Im think I might be be bisexual but havent even had my first kiss yet. I really need advice or even for someone to listen.

[Carter]

im 15 and have not been in a relastionship of any kind nor had my first kiss. I have been attracted to guys my whole life and know the feeling well of getting a crush, or becoming flustered when someone cute tlaks to me. In the last few years I have become cunfused. I dont get that butterfly feeling in my stomache when I see a hot girl but at the same time my eyes are drawn to them. I think about what it would be like to kiss them. Im too scared to talk to my friends about it becasue if im not actully bi Im not sure what I would say after that. They might think I just lied for fun. If someone could give me advice or if they had a simular expericence that would be so helpful. 

[Monsoon]

Hey Carter,

Welcome to the DTL community. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give support to the users here :)

It sounds like you're having some confusion around your sexuality at the moment which is totally normal. It can be helpful to explore these feelings which can be done by talking to a new crush you have or maybe even going on a date with one. What do you think? 

[Carter]

The thing is that I dont think I really have a crush on a specific person. There are just  a lot of girls at my school that are reaaly pretty and I sometimes wonder what it would be like to kiss them. But because I havent kissed anyone im not sure if its just my hormones, also its hard for me to tell if I am sexualy attracted to them or if I just wish I looked like them. 

[Monsoon]

6 hours ago, Carter said:

The thing is that I dont think I really have a crush on a specific person. There are just  a lot of girls at my school that are reaaly pretty and I sometimes wonder what it would be like to kiss them. But because I havent kissed anyone im not sure if its just my hormones, also its hard for me to tell if I am sexualy attracted to them or if I just wish I looked like them. 

Hey there,

I'm wondering then, have you ever been sexually attracted to someone before? If so, can you tell me more about what that was like for you; what kind of feelings did you have towards that person and how did you act towards them? 

[xans]

Yeah this is happening to me right now, I feel like I might be bisexual but at the same time denying myself and saying that I am straight. It’s very weird, and I want to have a girlfriend but I am also curious about having a relationship with a guy. 
 

[Blondie]

3 hours ago, xans said:

Yeah this is happening to me right now, I feel like I might be bisexual but at the same time denying myself and saying that I am straight. It’s very weird, and I want to have a girlfriend but I am also curious about having a relationship with a guy. 
 

Hi there, I'm Blondie, one of the support mentors.

It does sound you would be open to a relationship with a guy. Do you ever think about seeking this?

[xans]

I mainly seek for a girlfriend relationship but it has crossed my mind

 

[Ambi]

Well I doubted if I was bisexual for a long time because I had never had a crush on a specific girl before. I had also never been in a relationship or had my first kiss, Sometimes our lack of experience can confuse us. I guess you just have to try it. You'll never know if you like something or not until you experience it. I completely understand how you feel because I feel at times like I don't have as many romantic feelings towards women as I do men, but I know for sure that I'm sexually attracted to them. It can be confusing at times, but I'm just kind if convinced it's because I haven't met the right girl to have my heart flustered or that's I'm just afraid that if I fall for a girl, chances are she's not gonna be into girls. Hopefully you figure things out as you experience more, but I'm here if you ever want to talk about it with someone who understands.