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Do I deserve confidence?


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So. Im a tall thin blonde with nice features. I have an amazing job that I work hard at. Im a good friend and I care about others deeply. I try hard to improve myself to those around me. Yet I am extremely hard on myself. I cannot accept anything positive from others, compliments, spoken rewards, nice gestures, etc. I hate when people say they love me. Those words hurt. What should I do about this? 

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4 hours ago, Lani said:

So. Im a tall thin blonde with nice features. I have an amazing job that I work hard at. Im a good friend and I care about others deeply. I try hard to improve myself to those around me. Yet I am extremely hard on myself. I cannot accept anything positive from others, compliments, spoken rewards, nice gestures, etc. I hate when people say they love me. Those words hurt. What should I do about this? 

Hey there. Thanks for sharing with us.

I noticed the title of your topic, and I'm wondering, do you think you deserve confidence? It's a really interesting question to ask of yourself and I'm curious to know your answer. Also, I'm wondering, have you always disliked receiving anything positive from other people? If not, I wonder, what changed to make you start disliking it?

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4 hours ago, Monsoon said:

Hey there. Thanks for sharing with us.

I noticed the title of your topic, and I'm wondering, do you think you deserve confidence? It's a really interesting question to ask of yourself and I'm curious to know your answer. Also, I'm wondering, have you always disliked receiving anything positive from other people? If not, I wonder, what changed to make you start disliking it?

I think I deserve to be confident but deep down everything positive about me is all wrong. Yes ive always disliked positivity from other towards me. I want to accept it but i have a mental block for that. 

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On 2/18/2022 at 11:18 AM, Monsoon said:

Hey there. Can you tell me more about what you mean when you say everything positive about you is all wrong?

Sorry I took so long, I overthink alot and start to think that the good things ive done are actually harming others. I feel like im  fake on the outside and im a bad person on the inside

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Thank you for telling me more. Can you tell me about one of the good things you've done that you think might have harmed someone else? 

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