There's a guy in my friendship group I wanna confront but I'm worried he'll turn my other friends against me. HELP

[Flash]

We're a group of 6 friends and 1 of them is pretty mean and tries to get me to do things I don't want to do. Problem is some of our other friends go along with it. I want to confront him about it and I'm worried he'll then turn my other friends against me and I'll be kicked out the group. He's done this before. WWYD?

[bingabong]

have you thought about asking your other friends if they have the same problem with him? might be worth being non obvious when asking but u might be surprised 

[Flash]

I hadn't, but that's a good idea. I'll try that

I'll do it in person so they can't screenshot

[Monsoon]

3 hours ago, Flash said:

We're a group of 6 friends and 1 of them is pretty mean and tries to get me to do things I don't want to do. Problem is some of our other friends go along with it. I want to confront him about it and I'm worried he'll then turn my other friends against me and I'll be kicked out the group. He's done this before. WWYD?

Hey there,

Thanks for coming to us for support. I'm wondering, can you tell me more about the mean things he is doing and what he tries to get you to do? Also, with your friends going along with it, is it that they are also doing the same as him to you, or is he treating them in the same way he treats you?