Lesbian to Bi?

[Tc.2715]

I have been publicly Lesbian for four years now and now I’m questioning my sexuality. Am I Bi? How would I be judged by coming out as lesbian for all these years then all of the sudden be bi? I’m embarrassed how lost I am. Is turning bi from lesbian a normal thing? 

[Daisie]

Hey @Tc.2715 Welcome to the Community!

I am Daisie a Community Warden here on the forums and I just wanted to drop by and give you a warm welcome to this amazing safe space. We have Trained Mentors on hand to offer some support and advice, so I'll tag them in so you know who they are and so they can reach out to you. @Monsoon & @Blondie

Look forward to seeing you around. 

[Monsoon]

3 hours ago, Tc.2715 said:

I have been publicly Lesbian for four years now and now I’m questioning my sexuality. Am I Bi? How would I be judged by coming out as lesbian for all these years then all of the sudden be bi? I’m embarrassed how lost I am. Is turning bi from lesbian a normal thing? 

Hey there,

Welcome to our community and thank you for coming to us for advice. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give support to those who reach out to us. 

It's okay to feel confused about your sexuality; sexuality is fluid meaning that it can change over time, but this can be tricky to navigate, especially when you were so confident in your sexuality before. I will say one thing though; although it might not seem like it at the moment, it will get better eventually, but it might just take some time and patience. What do you think? Also, I'm wondering, can you tell me more about the thoughts and feelings you're having that have led to you question your sexuality? 

[Ryebread]

I think you should be fine re-coming out as bi. Have you ever questioned if you were a bi-lesbian? That term might make you more comfortable.