Music_Geek_846 Posted October 30, 2021 Share Posted October 30, 2021 I need help. So, I have a bf, dylan, who i love and he is awesome and he loves me too. But i haven't met him irl yet cuz i met him online and his mom hates me. But then theres my ex, ben, who i love still and who came over, played t or d with me, then kissed me like 7 times and we cuddled but he doesnt love me. and he gonna come over on monday. idk what to do cuz i ask my guy friends cuz i only have guy friends, and they are no help whatsoever. can someone just please help me with this situation? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 31, 2021 Share Posted October 31, 2021 Hey there, Thanks for opening up to us about this. We can definitely help you with this. I'm wondering, with your boyfriend that you've met online, what do you know about him? Is he who he says he is? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_846 Posted October 31, 2021 Author Share Posted October 31, 2021 Yeah. He is who he says he is. I do a zoom with him almost every day and we talk all day long. I even have pictures of him. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dewdrop Posted October 31, 2021 Share Posted October 31, 2021 Does Ben know about Dylan? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 1, 2021 Share Posted November 1, 2021 18 hours ago, Music_Geek_846 said: Yeah. He is who he says he is. I do a zoom with him almost every day and we talk all day long. I even have pictures of him. Hey there, When you Zoom, do you see his face? Also, I'm wondering, how old are both of you? I know I'm asking a lot of questions, but I just want to make sure that everything is okay because there can be some dangers with dating online, and your safety is our biggest priority. Speak soon. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_846 Posted November 1, 2021 Author Share Posted November 1, 2021 I see his face. And he's 15 and I'm 14. I see him through zoom and through pictures. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 2, 2021 Share Posted November 2, 2021 Hey, I'm glad that you have seen them on video call as there are a lot of people out there who pose as someone else, so that is good. I'm wondering, did Ben come over to yours yesterday? If so, how was it? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_846 Posted November 2, 2021 Author Share Posted November 2, 2021 He couldn't come over because my dad was home. But he might be coming over on Friday. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 21 hours ago, Music_Geek_846 said: He couldn't come over because my dad was home. But he might be coming over on Friday. Hey there, How are you doing? Have you had anymore thoughts as to what you might do about the situation? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_846 Posted November 3, 2021 Author Share Posted November 3, 2021 I don't want to do. I haven't any new thoughts about what to do. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 Hey there, That's okay. I guess I'm wondering, what is your gut feeling telling you to do? What feels like the best decision for you? With the second question, maybe reflect on the first answer that comes to mind. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_846 Posted November 3, 2021 Author Share Posted November 3, 2021 I decided to stay with my boyfriend. He' really is the best and I'm very lucky to have him. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 4, 2021 Share Posted November 4, 2021 Hey there, How are you feeling after making this decision? As I said, it's really important to do what you feel is best for you, and if it feels right, then that's amazing. Speak soon. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_846 Posted November 4, 2021 Author Share Posted November 4, 2021 It feels right. I love him and last night, we talked about what we are going to do when he turns 18 and when I'm 17. I'm gonna move in with him. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 Hey there, I'm glad to hear that it feels right for you. How is everything else going at the moment? Would you like support for anything else? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Music_Geek_846 Posted November 5, 2021 Author Share Posted November 5, 2021 Nope. I'm good for now. Thank you for your help! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted November 6, 2021 Share Posted November 6, 2021 Hey there, If you do need more support at any point, you know where to find us. Good luck with it all :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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