PLANT Posted March 5, 2022 Share Posted March 5, 2022 is it weird to talk about being pan / bi (cant figure that out yet), if ive been dating a boy for a year? we are still in high school, but im not sure how comfortable he will be ???? anyone else come out during a relationship MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted March 5, 2022 Share Posted March 5, 2022 1 hour ago, PLANT said: is it weird to talk about being pan / bi (cant figure that out yet), if ive been dating a boy for a year? we are still in high school, but im not sure how comfortable he will be ???? anyone else come out during a relationship Hey, Yeah, it’s completely normal to talk about it. We all have a need to know who we are, and if we cannot explore that, it can be tricky to work through. I’m wondering, how do you think he might react? What is your intuition telling you? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PLANT Posted March 5, 2022 Author Share Posted March 5, 2022 36 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey, Yeah, it’s completely normal to talk about it. We all have a need to know who we are, and if we cannot explore that, it can be tricky to work through. I’m wondering, how do you think he might react? What is your intuition telling you? I'm worried he will think it means I want to break up / am planning on breaking up because otherwise why would I be thinking about by potential future with other people / genders? because for myself deciding what sexuality am takes so much questioning and considering, which I feel like is frowned upon in relationships as you are meant to only be thinking about 'your' person? I obviously don't believe this as i think relationships can be strengthened when we understand ourselves, but i am worried he wont. Do i have to just go for it? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted March 6, 2022 Share Posted March 6, 2022 Hey there, I'm wondering, even if he does plan on breaking up with you after you open up to him, do you still think it's important to share how you're feeling about your sexuality or not? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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