Music_Geek_84623 Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 My parents don't support pride at all. I want to come out to them as bisexual but they will be really mad and prolly scream at me. My brother told them that he thinks he likes guys and girls and my dad screamed at him and now my dad won't even talk to him. At all. Should I come out to them or not yet? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 4 hours ago, Music_Geek_84623 said: My parents don't support pride at all. I want to come out to them as bisexual but they will be really mad and prolly scream at me. My brother told them that he thinks he likes guys and girls and my dad screamed at him and now my dad won't even talk to him. At all. Should I come out to them or not yet? Hey there, I'm sorry to hear they don't support pride and that your dad didn't react well. How is all of this making you feel? I'm wondering, could it be that your dad is in shock right now and might come around to the news eventually? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_84623 Posted May 17, 2022 Author Share Posted May 17, 2022 42 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, I'm sorry to hear they don't support pride and that your dad didn't react well. How is all of this making you feel? I'm wondering, could it be that your dad is in shock right now and might come around to the news eventually? It literally makes me feel nothing. and he will never come around to the news cuz he said he will never support. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 Hey there, I know it might be hard to imagine, but I've supported people in a similar situation to you before where their parents eventually came around which came as a surprise after a lot of worry. The love that a parent has for their child is such a strong force in opening even them most closed of minds. Can I ask, what did your dad say to your brother when he came out? Did he give any reasons for his behaviour? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_84623 Posted May 18, 2022 Author Share Posted May 18, 2022 19 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, I know it might be hard to imagine, but I've supported people in a similar situation to you before where their parents eventually came around which came as a surprise after a lot of worry. The love that a parent has for their child is such a strong force in opening even them most closed of minds. Can I ask, what did your dad say to your brother when he came out? Did he give any reasons for his behaviour? he just screamed at him. he didnt give any reasons MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 16 hours ago, Music_Geek_84623 said: he just screamed at him. he didnt give any reasons Hey, That sounds really tough. How is your brother doing? Is he coping okay? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_84623 Posted May 19, 2022 Author Share Posted May 19, 2022 3 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey, That sounds really tough. How is your brother doing? Is he coping okay? hes coping fine cuz im helping him with everything MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 20, 2022 Share Posted May 20, 2022 19 hours ago, Music_Geek_84623 said: hes coping fine cuz im helping him with everything That's good and I'm glad he has you to help him :) I'm wondering, would it be helpful for your brother to have a read of this? https://www.ditchthelabel.org/my-parents-didnt-react-well-to-me-coming-out/ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_84623 Posted May 20, 2022 Author Share Posted May 20, 2022 1 hour ago, Monsoon said: That's good and I'm glad he has you to help him :) I'm wondering, would it be helpful for your brother to have a read of this? https://www.ditchthelabel.org/my-parents-didnt-react-well-to-me-coming-out/ my brother doesnt know abt this site MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 23 hours ago, Music_Geek_84623 said: my brother doesnt know abt this site Hey, That's okay. Could you still show it to him anyway? You're just trying to help him and could say you came across it I guess! We can even delete this post if you're worried about him seeing it. Let me know what you think. Speak soon. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_84623 Posted May 26, 2022 Author Share Posted May 26, 2022 On 5/21/2022 at 6:35 AM, Monsoon said: Hey, That's okay. Could you still show it to him anyway? You're just trying to help him and could say you came across it I guess! We can even delete this post if you're worried about him seeing it. Let me know what you think. Speak soon. i cant show him this site cuz then he'll know abt me not being straight. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 26, 2022 Share Posted May 26, 2022 4 hours ago, Music_Geek_84623 said: i cant show him this site cuz then he'll know abt me not being straight. Hey there, Not if we hide the post, which we can do for you. Just let us know! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_84623 Posted May 27, 2022 Author Share Posted May 27, 2022 13 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Not if we hide the post, which we can do for you. Just let us know! ill think abt showing this to him 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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