trimkeyboard7878 Posted October 28, 2021 Share Posted October 28, 2021 How do I figure out what my sexuality is, I think I'm bi and i'm going to try it for a while but i just don't know. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Hey there, Thanks for coming to us about this. I noticed on another topic that you mentioned about coming out to your friends as bisexual. I think that from what you've said here, there does seem to be uncertainty about your identity. Some people prefer to wait until they've figured out their identity before they come out; what do you think about that? Also, can I ask, when you say you want to try bi for a while, can you tell me more about what this might involve? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 17 hours ago, trimkeyboard7878 said: How do I figure out what my sexuality is, I think I'm bi and i'm going to try it for a while but i just don't know. finding out our sexuality won't happen like straight away it takes time, It takes time for different people it took two whole years for me to figure out that I am Bi sexual. I writ down why i think i like boys and girls and kept adding to it. i looked at girls in a relationship way and before i never did so that was a sign. i also looked on websites and your doing great asking people who can give you more cleaer answers. have a nice day MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trimkeyboard7878 Posted October 29, 2021 Author Share Posted October 29, 2021 4 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Thanks for coming to us about this. I noticed on another topic that you mentioned about coming out to your friends as bisexual. I think that from what you've said here, there does seem to be uncertainty about your identity. Some people prefer to wait until they've figured out their identity before they come out; what do you think about that? Also, can I ask, when you say you want to try bi for a while, can you tell me more about what this might involve? Well I came out to my very best friend who knows my life is a mess and that I have been trying to figure stuff out for a while and she said that if i'm not sure I can try different things and experiment for a while until I figure it out. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 30, 2021 Share Posted October 30, 2021 Hey there, Yeah, it can definitely be good to try out different things. Could you try chatting with girls and see how that makes you feel? Also, I'm wondering, what is happening at the moment to make you think that you're bi? What kind of thoughts and feelings are you having? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trimkeyboard7878 Posted October 30, 2021 Author Share Posted October 30, 2021 It is extremely hard to explain. I don't know how to answer. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 31, 2021 Share Posted October 31, 2021 Hey, That's okay, and it will become clearer over time. it won't always be like this, and it does get better :) I'm wondering, have you had crushes on guys before? If so, what thoughts and feelings did you have about them? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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