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How do you really KNOW what your sexuality is? Like I have said I am bisexual to most of the people that know me, but I am not sure that's what I am anymore. I think I also like different people that go by different things now. I think I am romantically attracted to more then just boys and girls but I am not sure what my sexuality is anymore...

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3 hours ago, Hailey-w said:

How do you really KNOW what your sexuality is? Like I have said I am bisexual to most of the people that know me, but I am not sure that's what I am anymore. I think I also like different people that go by different things now. I think I am romantically attracted to more then just boys and girls but I am not sure what my sexuality is anymore...

Hey there,

That's okay that you're not sure. It can take a long time to figure out your sexuality, and remember, sexuality is fluid, so it can change over time. Could it be that yours has changed? If so, remember, that's okay, and you will figure it out eventually :)

In terms of things you can do to help figure it out, have you thought about maybe dating or anything like that?

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21 minutes ago, Monsoon said:

Hey there,

That's okay that you're not sure. It can take a long time to figure out your sexuality, and remember, sexuality is fluid, so it can change over time. Could it be that yours has changed? If so, remember, that's okay, and you will figure it out eventually :)

In terms of things you can do to help figure it out, have you thought about maybe dating or anything like that?

Yes, I think mine has changed. And right now I am grounded from dating because of something I did. My family doesn't want me to date anyone right now.

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On 10/31/2022 at 6:14 PM, Hailey-w said:

Yes, I think mine has changed. And right now I am grounded from dating because of something I did. My family doesn't want me to date anyone right now.

Hi there, I'm Aurora, one of the other support mentors here. Monsoon is off at the moment so I thought I would jump in. I hope you don't mind. You mentioned that you are grounded from dating. How long are you not supposed to date and can I ask how you feel about that?

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I think you should tell your family on your own time. You shouldn't feel pressured to tell them.  You should tell them when you think it's right. Not everyone will be supportive but that's okay! You are who you are and you shouldn't let other people change that!

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Hi Aurora, I don't mind that you jump in! I don't have an exact date on when I can start dating again...  I don't like it. I want to date people and get to know people and I can't do that because I will get in trouble if I have anything other than a friend relationship with anyone. I don't really think it's fair but I also think they are doing what is best for me..

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