Lillyx Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 I have a 6 month old due to abuse I adore her to bits but I feel like i am always not very well mentally that i find myself useless and not good enough to be a mother at 15. i need answers 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 Hey there, Thank you for sharing how you're feeling with us. I think it's really common for parents, especially new ones, to feel like they aren't good enough. This feeling can become stronger if they also have other things going on, like mental health issues, as you said. If you like, we can talk about this in our private message? Let me know what works best for you. Speak soon. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 9, 2021 Author Share Posted October 9, 2021 Just now, Monsoon said: Hey there, Thank you for sharing how you feel. with us. I think it's really common for parents, especially new ones, to feel like they aren't good enough. This feeling can become stronger if they also have other things going on, like mental health issues, as you said. If you like, we can talk about this in our private message? Let me know what works best for you. Speak soon. sure I aren't going work i don't feel mentally ok MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 Hey there, I will message you now. Speak soon. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution Lillyx Posted October 9, 2021 Author Solution Share Posted October 9, 2021 1 hour ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, I will message you now. Speak soon. I thought about me being a mum to Layla. I am doing my best and I don't think I am a bad mum. Glad I am being strong! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 10, 2021 Share Posted October 10, 2021 Hey there, I'm glad to hear that you are doing your best for her It sounds like you have a lot of support from your parents as well which I'm sure helps too. What helped you to shift from the negative mindset to positive? I'm glad you were able to see it differently. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 10, 2021 Author Share Posted October 10, 2021 1 hour ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, I'm glad to hear that you are doing your best for her It sounds like you have a lot of support from your parents as well which I'm sure helps too. What helped you to shift from the negative mindset to positive? I'm glad you were able to see it differently. not doing well. want to d*e 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 10, 2021 Share Posted October 10, 2021 Hello Lilly, I'm sorry to hear that you aren't feeling so good again. I just want you to know that we can continue to talk privately on the forum messenger so that we can give you the support you need. I will reply to your message now. Speak soon. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 10, 2021 Author Share Posted October 10, 2021 Just now, Monsoon said: Hello Lilly, I'm sorry to hear that you aren't feeling so good again. I just want you to know that we can continue to talk privately on the forum messenger so that we can give you the support you need. I will reply to your message now. Speak soon. thank you 2 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XSnowX Posted October 13, 2021 Share Posted October 13, 2021 On 10/9/2021 at 9:45 AM, Lillyrose4 said: I have a 6 month old due to abuse I adore her to bits but I feel like i am always not very well mentally that i find myself useless and not good enough to be a mother at 15. i need answers No your not. You shown strength by being here and keeping her warm, fed and safe. Not many people could do that at your age! Be proud your doing so well for someone your age! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 14, 2021 Author Share Posted October 14, 2021 11 hours ago, JessFlower33 said: No your not. You shown strength by being here and keeping her warm, fed and safe. Not many people could do that at your age! Be proud your doing so well for someone your age! thxs 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted October 16, 2021 Share Posted October 16, 2021 Lilly , you love Layla, and thats what makes you a great mum. Because you love her, youll make the best choices. when in doubt of what to do, look to your own childhood. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firefly 23 Posted October 16, 2021 Share Posted October 16, 2021 On 10/9/2021 at 3:45 AM, Lillyrose4 said: I have a 6 month old due to abuse I adore her to bits but I feel like i am always not very well mentally that i find myself useless and not good enough to be a mother at 15. i need answers You are one of the BEST people that I know!!! I am sure that you are an awesome mother!! (You are an awesome Chat mama!!) 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XSnowX Posted October 16, 2021 Share Posted October 16, 2021 5 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: Lilly , you love Layla, and thats what makes you a great mum. Because you love her, youll make the best choices. when in doubt of what to do, look to your own childhood. Aww I hope that makes her smile! 5 hours ago, Firefly 23 said: You are one of the BEST people that I know!!! I am sure that you are an awesome mother!! (You are an awesome Chat mama!!) She is such a amazing person! She helps us all even through her most crappie times ❤ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 16, 2021 Author Share Posted October 16, 2021 22 minutes ago, JessFlower33 said: Aww I hope that makes her smile! She is such a amazing person! She helps us all even through her most crappie times ❤ these comments omg 5 hours ago, Firefly 23 said: You are one of the BEST people that I know!!! I am sure that you are an awesome mother!! (You are an awesome Chat mama!!) these have made me smile omg. 5 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: Lilly , you love Layla, and thats what makes you a great mum. Because you love her, youll make the best choices. when in doubt of what to do, look to your own childhood. I do love her! omg 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XSnowX Posted October 16, 2021 Share Posted October 16, 2021 53 minutes ago, Lillyrose4 said: these comments omg these have made me smile omg. I do love her! omg Welcome no problem MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XSnowX Posted October 17, 2021 Share Posted October 17, 2021 How are you feeling today? ☺ How's Layla ?? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 21, 2021 Author Share Posted October 21, 2021 On 10/17/2021 at 8:52 AM, JessFlower33 said: How are you feeling today? ☺ How's Layla ?? sorry i replied late. shes okay asleep rn and she is a little monkey 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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