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19 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said:

How can I pass as more mascu in terms of body language?

Hey there,

I'm wondering, can you tell me more about what your body language is like at the moment? Also, what would you say examples of mascu body language on other people might be?

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I don't know I'm supposing how I sit or walk or how I seem to act around my friends 

My friends know about me being trans. 

It's just sometimes I wish I could see myself and not think I'm being feminine

 

Sorry if this doesn't make sense 

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Because if I'm sat with my legs slightly open I'm told to be a lady by people who don't know which yeah I understand.

I read somewhere that when a man speaks and is being interrupted he carry the sentence through.(this may be a stereotype I'm not sure)

If I get interrupted I've been taught to be quiet.

This bugs me because I can never fully get my point across 

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19 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said:

Because if I'm sat with my legs slightly open I'm told to be a lady by people who don't know which yeah I understand.

I read somewhere that when a man speaks and is being interrupted he carry the sentence through.(this may be a stereotype I'm not sure)

If I get interrupted I've been taught to be quiet.

This bugs me because I can never fully get my point across 

Hey there,

It sounds like you've got a few ideas in what you've said to present in a way that's more ideal for you, such as not crossing your legs when sitting and carrying your sentence through when you're interrupted. Could you maybe give those a go for a week and see how you feel? 

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I guess I could but as far as the sentence one goes I don't know

Do you have any ideas?

Anything else I could do?

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15 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said:

I guess I could but as far as the sentence one goes I don't know

Do you have any ideas?

Anything else I could do?

Hey there,

I think it might be good to stick to just a few at first as you might find it hard to adjust to, so maybe keep it simple and see how it goes for a week or so? It's completely up to you and this is just an idea. I think this kind of thing is all about pushing your comfort zones and learning to be more comfortable with expressing yourself. What do you think? 

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Yeah thanks for that

Also I replied to your private message yesterday. I wont be online later because were going out for dinner.

I dont think I'll be back till at least 5 or 6 pm

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Just now, Thisboiistrans said:

Hey bestie

Any updates?

Heyy!

And a few:

I'm at school (In science again lol)

Hard trying to focus on doing work with everything going on rn

Trying to get thru the day. . .

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1 minute ago, Thisboiistrans said:

You'll be fine I promise ya

Have you smiled yet?

Every time u post, yeah :)

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And you just made me smile

I'm so glad I get to help you with everything. But check out the other one.

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@Monsoon

Update: I've gone a whole 4 days without crossing my legs when i sit and it feels so much more comfortable.

Mayweather talk about the sentence idea in our private message?

 

Many thanks,

Me

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@SunRay26

The day has come where I have to leave this website for good. I'm sorry that I cant stay longer but I have gcses in a few weeks and I need to prioritise them.

I hope I've been a help and I hope you get the best out of life because ray your amazing.

Dont forget that,keep trying even if I'm not going to be around.

Remember me. And know you'll be fine.

 

Yours 

Thisboiistrans 

xxx

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On 4/16/2022 at 6:24 PM, Thisboiistrans said:

@Monsoon

Update: I've gone a whole 4 days without crossing my legs when i sit and it feels so much more comfortable.

Mayweather talk about the sentence idea in our private message?

Many thanks,

Me

Hey,

That's so good; well done :)

With the things like this that make you feel uncomfortable, you just need to keep doing them and working through it; that's the only way. Also, I just saw your other post about leaving here for good. I just want to say good luck with your GCSEs and we are always here if you need us. 

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Hey I'm back

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8 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said:

Update 2: I've convinced my mum that tis is a GCSE website given to me by teachers and shes letting me stay on!

I'm so happy I don't have to leave the friends I've made on here

I'm going to tag them all in this message

@SunRay26

@TheMexorcist 2.0

@Monsoon

Hey,

I will reply to your message now. Speak soon. 

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Hey there,

That's good you've got the German one out of the way - which one is next? How are you feeling about the exams? 

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