Im sad

[ImTired]

I came here cus I'm a bit confused or uh

sad ig

My girlfriend is suicidal, and well

im not sure about the 'girlfriend' part

the only reason I think I'm bi is cus I date them

But im not even sure if im bi yet

and I dont want to make her sad

Cause idk what would happen to her

Am i over thinking?

[Daisie]

Hey there @ImTired Welcome to the Ditch the Label Community.

I am Daisie a Community Warden here on the Forums, and I’ve just read your post and I’m going to tag our Trained Mentors in so they can reach out to you. @Monsoon & @Blondie

[Monsoon]

17 hours ago, ImTired said:

I came here cus I'm a bit confused or uh

sad ig

My girlfriend is suicidal, and well

im not sure about the 'girlfriend' part

the only reason I think I'm bi is cus I date them

But im not even sure if im bi yet

and I dont want to make her sad

Cause idk what would happen to her

Am i over thinking?

Hey there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. We can definitely talk this through with you and help you figure out a way forward; that's what we are here for :)

Before we do that, i just want to check, is your girlfriend safe at the moment? I can imagine it's stressful for you knowing that she is feeling this way, but there are things you can do to help her. I'm wondering, would you like to pass on this information to her? She might find it helpful if she is feeling like she's in a crisis and needs to take action straight away. There are some numbers to call:

• UK - The Samaritans: 116 123 (24/7 service)
• USA - NSPL: 1-800-273-8255
• A list of worldwide crisis lines: https://www.befrienders.org
• An app I can recommend: https://www.prevent-suicide.org.uk/find-help-now/stay-alive-app/ this has safety plans to make sure you don't harm yourself and you might find it useful. 
• If you’re in the UK, you can text SHOUT to 85258 when you are struggling, and a trained crisis volunteer will text you back. This is great if you find talking on the phone challenging, and it’s completely free 24/7