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So I am in this acting group and there is this 8 year old boy. Well he was looking at my breasts and at me. I also had to put my had on his chest as part of the skit. He kept wanting me to do it again.

also a couple weeks ago we were reading a script and he came up to me and said, “here take this.” And handed me a prop then walked away, but not before winking at me.

I don’t really know what to do in these situations! But I am wondering if he has a crush on me. If so, he is not the first boy in the group to have a crush on me. 
I am also the oldest bye like 3 years.

Thanks!

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14 hours ago, Chocolate chip 9909 said:

So I am in this acting group and there is this 8 year old boy. Well he was looking at my breasts and at me. I also had to put my had on his chest as part of the skit. He kept wanting me to do it again.

also a couple weeks ago we were reading a script and he came up to me and said, “here take this.” And handed me a prop then walked away, but not before winking at me.

I don’t really know what to do in these situations! But I am wondering if he has a crush on me. If so, he is not the first boy in the group to have a crush on me. 
I am also the oldest bye like 3 years.

Thanks!

Hey there,

It sounds like he might have a crush on you from what you've said. I'm wondering, how is this making you feel? Are you feeling pretty uncomfortable about it? 

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15 hours ago, Chocolate chip 9909 said:

Yes I am very uncomfortable and I don’t want to hurt his feelings but he is 8 and I’m 13 sooo yeah.

But I’m just no good in these situations so I thought maybe someone would know what to do.

I think the best way overall is to be kind but clear and assert your boundaries. If the winking and staring (or anything else) continues say something like "that's inappropriate and makes me very uncomfortable"  and remove yourself from the situation. Could you have a chat with whoever runs the group and ask them to keep an eye out? You deserve to be able to enjoy the group without feeling uncomfortable.

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