ppinkie Posted November 14, 2022 Share Posted November 14, 2022 I am a 15 year old girl, and I met this guy (he is supposedly “17”) through this app called “wink” and we traded. We went on kik and started doing it, I then blocked him after finishing . he texted me on wink and told me to unblock him and I said sorry I got banned and he said he doesn’t care to make a new one or else he’ll leak. I got scared and made one and added him and he was saying “snap vid or I’ll leak” I didn’t send anything that had nudity, just a photo of my pants and shirt and a video too. He doesn’t have my face in any of those vids sent the only photo he has is my lower nose to my mouth that’s all he has about my face. He also has my wink profile that has my face and Snapchat in it, but I don’t have anything about him, all I have is his kik user that’s it. Idk his name, his face, nothing… after he got mad I got scared to send cuz he was saying “I’ll leak on tiktok Twitter Instagram idc” so I got scared and decided to put up all the courage I have and tell my friend, she was super mature about this situation she was helping me and everything, while I took her advice I saw on her that I should do something about my socials. I went on Snapchat and deleted my account and went on my other one that has a diff name, I changed my Instagram user name, archived my post and deleted my highlights. I took everything off that could possibly expose who I am. I am still nervous and scared to go to school and my nudes are exposed. I want those photos/videos out his phone or something, I just want to feel secure. I am still shaking while typing this because I don’t know what to do. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
A User Posted November 14, 2022 Share Posted November 14, 2022 I've heard a lot of bad things about Wink. Concerns over privacy as it's location based (I think), and just general pedo stuff. My suggestion is to never touch that app again. Anyways, I'll take this to the @Digital Mentor because I'm no expert on this Wishing you all good luck tho! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-56807 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 14, 2022 Share Posted November 14, 2022 2 hours ago, ppinkie said: I am a 15 year old girl, and I met this guy (he is supposedly “17”) through this app called “wink” and we traded. We went on kik and started doing it, I then blocked him after finishing . he texted me on wink and told me to unblock him and I said sorry I got banned and he said he doesn’t care to make a new one or else he’ll leak. I got scared and made one and added him and he was saying “snap vid or I’ll leak” I didn’t send anything that had nudity, just a photo of my pants and shirt and a video too. He doesn’t have my face in any of those vids sent the only photo he has is my lower nose to my mouth that’s all he has about my face. He also has my wink profile that has my face and Snapchat in it, but I don’t have anything about him, all I have is his kik user that’s it. Idk his name, his face, nothing… after he got mad I got scared to send cuz he was saying “I’ll leak on tiktok Twitter Instagram idc” so I got scared and decided to put up all the courage I have and tell my friend, she was super mature about this situation she was helping me and everything, while I took her advice I saw on her that I should do something about my socials. I went on Snapchat and deleted my account and went on my other one that has a diff name, I changed my Instagram user name, archived my post and deleted my highlights. I took everything off that could possibly expose who I am. I am still nervous and scared to go to school and my nudes are exposed. I want those photos/videos out his phone or something, I just want to feel secure. I am still shaking while typing this because I don’t know what to do. Report him. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-56812 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 14, 2022 Share Posted November 14, 2022 1 minute ago, Thisboiistrans said: Report him. If possible of course. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-56813 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppinkie Posted November 14, 2022 Author Share Posted November 14, 2022 1 hour ago, Thisboiistrans said: Report him. I did I reported him and blocked him MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-56911 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppinkie Posted November 14, 2022 Author Share Posted November 14, 2022 2 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said: If possible of course. But that’s what he said if I would block him he would leak I still blocked him MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-56976 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 15, 2022 Share Posted November 15, 2022 19 hours ago, ppinkie said: But that’s what he said if I would block him he would leak I still blocked him Hey there, I'm sorry to hear you went through this. I can imagine this has been really stressful for you, and I just want you to know that we are here to help you through this. I'm glad to hear you blocked him; this is always the best action to take in such a situation. I have a lot of experience helping people in similar situations, and generally, the more time that passes hearing nothing from them, the less and less likely it is that something will happen. If they are going to leak, they tend to do it straight away, so I think that you are now in the clear. What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57081 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 15, 2022 Share Posted November 15, 2022 21 hours ago, ppinkie said: I did I reported him and blocked him Good MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57082 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 15, 2022 Share Posted November 15, 2022 Just now, Monsoon said: Hey there, I'm sorry to hear you went through this. I can imagine this has been really stressful for you, and I just want you to know that we are here to help you through this. I'm glad to hear you blocked him; this is always the best action to take in such a situation. I have a lot of experience helping people in similar situations, and generally, the more time that passes hearing nothing from them, the less and less likely it is that something will happen. If they are going to leak, they tend to do it straight away, so I think that you are now in the clear. What do you think? Oh hey @Monsoon iwas gonna type something similar MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57083 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppinkie Posted November 15, 2022 Author Share Posted November 15, 2022 5 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, I'm sorry to hear you went through this. I can imagine this has been really stressful for you, and I just want you to know that we are here to help you through this. I'm glad to hear you blocked him; this is always the best action to take in such a situation. I have a lot of experience helping people in similar situations, and generally, the more time that passes hearing nothing from them, the less and less likely it is that something will happen. If they are going to leak, they tend to do it straight away, so I think that you are now in the clear. What do you think? You’re right they might’ve forgot or something but I still feel insecure that they might post it later or something… sometimes, recently the nervousness went away but sometimes it comes back really bad. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57120 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 18 hours ago, ppinkie said: You’re right they might’ve forgot or something but I still feel insecure that they might post it later or something… sometimes, recently the nervousness went away but sometimes it comes back really bad. Hey there, Yeah, I get that you're saying about the nervousness going away and coming back, and that will happen less and less over time. As I said, I've supported loads of people in similar situations to you, and generally, the more time that passes, the less and less likely it is that the content will be leaked. Out of all the people I've supported, they have never had their content leaked once they blocked the person making the threats. What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57190 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppinkie Posted November 16, 2022 Author Share Posted November 16, 2022 2 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Yeah, I get that you're saying about the nervousness going away and coming back, and that will happen less and less over time. As I said, I've supported loads of people in similar situations to you, and generally, the more time that passes, the less and less likely it is that the content will be leaked. Out of all the people I've supported, they have never had their content leaked once they blocked the person making the threats. What do you think? Yeah your right like the more time it goes on it goes away and it gets out of my head but idk. What if it does get leaked how am I gonna know it’s leaked, like idk if u get me..? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57214 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 17, 2022 Share Posted November 17, 2022 Hey there, Yeah, I get what you mean, and I guess you might not know if it does. How does it feel to have that uncertainty? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57377 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppinkie Posted November 18, 2022 Author Share Posted November 18, 2022 10 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Yeah, I get what you mean, and I guess you might not know if it does. How does it feel to have that uncertainty? Horrible, I go everyday to school thinking it’s leaked and people saw it already. Or he might leak it in the future or he’s just waiting for the right time.. I hate it so much . MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57442 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 18, 2022 Share Posted November 18, 2022 15 hours ago, ppinkie said: Horrible, I go everyday to school thinking it’s leaked and people saw it already. Or he might leak it in the future or he’s just waiting for the right time.. I hate it so much . Hey there, Yeah, those feelings are totally understandable and completely normal in this kind of situation. From people I've supported in similar situations, they often say that over time, it does get better, and the feelings eventually get smaller and smaller, but it really is just a process that you have to have patience with, what do you think? However, the more time that passes, it becomes less and less likely that anything will be leaked because the truth is, people move on and forget, so try to take some comfort in that. It will get better for you. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57556 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppinkie Posted November 19, 2022 Author Share Posted November 19, 2022 11 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Yeah, those feelings are totally understandable and completely normal in this kind of situation. From people I've supported in similar situations, they often say that over time, it does get better, and the feelings eventually get smaller and smaller, but it really is just a process that you have to have patience with, what do you think? However, the more time that passes, it becomes less and less likely that anything will be leaked because the truth is, people move on and forget, so try to take some comfort in that. It will get better for you. Yea I agree, it’s been almost a week and I don’t really feel nervous. I usually out those feelings away if it gets really bad, MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57586 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 19, 2022 Share Posted November 19, 2022 Hey, Yeah, exactly; it just takes time, and I'm glad you're doing better. Would you like anymore support with this, or are you good? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57587 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppinkie Posted November 23, 2022 Author Share Posted November 23, 2022 On 11/19/2022 at 4:12 AM, Monsoon said: Hey, Yeah, exactly; it just takes time, and I'm glad you're doing better. Would you like anymore support with this, or are you good? I’m good now!! Sometimes it’s in the back of my mind but I’m good now!! Thank you so much! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57904 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 20 hours ago, ppinkie said: I’m good now!! Sometimes it’s in the back of my mind but I’m good now!! Thank you so much! Alright, well if you need anymore support, you know where we are :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/5699-threatened-to-leak/#findComment-57927 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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