Bruh123 Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I'm very confused about my sexuallity, very recently I've been feeling bi but then another minute I feel straight. I also have classmates that can be very judgmental and I feel if I tell my classmates they be unsupportive, I want to come out but don't know how to please help my bi crisis. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted June 27, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted June 27, 2022 On 6/24/2022 at 7:59 PM, Bruh123 said: I'm very confused about my sexuallity, very recently I've been feeling bi but then another minute I feel straight. I also have classmates that can be very judgmental and I feel if I tell my classmates they be unsupportive, I want to come out but don't know how to please help my bi crisis. Hi @Bruh123 , welcome to the community . It's great to have you here. I’m Aurora, I’m one of the support mentors at Ditch the Label. I offer support and advice to those who reach out to us. Thank you for opening up about how you feel. Please know that you are not alone - there are lots of other people on here, who feel the same as you. Figuring out our sexuality is often confusing and it can take time. Please don't feel pressured into coming out if you're not ready yet. But if you do feel like you would like to tell people, maybe you could start by telling one person who you trust most and who you think would support you. What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruh123 Posted June 27, 2022 Author Share Posted June 27, 2022 Thank you for the advice but there is one little problem, there are no people that I feel comfortable expressing my sexuallity and even If I told someone I think that would look at me differently or have some sort of tension between us. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted June 28, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted June 28, 2022 16 hours ago, Bruh123 said: Thank you for the advice but there is one little problem, there are no people that I feel comfortable expressing my sexuallity and even If I told someone I think that would look at me differently or have some sort of tension between us. I totally understand your reluctance. Coming out is a big step and it's normal to feel anxious about telling people as we don't know how they will react. We all want to be liked and accepted for who we are and when we think other's might not support us then that's really difficult. However, I also feel that your happiness is the most important thing and by telling people you would be able to live authentically. Having said that, it is also really important that you feel ready to tell people and that the time feels right for you. In your initial post you said that you are feeling confused about your sexuality. I'm just wondering whether you might need a bit more time to figure out for yourself how you feel? What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruh123 Posted July 27, 2022 Author Share Posted July 27, 2022 Sorry for the break, I now came to realise I am bi and do wish to come out but don't know how. I want to do it in a fun and memorable way so any sort of advice is amazing MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted July 27, 2022 Share Posted July 27, 2022 4 hours ago, Bruh123 said: Sorry for the break, I now came to realise I am bi and do wish to come out but don't know how. I want to do it in a fun and memorable way so any sort of advice is amazing Hey, Sure thing. I'm glad to hear you have realised and now want to come out. I'm wondering, do you have any ideas so far about how to do it in a fun and memorable way? I'd love to hear them! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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