Should I tell my crush?

[Chocolate chip 9909]

So I figured out I had a crush on my best friend (same gender) and I’m not sure if I feel that way anymore. But should I tell her?

I want to be honest but also keep our friendship intact. Also I think she’s straight but not completely sure.

let me know if u have any advice!

Edited May 4, 2022 by Chocolate chip 9909

[Dywwik]

I also am in a similar situation, where I have a crush on a guy friend at school, and he clearly is flirting with me.  I gave him signs on my interest. I think he caught on. I figured out lately that he also has a boyfriend. I don't know if our "relationship" will evolve into something else. 

I think, and I know this is hard for women to see, but flirt  with her and see her reaction first. I'm probably way off with this because I don't really get WXW relationships, but I think it's a good place to start! :3 

[Chocolate chip 9909]

Thanks for the advice!

but I don’t know if I’m ready for a relationship yet since I’m only in 7 grade.

Also good luck!  

[Monsoon]

6 hours ago, Chocolate chip 9909 said:

So I figured out I had a crush on my best friend (same gender) and I’m not sure if I feel that way anymore. But should I tell her?

I want to be honest but also keep our friendship intact. Also I think she’s straight but not completely sure.

let me know if u have any advice!

Hey there,

Thanks for coming to us for advice on this :)

I think that in your situation, I would want to maybe explore whether I still have that crush or not and then think about whether you want to tell them. What do you think would be best? Once you know how you feel, you then might have more of an idea as to whether you should tell her or not. 

[Chocolate chip 9909]

Thank u!

[Monsoon]

12 hours ago, Chocolate chip 9909 said:

Thank u!

That's okay! Would you like anymore support, or are you good for now? 

[Chocolate chip 9909]

I think I’m ok for now.

[Monsoon]

19 hours ago, Chocolate chip 9909 said:

I think I’m ok for now.

Okay! If you need anything else, just let us know :) 

[Chocolate chip 9909]

I just told her and she was completely fine with it!!  But she is straight.

well I’m so glad that it worked out ok!

[Blondie]

5 hours ago, Chocolate chip 9909 said:

I just told her and she was completely fine with it!!  But she is straight.

well I’m so glad that it worked out ok!

[Arsenal6473]

On 5/3/2022 at 7:43 PM, Chocolate chip 9909 said:

So I figured out I had a crush on my best friend (same gender) and I’m not sure if I feel that way anymore. But should I tell her?

I want to be honest but also keep our friendship intact. Also I think she’s straight but not completely sure.

let me know if u have any advice!

Well I guess just lay it out invite her over or something and just discuss it if she doesn't think of you that way then I guess she's missing out