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Hi everyone. It's been a while since i've posted on here (or been on social media at all). 
I haven't came out to anyone, besides my best friend Fred. And i dont think i want to, to be honest. I'm not planning to come out to my parents until i go into university and move out. I haven't came out to my closest friends either, not even my boyfriend. Most of my friends are homophobic, and i think they'd be mad if i told them their friend was pansexual. My friends, and my boyfriend, are very religious (but so am i). They don't really believe that people should be gay, bi, pan, ace, etc. because it's a sin.  
I'm scared to come out, and i would just really love someone to talk to. Thank you for reading this, have a good day. 🙂

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Hey @Bee_Is_Yes

It's good to hear from you again. How has it been being away from social media?

I completely get why you are scared to come out; when people are religious, as you say, there can often be negative beliefs towards the LGBTQ+ community. I've supported many people in your situation before, and although the fear is very real, they often find that once they come out, their loved ones react well. If they don't react that well at first, they usually come around to the news eventually, but it can just take time, so try your best to be patient and hold out hope. I just read your other post and saw that you came out to your boyfriend and he was really supportive - that's amazing! How are you feeling? 

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4 hours ago, Monsoon said:

Hey @Bee_Is_Yes

It's good to hear from you again. How has it been being away from social media?

I completely get why you are scared to come out; when people are religious, as you say, there can often be negative beliefs towards the LGBTQ+ community. I've supported many people in your situation before, and although the fear is very real, they often find that once they come out, their loved ones react well. If they don't react that well at first, they usually come around to the news eventually, but it can just take time, so try your best to be patient and hold out hope. I just read your other post and saw that you came out to your boyfriend and he was really supportive - that's amazing! How are you feeling? 

I feel alot better about myself away form social media, to be honest. Not as much stress 🙂

And i'm feeling great! I told my mom this morning, and i did have to explain what pansexuality is, but i'm happy i came out. 

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