Lani Posted February 17, 2022 Share Posted February 17, 2022 So. Im a tall thin blonde with nice features. I have an amazing job that I work hard at. Im a good friend and I care about others deeply. I try hard to improve myself to those around me. Yet I am extremely hard on myself. I cannot accept anything positive from others, compliments, spoken rewards, nice gestures, etc. I hate when people say they love me. Those words hurt. What should I do about this? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted February 17, 2022 Share Posted February 17, 2022 4 hours ago, Lani said: So. Im a tall thin blonde with nice features. I have an amazing job that I work hard at. Im a good friend and I care about others deeply. I try hard to improve myself to those around me. Yet I am extremely hard on myself. I cannot accept anything positive from others, compliments, spoken rewards, nice gestures, etc. I hate when people say they love me. Those words hurt. What should I do about this? Hey there. Thanks for sharing with us. I noticed the title of your topic, and I'm wondering, do you think you deserve confidence? It's a really interesting question to ask of yourself and I'm curious to know your answer. Also, I'm wondering, have you always disliked receiving anything positive from other people? If not, I wonder, what changed to make you start disliking it? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lani Posted February 17, 2022 Author Share Posted February 17, 2022 4 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there. Thanks for sharing with us. I noticed the title of your topic, and I'm wondering, do you think you deserve confidence? It's a really interesting question to ask of yourself and I'm curious to know your answer. Also, I'm wondering, have you always disliked receiving anything positive from other people? If not, I wonder, what changed to make you start disliking it? I think I deserve to be confident but deep down everything positive about me is all wrong. Yes ive always disliked positivity from other towards me. I want to accept it but i have a mental block for that. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted February 18, 2022 Share Posted February 18, 2022 Hey there. Can you tell me more about what you mean when you say everything positive about you is all wrong? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lani Posted February 21, 2022 Author Share Posted February 21, 2022 On 2/18/2022 at 11:18 AM, Monsoon said: Hey there. Can you tell me more about what you mean when you say everything positive about you is all wrong? Sorry I took so long, I overthink alot and start to think that the good things ive done are actually harming others. I feel like im fake on the outside and im a bad person on the inside MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted February 21, 2022 Share Posted February 21, 2022 Thank you for telling me more. Can you tell me about one of the good things you've done that you think might have harmed someone else? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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