being gone down on for the first time

[bri_2332]

The girl i’m talking to just asked me about going down on me for the first time. I’m bi and i’ve never experienced being gone down on (or going down on a girl). I’m nervous and not sure what to do.

Any tips will help :)

[vilhelmina]

This might seem like a stupid answer - but just talk to her about it! Tell her you're nervous, why you're nervous, and talk it out with her. If you're not ready for that yet - tell her. And if you're just generally nervous, that's normal and okay. If you feel like you're okay with doing it after talking to her, try it. If you dislike it or panic or anything of the sorts, don't hesitate to stop it. 

[Monsoon]

Hey @bri_2332

Thanks for bringing this question to our community :)

I'm thinking, could it be a good idea to let her do it to you first so that you can learn what feels good for you and use that for when it's your turn?