rola Posted December 22, 2021 Share Posted December 22, 2021 Hi guys, hope u're fine!! Well i am not. I'm literally suffering, everybody bodyshame me with a big laugh then they said that was joke, i'm fine with getting curvy body but what about my mental health! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted December 23, 2021 Share Posted December 23, 2021 13 hours ago, rola said: Hi guys, hope u're fine!! Well i am not. I'm literally suffering, everybody bodyshame me with a big laugh then they said that was joke, i'm fine with getting curvy body but what about my mental health! Hello @rola Thank you for coming to us with what's going on at the moment. It sounds like people are being pretty mean to you, but thinking it's a joke. I'm wondering, can you tell me a little bit more about what they're saying? Also, do you think they know that it's hurting your feelings? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rola Posted December 23, 2021 Author Share Posted December 23, 2021 My roommate sometimes said, oh u're bigger than normal girls, so maybe i'll take u as a bf, or said well i can't help you choosing clothes because of your size. A friend of me too told me that eating all the time is a hilarious thing, so i'm gifted with a big stomach Btw i'm not that curvy, i'm a normal size but they make me feel so uncomfortable about myself, i don't understand why people are so mean? Why can't they accept people as they are, soooo judgy! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needtoknow Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 @rolayou could try talking to them about how them talking about your body makes you feel uncomfortable, and if they dont stop even after that ig its better for you to find new friends, because staying with the same toxic group might affect your mental state for a long time. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 On 12/23/2021 at 10:55 AM, rola said: My roommate sometimes said, oh u're bigger than normal girls, so maybe i'll take u as a bf, or said well i can't help you choosing clothes because of your size. A friend of me too told me that eating all the time is a hilarious thing, so i'm gifted with a big stomach Btw i'm not that curvy, i'm a normal size but they make me feel so uncomfortable about myself, i don't understand why people are so mean? Why can't they accept people as they are, soooo judgy! Hey, I'm really sorry, but for some reason, I completely missed your reply. How are you feeling at the moment? Would you still like support with this? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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