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Is my sexuality valid?


idkwhattodo2054    

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Hi!

I have always perceived myself as bisexual/ pan sexual, however I have a child and have been told that I am not a “real” bisexual and probably won’t get a girlfriend. I am currently leaning more towards the attraction to girls. I was just wondering if having a child makes me less valid or if it makes me unlikely to find a partner. Feeling pretty low about it, almost to the existential and regret stage.

thank you!

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19 hours ago, idkwhattodo2054 said:

Hi!

I have always perceived myself as bisexual/ pan sexual, however I have a child and have been told that I am not a “real” bisexual and probably won’t get a girlfriend. I am currently leaning more towards the attraction to girls. I was just wondering if having a child makes me less valid or if it makes me unlikely to find a partner. Feeling pretty low about it, almost to the existential and regret stage.

thank you!

Hey @idkwhattodo2054

Thank you for reaching out to us. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give advice to those who reach out. 

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling low about it. Can you tell me more about that?

I just want you to know that any sexuality is valid, and having a child does not make you any less bisexual, and no one has the right to tell you that you're not a real bisexual. What do you think?

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