mc Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 ive felt straight all my life... but i might be bi, im young tho and might be confused, but i feel i could be bi MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 Hi! Can you share what is making you question your sexuality? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mc Posted May 17, 2022 Author Share Posted May 17, 2022 Well, ive thought this for a while, but mostly because when i think about kissing/sex, i want to do it with a girl. i haven't exactly had a crush on a girl yet, but i might have one.... just not sure. i have only had 2 real crushes and they were both guys though. (im a girl) i live in a place that is very supportive of lgbt+ people, and im very supportive too. but im only in sixth grade, and SO MANy people have come out as something other than straight, sometimes just for attention. i know i would be supported, but if i am bisexual, i wouldn't want to come out, and i dont know why, but i just really really want to be straight. im just so confused, MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adna Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 Hi...i think I'm bi but idk...and idk how to come out to my parents becuase im muslim and they are little bit homophobic...idk what to do i feel like its better if i don't tell anybody about my sexuality i think its safer but i don't know...and i live in a really homophobic country so yeah MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 Hey, I’m going to tag in @Monsoon to help you out :) 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 On 5/17/2022 at 3:31 PM, mc said: Well, ive thought this for a while, but mostly because when i think about kissing/sex, i want to do it with a girl. i haven't exactly had a crush on a girl yet, but i might have one.... just not sure. i have only had 2 real crushes and they were both guys though. (im a girl) i live in a place that is very supportive of lgbt+ people, and im very supportive too. but im only in sixth grade, and SO MANy people have come out as something other than straight, sometimes just for attention. i know i would be supported, but if i am bisexual, i wouldn't want to come out, and i dont know why, but i just really really want to be straight. im just so confused, Hey there, Thanks for reaching out :) Can you tell me more about the crush you might have on the girl? What kinds of feelings are you having? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 19 hours ago, Adna said: Hi...i think I'm bi but idk...and idk how to come out to my parents becuase im muslim and they are little bit homophobic...idk what to do i feel like its better if i don't tell anybody about my sexuality i think its safer but i don't know...and i live in a really homophobic country so yeah Hey @Adna Welcome :) I'm wondering, is it safe for you to come out at the moment? Also, is it legal to be LGBTQ+ where you are? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mc Posted May 18, 2022 Author Share Posted May 18, 2022 3 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Thanks for reaching out :) Can you tell me more about the crush you might have on the girl? What kinds of feelings are you having? Well, shes one of my close friends, and sometimes she really bothers me and frustrates me, while sometimes, idk i kinda get butterflies... im not positive about it though, it's not really like another crush I've head MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 13 hours ago, mc said: Well, shes one of my close friends, and sometimes she really bothers me and frustrates me, while sometimes, idk i kinda get butterflies... im not positive about it though, it's not really like another crush I've head Can you tell me how it's not like another crush you've had? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adna Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 23 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Thanks for reaching out :) Can you tell me more about the crush you might have on the girl? What kinds of feelings are you having? Hii! I live in Bosnia and Herzegovina i don't think its illegal to be LGBTQ+ but people here are very homophobic and they will tell you that you hate God and stupid stuff like that... MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 20, 2022 Share Posted May 20, 2022 Hey there, Ah, okay. If you did come out, is there a chance you could be put in any danger? That's the main thing, keeping you safe. What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adna Posted May 20, 2022 Share Posted May 20, 2022 34 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Ah, okay. If you did come out, is there a chance you could be put in any danger? That's the main thing, keeping you safe. What do you think? Hey i don't think going out is the best option idk I think I can go out to my sister but I'm afraid,I feel safer not telling anyone... MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 On 5/20/2022 at 11:27 AM, Adna said: Hey i don't think going out is the best option idk I think I can go out to my sister but I'm afraid,I feel safer not telling anyone... Hey there, Okay, well your safety is the most important thing, and although it sucks to stay in the closet because of potential danger, we want to make sure you're okay. How are you feeling about this? I can imagine it's quite tough for you. I hope you're as okay as you can be. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adna Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 On 5/21/2022 at 12:35 PM, Monsoon said: Hey there, Okay, well your safety is the most important thing, and although it sucks to stay in the closet because of potential danger, we want to make sure you're okay. How are you feeling about this? I can imagine it's quite tough for you. I hope you're as okay as you Hi..yes, I'm fine, but I'd be better off as my parents know who I am, but I'm really so scared to tell them ... but I feel safe here in this app and I feel like I can be my own so thank you a lot...<333 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 6 minutes ago, Adna said: Hi..yes, I'm fine, but I'd be better off as my parents know who I am, but I'm really so scared to tell them ... but I feel safe here in this app and I feel like I can be my own so thank you a lot...<333 Hey, I'm glad you feel safe here :) Just so I'm clear on what you mean, do you mean you'd be better off with them knowing now as in you're going to tell them soon? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adna Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 40 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey, I'm glad you feel safe here :) Just so I'm clear on what you mean, do you mean you'd be better off with them knowing now as in you're going to tell them soon? <33... no i will not tell them cuz they are little bit homophobic ... MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 13 hours ago, Adna said: <33... no i will not tell them cuz they are little bit homophobic ... Ah, okay, just wanted to check. How does it feel holding that in from them? I'm wondering, where in your life could you be more open? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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