get 10 time worse also im way too insecure MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59419 Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted December 15, 2022 Share Posted December 15, 2022 1 hour ago, vega said: well im not exactly liked if i bring up anything im interested in people basically roll their eyes. If you hang out with me or my friend group then people see you are weird and make up rumors about you anyone who would date me would probably get 10 time worse also im way too insecure Ayyyyyy, if people call you or your friend group weird again just take it as a compliment (That's what I do) You being weird makes u different & special from all the fake peeps out there (I was in the weird group at school which I found exciting since there were more people like me, but that may just be how I viewed it TvT) 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59428 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 15, 2022 Share Posted December 15, 2022 19 hours ago, vega said: well im not exactly liked if i bring up anything im interested in people basically roll their eyes. If you hang out with me or my friend group then people see you are weird and make up rumors about you anyone who would date me would probably get 10 time worse also im way too insecure Hey, It sounds like you're really down on yourself at the moment, and I can imagine that this really impacts your self esteem and general mood as well. However, it doesn't have to be like this, and there are things you can do to boost your confidence. Would you like us to share some tips to help with this? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59593 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 16, 2022 Author Share Posted December 16, 2022 4 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey, It sounds like you're really down on yourself at the moment, and I can imagine that this really impacts your self esteem and general mood as well. However, it doesn't have to be like this, and there are things you can do to boost your confidence. Would you like us to share some tips to help with this? yes please MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59618 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 16, 2022 Share Posted December 16, 2022 16 hours ago, vega said: yes please Hey there, Would you like to have a read of our support guide here? https://www.ditchthelabel.org/overcoming-low-self-esteem/ Maybe you can take some time to pick out the main ones that stand out to you and then we can figure out how to take them forward to help you build your confidence! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59657 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 16, 2022 Author Share Posted December 16, 2022 1 minute ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Would you like to have a read of our support guide here? https://www.ditchthelabel.org/overcoming-low-self-esteem/ Maybe you can take some time to pick out the main ones that stand out to you and then we can figure out how to take them forward to help you build your confidence! thank you MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59659 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 17, 2022 Share Posted December 17, 2022 16 hours ago, vega said: thank you Hey, If you would like to talk about it, let me know, no pressure though :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59725 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 ok, im really confused though now today she was all over me, poking me, snuggling in, making her sexuality very clear- bi what am i supposed to do? maybe there is something there and i was giving up too easy? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59946 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 20, 2022 Share Posted December 20, 2022 Hey there, That is interesting, especially what she said about not wanting to date anyone in the class. What do you think this behaviour means for your situation with her? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-59989 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 21, 2022 Author Share Posted December 21, 2022 22 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, That is interesting, especially what she said about not wanting to date anyone in the class. What do you think this behaviour means for your situation with her? i don't know, she almost seems interested but i have never been in this situation before MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-60119 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 Hey, Yeah, it is a tricky one really isn't it. I'm wondering, could you maybe just point out her behaviour and ask her why? That way, you aren't really giving anything away. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-60180 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vega Posted December 23, 2022 Author Share Posted December 23, 2022 On 12/21/2022 at 3:07 PM, Monsoon said: Hey, Yeah, it is a tricky one really isn't it. I'm wondering, could you maybe just point out her behaviour and ask her why? That way, you aren't really giving anything away. that could work... MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-60264 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cat!!! Posted December 23, 2022 Share Posted December 23, 2022 On 12/19/2022 at 4:18 PM, vega said: ok, im really confused though now today she was all over me, poking me, snuggling in, making her sexuality very clear- bi what am i supposed to do? maybe there is something there and i was giving up too easy? I mean I'm more of a indirect person when it comes to my feelings and act like i'm not interested in them when i really am.It's possible that she's the same and was just lying before so her real feelings didn't show through 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-60271 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 28, 2022 Share Posted December 28, 2022 On 12/23/2022 at 1:43 AM, vega said: that could work... Hey there, Yeah, maybe give it a try, and if you feel like it, you can let us know how it goes? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-60579 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avyavastha Posted January 4, 2023 Share Posted January 4, 2023 This post was recognized by Monsoon! "Helpful content :)" Avyavastha was awarded the badge 'Act of Kindness' and 10 points. Try asking her about her behavior, then asking her why she’s been more touchy-feely lately? I was in a situation similar to this, but in the opposite position. Your best friend might be trying to give you hints that she likes you, or maybe just being more affectionate? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5793-i-think-i-like-her/#findComment-60904 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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